Brad and Angelina’s Tiara Sandwich

Good to hear that Vick. I am doing okay. A bit tired as i am on call for VOV-victim’s of Violence as an advocate of murdered children. An 18 yr old girl was killed 2mos ago and the family are having a difficult time with the court system. Not understanding pleas to manslaughter when in reality their daughter was not fighting back with athe man who took her life.
I have a private line for that and was on the phone for a long time after 3 am. The poor mother was beside herself. My heart could feel alll she was going thru so hopefully some of what i could tell her helped. She has my # to call me anytime in the evenings.

That was really sad to hear about the boy who drowned.The parents must be a mess. God Bless.

Hi Tijen , How are you ? Hope you are doing well.
Hey anoble ,lol i see you are back and forth. Smart move lol
Howdy to anyone here .It seems everytime i click send there are more posts that i didn’t see.

have a good day friends.

justjazz @ 03/19/2008 at 5:05 pm

oh man, talk about a stressful job. My heart goes out to you. I truly admire people like you. :)

wow justjazz, that sounds very sad and very taxing yet also very rewarding to know you are helping someone in probably the worst time in their lives. i am so not surprised to find out you do things like that, your compassion for others shows. God bless you for what must be a very difficult thing to do. i hope you get to catch up on your rest.

anoble, i bet you were terrified. it is good he lets you know where he is now. no matter how old they get, it never hurts to let somebody know where you are. = )

vicki, I was having a hard time deciding whether to laugh, cry, hug him or kick his behind :D

Anoble hon,It’s not a job. I volenteer my services back to vov b/c without them i don’t know if i would have pulled thru my own son’s murder. it was yrs ago but they are wonderful people and i am better at this then doing the groups like we use to do.
My son was 19 /just got married and his young wife was the same age. She had his baby 2 weeks after his death so we have a special piece of my son left behind who is loved like none other.
she is beautiful and looks justlike him. We are very close except she lives 7 hrs away so don’t see her weekly but quite often.

My son helped some old friends move into a rental and met somebody he had never met before.
Little did he know the man was a phycopath and he was killed very brutally with a knife and too the man had black belt in kawarte.
I like any other mother always said if i ever lost one of my children i would not make it. So am no different. It was the peoplefrom VOV who led the way for me to get where i am.
Terrible thing to say but my.family’s only salvation was when the police called me to tell me the man died a few yrs later.
Weird feeling to be glad about another’s death.

It is amzing how strong our minds are and how much we can take when we think we can’t..
I have two daughters and i am grateful for them and learned all over again to be grateful for the small things in order to get on with my life. I owe vov for my sanity.
So that’s why i am an advocate. You have to have been there to be able to talk/help to new people who are suffering thru the same /They know it and so do i.
So anyway here i am and no i would not do it as a job if i didn’t know what i know today .
you ladies know what i mean eh.

I am still thinking about that little boy that drowned and how helpless those people (parenst) must feel today . I always say thank God for shock. They have vov not only for for homicide victims so am hoping somebody from the police station gave the family a card for help.

Sorry i am going to end up with a novel..

I come here to have fun and enjoy angie Brad and te kids just like you so have come a long way. I don’t have a problem talking about my life/my son if it helps other’s or if people ask. . most times people don’t know what to say. I understand that too.

anyway that’s my story and here we are.
Take care..

justjazz, i am so sorry for your loss of your precious son. you are honoring him with the work you do for others. he would be so proud of you. you are an incredible person and i know he must have been as well. i am glad your daughters have helped you get through. i agree coming here is a good pass time. God bless you.

justjazz. i am so glad you have your precious granddaughter. i bet she thinks you are awesome. a beautiful bit of your son. = )

Anoble hon,Don’t feel silly your scare was real. Nobodies pain is less . .IEven though my son is gone when uiread your post i thought about my daughter doing something similar when she was 7 and knew how frightning that feeling is. I could feel it for you so i could relate.
We don’t know and things happen in the blink of an eye.
My poor kids(adults) after my son’s death were so over protected i had to get help with overdoing it .
Time is the only answer to a mother’s pain after thier child’s death. It never goes away but we learn to deal. We all learn to live our lives without them. The days that are difficult are the anniversaies and that’s no different then the annivesay of anyone’s loss.
I found it odd and sometimes hurtful that very good friends didn’t know how to talk to me at first. That’s why i had to turn to vov.
I learned from them it was too overwhelming and i hope i didn’t do that to anybody here. I am okay or i would not be able to enjoy being a fan of the JP’s or have the fun i do now with my grandchildren and my daughters..live my life like everyone else.

Hey girl’s i just wish i could type faster to keep up with you all.
Vick thank you . I find you to be the same .A very kind loving heart even when you are going thru your own pain during the day. You know we all care and meny prayers are always being said for your dad. Prayer in numbers means so much. I believe God hears us.

Tijen .No i am from Canada. I live about 20 mins away from Niagara Falls by car. Our weather is still crappy but by april the tulips will be out. Every may we open our pool so can’t wait for the nice weather.
Would love to live in Texas or some place where it’s warm all the time.

Hiya Dina. I guess i just don’t like tabs. We all know Angie and Brad didn’t talk to Out of Touch and jmo but Jared would get his hits in this thread the same as before.
Maybe i got to use to the old Jared who would nver put a tab thread up and too we do get more trolls who just seem to enjoy being cruel. PPl will do what they want so wouldn’t doubt they will be back and forth when they can’t be bothered fighting with the trolls .
It’s just another week at JJ’s :)

justjazz @ 03/19/2008 at 5:34 pm
I am sorry for your lost. Your story is very touching and your strength is admirable. I wish you all the best.

oh justjazz and anoble.i love you ladies.

Hey, hey anustin - sending love right back at ya :D :D