Jennifer Aniston’s Memorial Day in Malibu

# 18 | come on @ 05.28.2007 10:29 pm

Support system. What did someone die. Please it’s been two years if she still needs a support system she needs professional help.

You need a support system when people won’t let you forget something. After B&A gossip all last week, people are looking at Jen, expecting her to crack and commenting Poor Jen, Jen is sad & lonely, Jen is pretending to be happy… cruel things like that. People are so stupid and the way they have villainized her after the breakup of her marriage makes me afraid for B&A, who I actually admire as actors and people. It’s that Pride Before The Fall feeling. I sometimes think something terrible is going to happen and no, I’m not wishing it either. They have a beautiful family now. I felt the same way when Steve Irwin (Crocodile Hunter) died. He was a true hero. He was so happy and was such a good husband father & role model. He lived every day doing good and feeling excited. He had a great purpose, but his life got snuffed out suddenly. I still can’t believe he’s gone. I’ve learned not to gloat over other people’s pain and misfortunes.

In all honesty, I’m trying to figure out what is wrong with her. I know she’s said before that she can stay in the house and not leave it for two weeks straight and be perfectly happy. That’s not normal. She never does anything. She doesn’t have any hobbies, you never even see her at a grocery store or even shopping let alone driving around LA. It’s always the same. Dinner with Courtney or dinner with Courtney and/or David or with Courtney and David on a holiday.

She’s a really odd little woman

She needs to go somewhere else and be seen like this independent woman who can fend for herself w/o Courtney holding her hand.

How many photos have we seen recently that all family gatherings, holidays, and even intimate dinners, she spends and hang out with the Arquettes? Isn’t she close to her dad’s family or her brother’s?

that is what I mean…drifting through life.

She got the cash no doubt. So why not do something with it. Something on her own.

Forget men for a while. There are other ways to happiness than men.

Firstly, do something with your life. As in fnid a purpose. And a career does not equal to a life purpose.

That’s the other thing. Where is her family? Okay, she’s not close to her mother but what about her older brother? Her father? I don’t know about most of you but I meet my father and/or mother for lunch all the time. You get to a certain age and your parents become like friends. Jen is never seen with her father or brother. Again, odd.

# 98 | To yaya @ 05.28.2007 11:53 pm

I think there are people who are just perennially unhappy. Its what keeps them going.

Eh, she’s reached the level of fame that she was supposed to have all along, if she wasn’t married to Brad. Now she’s just like all the other Friends, having to work hard for the publicity and to get a decent project in movies or TV. The only way she appears on tablooids now is if she’s linked in some way to Brad and Angie.

I don’t think Huvane, her publicist, could have done much for her. She’s no Nicole Kidman in the acting department and her movies proved that although she may have had goodwill from the public, no way people were going to pay 10 bucks to see her in sh*tty movies. That was her last chance to prove herself and she couldn’t.

I can’t say I feel sorry for her, she is where she’s supposed to be. Professionally yes, because she’s one trick pony, and personally because she’s pathetically insecure and not too many men put up with that. The only one who could, she didn’t appreciate and went after to bring him down so nope, no sympathy here.

It must be her inner dialogue. Get our of your own head Jen! Find something, anything that brings you happiness and just do it. And give yourself space from Courtney and any other dependent relationship you have. It’s a big wide world out there filled with interesting people. Try and be one yourself

# 83 | In hindsight… @ 05.28.2007 11:39 pm

This is the comment I totally agree with.

Damn people! Leave the poor girl alone.You can see she’s depress. If Brad Pitt left me, I would be depress for years. You know You’ve got problems if Brad Pitt dumps you. Anyways I love FRIENDS!!!

Arquette’s CAN’T even have family time..

i think she has moved on it is just the rest of the world ther has a problem of duingt that she look very very beatyful as always and so peasfull love her whish her all the best in the world

Brad said in 2004 Vanity Fair:

“Jen and I always made a pact; that we’ll see where this thing is going. I’m not sure it really is in our nature to be with someone for the rest of our lives, just because you made this pact. You keep going as long as you keep growing.”

…You keep going as long as you keep growing.

Brad has never been one to talk about ex relationshps, however this quote says it all. Looking at these sets of pictures and others in the past year. Aniston has not grown much during her marriage and after. When you look at what Brad is doing with his life, father of four & helping others, traveling & learning. I can’t imagine what his life would be like if he had stayed with Aniston.

Jennifer said Vanity Fair 2005:

“…There are all these levels of growth—and when you stop growing together, that’s when the problems happen.”

“”I think—it changed,” she says haltingly. “We both changed.”

She sighs again. “You do the best you can, and I think we did. We did the best we could.”

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If you re read the vanity fair article of Brad
& Jen (without bennets & her friends comments& tabloid rumors- horrible article) the reasons for Brad & Jen relationship ending is there.

Who stop growing?

# 96 | SR @ 05.28.2007 11:52 pm
Brad Pitt seems to be in a dark place now i.e. focussing on death and destruction, while with Jen he had a more colourful life.
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What life. They split. Obviously wasn’t that colourful.

What makes you think Brad is focused on death and destruction. Read up before commenting.

Coco is cute everyone else in these photos are boring.

Jen does need to mature in her dress sense. the short shorts look trashy.

great skin tone 4 someone so close to teh big 4-0

sad she keeps hanging onto DA and CCA like a 3rd wheel; needs a life of her own