It’s All In The Family

Well, we KNOW it’s a sad world. A celebrity blog isn’t necessarily the place to go for deep thought, ya know?

missouri girl Says: December 16th, 2006 at 5:29 pm - why are u on JJ then…please, give it a rest!!!

missouri girl Says: December 16th, 2006 at 5:29 pm

I love the Pitts and all, but it is the pitts when more people comment on looks and Oscars and X’s then whats really going on in places like Darfur AND Camodia, Angelina said Maddox would probably be a street trash picker upper. All these refugees ,wars, hunger, aids and even Brad said people care more about him than all theses people suffering. It is a sad world we live in. This is a nice escape from reality with the war and terror and crime and homeless right here in our country and afar. So that being said, can we all get along and stop the insults from both sides. I noticed it hasn’t been as bad lately, Jared has it under control more than the other sites.

^^^

You need to cease like pronto trying to tell others how to utilize their time. You don’t want to be here so split. You will NOT hurt anyones feelings if you go. There are plenty of other places I’m sure YOU could be.

I really can’t believe your nerve.

jpf

Sorry my point was that I wish we didnt have so much hate here,when there so much hate elsewhere in many different forms. The ‘I’ll get even with you, and bash her” is getting real old. Debate is good but you all know it gets deep and there are some hateful argumentive people on here, when its uncalled for. Jareds doing a fine job, I just thought I would make my plea.

QQQQ—Sorry you misunderstood me, didn’t mean to offend you—–give what a rest?…….

QQQQ, I am gonna give it a rest, even though I have never mentioned the haters b4…I usually dont repeat myself and obviously I sure as heck don’t have the time you do on this blog to comment over and over. Have a gr8 day QQQQ.

****TGS AFTER PARTY CLIPS****

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BIue1_7OGUQ

I counted 29 posts from QQQQ TODAY AND THAT WAS JUST A QUICK COUNT AND THE EVENING IS STILL YOUNG……..its saturday night dude, you got any family anything else to do than nit pic?

Oh My Says:

December 16th, 2006 at 11:37 am
Aniston could never be friends with Pitt. She’s not mature enough to handle it. She can’t handle his family and knowing how deep he fell for Angelina and having that as a reality in her life instead of pictures and stories in magazines and ent shows.

————————–

Truer words.

That’s why I have to give it to Paltry over Maniston. She cleaned up the mess she made, as best she could. Although, knowing Paltry’s obnoxious ass, the reason she was able to do it, is because she knows she is the one that betrayed him, and caused the end of the union - which in terms of ‘forgiveness,’ and rectifying makes it easier on THAT party, than one who for all intents and purposes got left behind, like Maniston - not for Angelina Jolie, but just in life.

So here’s my thesis.

WHAT BRAD DID WRONG:
He married a woman on the rebound from someone else, with his emotions still in upheaval over her and what had been done to him. As much as Maniston was messed up on her own, before he ever came along, this messed Maniston up more in the head. This made her even more self-conscious and insecure about herself and her relationship to him. I personally think this is why she acted like she did towards him in that relationship — I think they decided to be a diferent breed, not fairy-tale-ish, or full of overwhelming ‘I would die for you passion’ but ‘friends’ and companions who were committed to each other and planning a life together. I have no doubt Brad thought that as they GREW, and perhaps had a family - that THAT would be the tie that would further bind him to a person that okay, maybe he didn’t have a lot in common with — and it would replace that ‘dream’ he thought he had with Paltry. But I think Maniston was so insecure about his previous relationship, she did not want to look like the little TV girl wifey so lottery lucky to have landed Pitt that she started a family right off and put her career on the back burner. I recalled reading that Brad had sent Paltry all these flowers when she won the Oscar…I recall Paltry on the eve of Brad’s honeymoon, giving an interview where she’s obviously saddened over what has occurred between them, and so she’s yapping her big trap about it (just as Man is about to marry the guy) *By the way, that was the only time I firmly took Man’s side in all of this…when Paltry started yapping her trap about Brad in a world exclusive, that his new bride was sure to hear about. The fact that the previous woman (Paltrow) was an Oscar winning actress, and slightly better looking than Maniston, only fueled her low self-esteem, ambition, passive-aggressive tendencies, and desperate need to be validated as an actress and movie star in her own right. This was most likely an insidious thing that ate away at her self-confidence and actually made her distance herself (STUPIDLY) from him. Her ‘dk if he’s the love of my life’ comment, and the ‘merger’ stuff, and all the anti-romantic descriptives spoke to that. Instead of running to Brad, she was running away, and treating him like a brother when she spoke of him - and somehow she thought he would remain right where he was running in place, never getting anywhere. They were like two hamsters in a cage. So I think her window with Brad closed in 2003 actually.

Remarkably enough, I read an interview where she said “Brad loves me unconditionally.” Well, more fool her. Seriously, she is VERY deluded to have ever thought that. Sorry folks, someone needs to slap some sense into her tiny brain. Sometimes children and parents don’t even have ‘unconditional love’ between them (ask Maniston, ask Maniston’s mother!!) - and YET, she’s saying Brad has that for her??! What a dunce. She’s saying RIGHT THERE…I can do anything, treat him any way at all, neglect him, neglect his dreams, hang out with my godesses, work, work, work….never see him on location…I can refuse to address just WHY my husband can go 6-9 months and not see me at all…I can do all that and he will STILL love me, and be with me always. THAT is what she is saying. Did she think dude was a stuffed animal?

So I say to Maniston, sure, he will still love you, ‘AS A FRIEND’ as HE, is WALKING OUT THE DOOR AWAY FROM YOU FOR ALL TIME, and anticipating a relationship with a woman who will grow with him and love him, and make his dreams come true.

WHAT ANGELINA DID WRONG:
Nothing. LOL

WHAT MANISTON DID WRONG:
Everything you could ever do wrong in a marriage. She swept things under the rug. Didn’t address the underlying root cause of their ‘rough and nasty patches’ and delusionally thought Brad Pitt was a care bear she could occasionally dust off, sit on the shelf, and he would always be there for her.

Her actions, speak a lot as to why everyone considers Brad a wonderful and sweet person, she didn’t think Brad ‘would go for his,’ she THOUGHT he loved and cared for her enough, that would prevent him from wounding her terribly. I think for a time, that guilt-tripped Brad out - the realization that he had married on the rebound, and that he was NOW, soooo responsible for another person’s emotional well-being…this is the reason he took as long as he did to extricate himself, why it was so protracted and farcical at the end….Brad Pitt is a good man. A good man that makes me mistakes. But in the end, he knows what everyone knows - you only have one life. In the long run, he wasn’t doing Maniston or himself any favors staying in a dead marriage.

LESSONS for ANGELINA:
The only thing that used to make me a teensy bit worried, is that her uninhibited obvious show of love and affection was being tamped….I wonder if it’s she herself who put the breaks on, or if she (and Brad) are sensitive to the way in which they must present themselves, and so they have been acting accordingly…which is very subdued in terms of PDA. But then I think, this is a woman who met this man - and as soon as possible, because she KNEW him and loved him, she embarked upon life WITH him, re-naming her children, and having a baby and being together for the last (almost) 2 years non-stop….culminating in the beautiful display we’ve had this week. It’s at these times, that I realize, that Brad Pitt is IT for Angelina, and she doesn’t have to climb his bones on the red carpet to satisfy me - he KNOWS he’s IT…those are his children at home, and that’s his woman, calling him ‘my love,’ on National TV. I think more than anything, this week will free both of them up to love unapologetically no matter who may be watching. We’re in for some deliciously good times Bamzsters! Hold on! :-)

Brad and Angie look so sweet and in love at the premier of “The Good Shepherd”. I
had to go to 20/20 web site to express how disgusted I was with Diane Sawyer’s
tasteless interview. Angie, however, handled herself very well. I particularly liked
her answer to that stupid “kiss” question. DID YOU HEAR THAT JEN & FRIENDS???
Ha Ha!

QQQQ - Thanks. Much appreciated. :-)

missouri girl Says: December 16th, 2006 at 6:08 pm

I counted 29 posts from QQQQ TODAY AND THAT WAS JUST A QUICK COUNT AND THE EVENING IS STILL YOUNG……..its saturday night dude, you got any family anything else to do than nit pic?

^^

You take time to count the posts of another person here and YOU want to push up on somebody about how they spend their time, and you don’t get why you’ve gotten on a few folks last damn nerves?

The question is if YOU have friends let alone family because if this is your personality with them, I understand why you’re here instead of with them.

jpf

Hey kearnie, I always forget the jjb link too — what I do now, is just go to Google and type in jjb, and it’s the first hit! :-)