Violet Affleck: Like My Crocs ‘n Socks?

Jenho you said it.
I thought totally the same thing.matt said ist was just a vacation and not a “buisness meeting.”
She´s looking like a single mom more and more and he steps aut with them every 2 weeks.
He´s in LA and he´s looking hot and Jen met Victor Garber on Thursday so hang out with him an Violet.
Mhh,I would spend the most off the time with my hubby/wife before I´ll leave the town…..
and he´s not working on the release.everything is done with that.

I guess I need to have a sit down with my husband. I go to lunch with friends, shopping, meetings without him all the time. He has a job. I have a job. We do not spend 24 hours a day together. Sometimes I take the kids to the park without him. And dammit he’s done the same without me….

And you know what else? When we are out and about together we don’t always have a smile plastered on our faces, we aren’t all over each other - and yet I still enjoy my time with him. I am happy with him.

And - from what I have observed with friends and family. That is NORMAL!!!

And the fans see what they want to see, always making excuses for the Afflecks. The Damons are what a normal happily married couple look and act like not the Afflecks who are headed for splitsville.

TOTALLY RIGHT.

Matt has a normal wife and they don´t live in the spotlight(in LA)like Ben and Jennifer.

and IF he´s working on the release he could spend more time with them and he could drop them off but he didn´t!He´s glad that his annoying wife is gone now.

I guess his/her fans are always making excuses.

It goes both ways.

Ben/Jen haters are always making excuses for splitsville.

I am sure there is a couple that you really like and don’t see the negative stuff that people who dislike them claim to see.

I don’t see how any of you can talk like it is a fact that their marriage is in trouble from a few pics every few days. You don’t know their schedule. You don’t know what they are working on. You don’t even know where Jen is traveling too. And you sure as hell aren’t privy to how they interact with each other away from the damn paparazzi.

I’ve seen the same thing with Ben and Jen.

And of course they are like that on the red carpet. If you remember Reese and Ryan where the exact same way in public right up til they split. Its a show when they are doing publicity and premieres. That doesn’t really prove anything. And for all you know he looked back and smiled at his mother.

Angelina got pregnant even faster then that. So did many others.

I never even said I was a Ben or Jen fan. I am actaully kinda meh about them and Matt. Maybe thats why I am questioning what you guys say is so obvious.

I agree with 31 and 38.
First of all I love how people invent things when they have no idea at all what’s going on.Haters just see what they want to see.Tabloids would be the first ones to write stories about them if they look like they were going to divorce But they leave them alone because they’re a normal and happy family.Unlike other hollywood families(who shall remain nameless) parade their family around when they want publicity for their movies
Second of all Ben doesn’t pose with his wife because he doesn’t want the attention drawn to his relationship.He’s learned his lesson the hard way.When he was with JLo ,they were inseperable .And people started the nickname Bennifer because of that.The constant over exposure gave people the excuse to critize his relationship.I think he’s doing the right thing .I see them lasting a long time which is more than I can say for other couples

He looked angry at the paps pushing a camera in his face five feet in front of him. Never once was he looking at her like that.

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So stop to reverse roles.
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Ahhh. I see how this is. If you are a fan of Matt and don’t like Ben then you are right and Matt is the happy, normal, perfect family man.

If you like Ben. You are wrong.

Yet - I have stated that I am not really a fan of either. But because I make some observations that show that Matt is not necessarily any happier or more affectionate then Ben I get shut down.

I guess that is what Ben/Jen haters do!

I’m done here. I will try to have an intelligent, un-biased conversation elsewhere…….

Anonymous…I totally agree with what you said! And I can also tell you that if you wanna have an intelligent, un-biased conversation this is not the right place…Grace and her friends can’t be bias! They hate her…and that’s it! There is not a chance they will speak using they brain, first!
MUCH ADO ABOUT NOTHING!
How can they say that there are troubles in some pics?
I don’t say that there are happy…I think that they are living their life! No matter what!
And you know what? If he is so unhappy with her….there is a thing called divorce! But you are the only one assuming that!

#44 you are exactly right. Jenho, Lula 29 and Grace are superhaters & go on and on and have no idea what goes on with Jen & Ben. They see whatthey want to see based on a few pictures that they make up a scenario for. The tabs would be all over it if there was trouble anywhere believe me they see more than you because the paps tip them off where they are, what they are doing etc. And the paps are allover the Afflecks. The paps tipped them off about trouble betwen JLo and Ben thats why we saw so much in the tabs when they were together. Also like a year before Jessica and Nick split, Jen and Brad etc. they were denying everything but thetabs knew there was trouble. THe oppoposite is true with the Afflecks. The tabs are always talking about how happy they are.

Actually Ben said he wanted to marry and start a family in an article dated October 2004 WHEN HE WAS WITH JENIFER. She also started talking about having children in an article around then. Coincidence? Probably not.
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Thank You. I stand corrected. This is probably not a coincidence and you could even say that they where laying the groundwork for planning a conception.

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We really will never know whether Violet was a happy accident or planned because they will never ever blab to the press about her conception.
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And thank god for that! If Ben and Jen are doing anything right - they are keeping the most private and personal stuff to themselves. It is nobody’s business but theirs anyways.

I really don’t care about Jennifer or Ben, but unlike most people here, I think Violet is pretty cute. I’ve seen some ugly babies in my life and Violet is not one of them.

Grace, why do you spend so much time commenting on Jennifer and Ben if you hate them so much? Don’t you have other things you would rather use your energy on?

Ah, Jennifer Garner, the Super Single Mom, The Tabloids Queen!

well,the tabloids are not making up some rumors because nobody is really so much into ugly ***** garner and affleck.
If they would split up,okay it wouldn´t be THAT much interesting(like it was with Brad and Jen or Reese and Ryan)Gosh,you naiv ppl!But yeah Gosh these two are soooooo happy!Ben can´t let his eyes off Jen!Mhhhh!Yeah I totally see it!this has nothing to do with his JLO days.If he would be totally in love his body and everything would show it!and Ben wouldn´t care either but he married her because of his career and his fans and all his former fans he lost because they should come back!don´t forget these ppl are not like us they are living a total different life and you don´t know why they got married.(maybe love,maybe the baby,maybe the career…)ben could have married jen before she was pregnant but he waited(until she was 4 months pregnant)so he made sure that she´ll keep the baby!like another person already said!I don´t think that they´ll get divorced now because Ben didn´t play the hudband role for long and Jennifers Show isn´t out yet!I´ll give them 2 more years

Whoo hoo! Way to go Scandalmonger! Scandalmonger says it like it is. Jen does have a big horsegob. You like you can just put a bridle around her mouth it’s so horse like.
Yep. Ben is happy the Horse`ifer and Dumbolet are leaving!