Margaret Cho on Virginia Tech Shooting
Comedian Margaret Cho posted this very eloquently put blog entry on her official website entitled “Our Humanity”:
“Whenever anything really bad happens around Korean people, that is when I would like to hide, go to Hawaii and eat spam sushi until it blows over. I don’t want to comment on it because I don’t want to escalate the situation and I don’t want to implicate myself in it. I don’t want to ‘come out’ as Asian because therein lies a tremendous responsibility that I never volunteered for, that I don’t have any real control over, and that is as mysterious to me as it is to someone who isn’t Asian.
So here is the whole terrible mess of the shootings at Virginia Tech. I look at the shooter’s expressionless face on the news and he looks so familiar, like he could be in my family. Just another one of us. But how can he be us when what he has done is so terrible? Here is where I can really envy white people because when white people do something that is inexplicably awful, so brutally and horribly wrong, nobody says – “do you think it is because he is white?” There are no headlines calling him the “White shooter.” There is no mention of race because there is no thought in anyone’s mind that his race had anything to do with his crime.
So much attention is focused on the Asian-ness of the shooter, how the Korean community is reacting to it, South Korea’s careful condolences and cautiously expressed fear that it will somehow impact the South Korean population at large.
What is lost here is the grief. What is lost is the great, looming sadness that we should all feel over this. We lose our humanity to racism, time and time again.
I extend my deepest sympathies to all those who lost their loved ones, their children, their friends and family, in this unimaginable tragedy. I send them all the love I have in me, and I encourage everyone to do the same.”








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rainbowbrite Says:
April 20th, 2007 at 5:32 pm - flag comment
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White people did not “build” this country. They stole it from Native Americans and built it on the backs of the slaves they brought from Africa and the Asians they abused to build their railroads.
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Spot on!
this is simply not true—race, just like gender and age, are always the general demographics that reporters will state when reporting. it’s basic reporting. cho is the one making it a racial issue by blogging about how it’s not a racial issue. why waste time blogging about a race thing, when lives have been lost.
To Peace: Perez Hilton is an idiot, no one with a brain reads his crap and esp. no one who a mourning VT. Thus those comments are from irrational people with no livs. This isn’t about him being Korean. Very little has been said about people blaiming Koreans. I’ve heard of NO threats to other Koreans on VT campus, although there might have been.
But this isn’t about race or color or whatever and the news isn’t making it about it. It’s people like you all that sit on the internet all day, finding bits and pieces of different puzzles trying to make your own sense about them. It’s a tragedy, that shouldn’t happened. Those at the heart of the issue aren’t pointing figures at Asians. Victim’s Families aren’t blaming Cho’s family or other Koreans, they are mourning their loss. The police aren’t saying “oh he’s Asian that’s why he shot people” they’re asking what went so wrong that led him to do such a thing.
Get your facts straight, and NOT from some paparazzi site.
well said Margaret, Pandora and Panda6.
“In most cases you can’t look at a white person and know what nationality that person is. But with Asian people it’s pretty apparent.”
Patty, comment 15
Are you honestly telling me that you can tellaccurately identify an Asian to be Chinese/Malaysian/Thai/Burmese/Indonesian/etc. just by looking at them? I think not. Patty, you seem very naive & that particular statement was incredibly stupid. “Asian” is NOT a nationality and, besides many Pacific Islanders & Native Americans can be mistakenly identified as such.
Now I can’t actually remember what I was originally going to say - I’m dumbfounded by the way that such an intelligent & valid statement has encouraged such ignorance & unnecessarily stupid comments from some people - Patty wasn’t the only culprit.
Let me tell you what would’ve happened if this had happened in India. Say, a white shooter had killed 32 college students. First of all, would’nt have a been a big deal because Indians are desensitized to human deaths because everyday people keep dying from hunger, abuse, terrorist attacks and so on. Secondly, the news would be ‘ American kills 32 people’, not white or black or race mentioned. Ofcourse, the nationality would be mentioned because people otherwise would’nt pay attention. Trust me, that’s how important human lives are in India. People dont care. Iam not exaggerating. And the incident would have probably only worsened the already existing dislike towards the americans. That’s all.
So, my point is, there will always be resentment among people of different races and nationalities. If it was’nt for those differences, world would be just one world, no countries, no boundaries and peace everywhere. And everyone in this world knows that that’s not going to happen. As long as their are different races, countries and ethnicities, these resentments will continue no matter what. The only thing is americans call themselves “non-racists” when it is not true. That’s all.
Forgot to mention the fact that in India you wont get guns unless you are part of some underworld network or something like that. Comman man owning a gun is very very rare. And gun related shootings only involve police and the criminal. Or the terrorists from pakistan killing indian citizens. I dont think an incident like this one has ever occured in Indian history.
Brava Margaret! *clapping loudly* What a beautifully put statement.
I have to say that while I really didn’t think of Cho in terms of his race (I have a brother that is a paranoid schizophrenic and that is first and foremost in my mind where Cho is concerned) I have to admit that I didn’t notice that the headlines included his race (”Asian Shooter”). She is right for pointing out that this should not be acceptable in the media - we never saw the Columbine shooters portrayed as “White shooters”. There is no need to label Cho in terms of his race - it had no influence on his crime.
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tainorican Says:
April 20th, 2007 at 6:05 pm - flag comment
To MAGNUS,
you point out that this country was built by white people. do you mean on the backs of the natives and other immigrants? because that would be accurate.
peace be with you
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agreed. i can’t believe someone actually wrote that white people built this country. what year am i in, 1700?
“Whenever anything really bad happens around Korean people, that is when I would like to hide, go to Hawaii and eat spam sushi until it blows over.
The thought of Margaret Cho existing makes me want to go to hide in Hawaii - she is a far worse embarrasment to us Asian Americans than Hui-Sung Cho ever will be… at least his actions can be explained by mental illness. Margaret Cho on the other hand lives for the sole purpose to PROVOKE and then hides behind the guise of “artistic expression”. Her blog postings, her quotes, her commentaries, her stage acts, all have stirred more hatred towards Asians than one disturbed “Asian gunman”. Don’t blame the media you stupid b***** - you’ve alreday, single handedly sterotyped Asian women as bitter, butt-ugly, fat, and unfunny lesbians with a major chip on their shoulders.
I am ashamed for feeling ashamed when i first heard the shooter was asian. I am just as ashamed for feeling relieved that the shooter was not my ethnicity. More than anything, I am ashamed that Margaret Cho shares my asianess.
Couldn’t have said it better myself. Very well put and I wish this is a message that can be reached rightfully.
Nicely written, RainbowBrite.
As for Patty who wrote : “In most cases you can’t look at a white person and know what nationality that person is. But with Asian people it’s pretty apparent”
Can you define what “white” is? Is it the color of the skin? If that’s the case, then I’m prolly more “white” than you… but I will proudly say that I’m Asian. When I was in college way back when in the states, most of my classmates thought that I was *gasp* white… but when I came back home, I blended in right into the crowd. So, please don’t categorize a person’s ethnicity by how they look.
For those who wrote about how if an American went to South Korea and started shooting, it’ll all be screamed out in the headlines, please remember South Korea isn’t as multiracial as the US is. In fact, other than the “white” expats who live there, it’s virtually all Koreans.
Post No. 85, seems to me your comments show its more of a personal issue of against Margaret Cho’s lifestyle and publicness. Of course, within the Asian culture, women are supposed to act more demurely and subservient (oh hush up, I’m female, Asian and I’m speaking out based on my culture’s mentality, men and women alike). It’s cultivated from our culture and religious/spiritual upbringing. So when someone like Margaret Cho comes out, most get offended. I’ve read her postings and I’ve seen her comedy sketches - a lot of jokes actually hits close to home. She tells it like it is, albeit with humor. It’s comedy for goodness sakes. And she’s unique. I don’t see the stereotype being upheld anywhere, except in your mind.
*shrug*
Wow 85, settle down — I’m guessing you know waaaaay more about Margaret Cho than 99.999% of the people in here. methinks you’re secretly and obsessively in love. Is your name Michelle Malkin by any chance? LMAO
Stop referring to the murderer as a South Korean! He lived in the US since he’s 8. Sounds like an American to me! Shocked? You should be.
Wow. Haven’t read the comments, just her statement. Just the trueness of the this so-called “teaching moment”
Wow.
Having read some of the comments to this post, I have to say that I feel very sad about the people who point out that race IS in fact a factor.
Even Cho himself seems to have made no references to nationality or ethnicity, and yet this debate rages on. It began simply with the media reporting on Cho’s background. Perhaps the media should have waited to assess whether it was even relevant to release such information; it is obvious from his name that he is of some Korean descent, but who would have known what else? If his status hadn’t been addressed, it might not have become so full-blown an issue.
As well, it does not help that the Korean community in South Korea and the U.S. continue to gather in groups & apologize. Then, for those here to point out how Koreans would have reacted if a caucasian person were to have committed such a heinous crime in Korea? That is of no relevance; not only is it not the same, I have to argue as someone who HAS lived there that people would NEVER react in a hostile manner to other caucasians as a result. Caucasians in Korea are revered (and very much respected), especially when they have settled in Korea; it demonstrates a desire to learn about Korean culture, and Korean people are very warm towards that. They would easily acknowledge that the one person is a deviant. Besides, WHY SHOULD WE STOOP TO A LOWER LEVEL? Would those who posted here thinking Koreans would respond that way want to acknowledge racism just because they believe Koreans would in the same situation? That is pathetic.
My only concern is that something COULD happen because we have yet to put this issue to rest. Of course, I strongly wish to believe (and usually do) that the average American is above retaliation toward an innocent group. However, the fact is that there will always be ignorant people. Even before this incident, I have been harrassed and emotionally hurt as an Asian American by these few. Since then, there have already been racial remarks hurled my way. I no longer feel solely anger toward these; there is a bit of fear infused. This emphasis on race may not have an affect on most of us, but what about the few who are already prone to racism? Will they be worsened?
I am Indian and the first thing I thought when I saw his picture on television was, I’m glad he’s not Indian…we’ve taken enough racist bullshit with the whole Sanjaya phenomenon… not to compare the two events but you get my drift.
She’s got a good point there and put into exactly the right words. So true.
If the Korean community is quick to apologize for this violent act as a way to ask for forgiveness from non Koreans then it only hints to the fact that maybe for some in the Korean community as in other communities there is a tendency to judge people based on what one of their group does?
So that if the shooter was not Korean then that same Korean community who is apologizing would have associated that shooter with whatever race he is in.
New York City, for example, has had a history of polarization between Koreans and Blacks. There was a famous case of a Korean grocer boycott in the 80’s I think.
Maybe this is an opportunity for some in the Korean community to take a look at how tey perceive certain people and how they think one person represents a whole race.
SAME WITH THE US AS A WHOLE! We profile people.
At the airport, we profile.. We justify it under the guise of security but that is what it is: profiling.
So the Korean community members who are apologizing are in fact holding on to the same profiling tendencies that are so rampant in our country.
Try being a traveling Muslim today. I bet it is terrible for them. Imagine being a Muslim woman adorned in her head wrap going through customs. I can’t imagine how hard it is to be constantly be double checked and pulled aside for what you look like rather than what your historical profile is like.
By historical profile I mean: where has this woman traveled to? what is her criminal record when we put in her social security number instead of “she’s wearing a had wrap and she is muslim so let’s pull her aside”.
Look, we should be grieving, mourning and forgiving at a time like this. That is most important. We owe it to the innocent victims.
Once that is done, ALL communities need to take a look at their “profiling” tendencies.
You’ve moved to a neighborhood where everyone looks exactly like you: what can your children benefit from in this homogenous situation?
We have to think about how we are raising kids. And how we profile every single day of our paranoid and exclusive lives.
All people have to stop profiling: Korean-Americans, White-Americans, African-Americans, Latino-Americans, Jewish-Americans, you name it.
We have to stop it now. It is too easy to do as a gut reaction. All people are completely and utterly equal. We take a crap and bleed the same way.
Period.
ok guys, pack it in. the grief police (#63 - Belle) are here. she’s reminded us all to go back to our basements and mourn for days. and absolutely no discussion of current events are allowed - especially on an internet messageboard.
thanks belle for looking out the victims! i’m sure they really appreciate it.
I have to admit, that even as a white guy, it does offend me to see all the hype about how this guy was Korean. Yeah, he was born and raised for 1/2 his life in Korea - but his formative years were american… he is a product of american society - and what he did is a truly american thing to do… sort of like drinking a starbucks product.
What I think helps put this is perspective is that 99% of all mass murdereres are white american… so it sort of calls attention to the fact that he’s not white.
just my 2 cents!
Let’s get real, the massacre is a product of racial discrimmination, too bad the killer overreacted and took the responsibility. THERE IS A GREAT LESSON TO BE LEARNED HERE, wake up people! THE TRUTH REALLY IS PAINFUL.
Have they put THAT MUCH emphasis on his race? Doesnt seem like it to me. Looks liek Cho is defensive. That racial **** gets old.
Lol, I’m sure all the Muslims and Middleeasterners in the US breathed a huge sigh of relief when they saw the photo of the killer.
Margaret Cho makes a valid point that the news media would not point out race if the gunman were white.
BUT the media *would* focus on a white gunman’s socioeconomic status and go looking in the closets for a dysfunctional family background. Whether it’s race, economics, or family, the news media will ALWAYS try to find a sensationalistic angle to drag a tragedy further down.
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