Heidi Montag’s Apology to Lauren Conrad

Heidi Montag’s Apology to Lauren Conrad

On Monday’s episode of The Hills, Heidi Montag penned an apology note to former BFF Lauren Conrad. Lauren’s coworker and pal Whitney Port, who’s getting her own spin-off series, read the note aloud:

“I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am about everything. I’m so sorry for every negative or hurtful comment I’ve ever said. That is not how I feel or who I am. I think you are a great person and I will always cherish our memories. Thank you for everything you have ever done for me. I really wish things hadn’t turned out this way but I take responsibility. This whole thing has also been really hard for me.

Sincerely, Heidi Montag

Lauren basically says she can never be friends with Heidi as long as Heidi’s boyfriend Spencer Pratt is around. Later in the episode, Spencer gets angry after he finds out that Heidi apologized to Lauren without his knowing.

DO YOU THINK Heidi’s apology was sincere???

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61 Comments

# 1

omg! im no 1!!

# 2

Who cares about these 2? It’s all an act. Sincere my ass!

# 3

Yes of course. And I think maybe Lauren is starting to see how unreasonable she can be. She is basically loosing many of her friends. I feel really bad for Heidi, it seems like her feud with Lauren has caused her to loose all of her friends. I’m glad to see Audrina and Heidi hanging out

# 4

“DO YOU THINK Heidi’s apology was sincere???”

It’s a fake reality show.

# 5

i do think she was being sincere. its hard to have loose everything you onced cherished. but i also see where lauren is going it won’t work with spencer in her ear saying she hates her and with the whole gang saying they hate spencer when hes around because she can not not hang around him hes her man

# 6

i do think she was being sincere. its hard to have loose everything you onced cherished. but i also see where lauren is going it won’t work with spencer in her ear saying she hates her and with the whole gang saying they hate spencer when hes around because she can not not hang around him hes her man

# 7

yeah, how could anyone take this show seriously. it is so boring. and no one likes their life to be an open book so i find the whole thing weird.

# 8

eh- if i were heidi i wouldn’t even be trying to be lauren’s friend again. lauren is always so bossy to all of her friends and tells them who they can date and who they can’t. it’s ridiculous. and i think this whole writing an apology to lauren thing was fake. producers probably came up with it and told heidi to do it because lately on the show it’s been the same old storyline 5000 times. they probably wanted to change it up a bit, told heidi what to write, and that was that. new drama. heidi- give up on lauren and start making new friends! they’re are other people out there u know!

# 9

i wish they could be friends again and that spencer would just die.
i dont wish bad things for enyone, but i just HATE him!!
is his fault that heidi and louren are not friends anymore.
stupid ass!!!

Yes i think that Heidi’s apologie is sincere, because she’s truly sorry about everything and I kind of feel that she’s starting to doubt about choosing her realtionship with Spencer over her friendship with Lauren, cause Spencer’s treating her family with no respect and is just really mean to everybody.

YES! Hedi is one of the most sincere people on television today!

Er, no. She’s just trying to make this shítty programme create drama.

I feel for Heidi, I dont understand how she has allowed her boyfriend to overtake every aspeck of her life. He has destroyed her friendships, and continues to be rude to Heidis sister, and her mother! I really do feel bad for her, her self esteems is so low that she has allowed a creep to take over her life, she deserves so much better. Every woman does. Poor Heidi.

This show has to be fake because if Spencer talked to any member of my family the way he talked to her sister and mother, i would have slapped his beavis and butthead looking ass all over that apartment.

somebody ;D @ 10/08/2008 at 5:38 pm

spencer is such an *******
hate him!
it’s his fault if the girls aren’t friends anymore.

Could anyone tell me what IMAO stands for please.

They should just both go their separate ways. They are beating a dead horse. Heidi needs to move on with her career and Lauren needs to focus on her fashion line, which I love. I just signed up on HauteLook.com where mark. cosmetics having a contest to meet Lauren Conrad. The winner will get a trip for two to Los Angeles, a chance to meet Lauren backstage at her fashion show, a dress designed by Lauren and makeup from mark.

******* ugly guy (spencer)

Lauren needs to realize that not everyone is perfect. She has clearly admitted that it’s the person that Heidi is with is preventing her from being with her. I’m sorry but to me, that is really low. I mean I hate Spencer, but Lauren needs to know not everyone likes her habits. She’s not this perfect person like people make her seem to be.

Lauren needs to realize that not everyone is perfect. She has clearly admitted that it’s the person that Heidi is with is preventing her from being with her. I’m sorry but to me, that is really low. I mean I hate Spencer, but Lauren needs to know not everyone likes her habits. She’s not this perfect person like people make her seem to be.

Lauren needs to realize that not everyone is perfect. She has clearly admitted that it’s the person that Heidi is with is preventing her from being with her. I’m sorry but to me, that is really low. I mean I hate Spencer, but Lauren needs to know not everyone likes her habits. She’s not this perfect person like people make her seem to be.

Twifanatic Amanda @ 10/08/2008 at 5:48 pm

hey…is this person in the picture heidi? because if so I drastically underestimated the amount of sugery she’s had! hahaha omg!

Spyide nooooooooo

Haughtmomma @ 10/08/2008 at 5:58 pm

no, i don’t think any of those people have real feelings.

honestly, I watched the show once and I thought it was pointless and ******. WTF?? I have to admit, I think Heidi is doing a good thing by apologizing to Lauren. She seems to be really sincere. And Spencer really has no right getting mad at her for no reason. If I could tell him something, it would be “GET A MOTHERF**KING LIFE!” He really needs one. And Lauren has every right not to like him, cause I don’t like him either, but I don’t think it’s a reason for her to not be friends with Heidi anymore.

Omg!
i think that Heidi was really cute for that, but she act sometimes like a real *****, and LC is really tired about that. How understand heidi God! Maybe if Heidi and Spencer split up, she can came back with LC and be friends, like in the past.
And i think that the “Whitney show” is a little stupid, because CAME ON! how ******* cares what is going on with her?!! Any way, how cares jajaja

tiedyedaisy @ 10/08/2008 at 6:18 pm

LOVED it when Holly laid the smack down on Spencer…he is such a tool.

I agree with Lia 100%

Lauren has a feud with every one of her friends, doesn’t that say something about her and not her friends?

Heidi is a fake person, obviously by looking at her. She has no remorse for action. That is why Audrina and Lauren are feuding right now. Audrina admitted it today on Ellen. If she was sorry she wouldn’t have made the same mistake twice.

ok how come heidi cant see what an ass Spencer is. I mean he is rude towards her family, her friends, and even her. He is also very coniving and controlling but hey what do i know about spencer after the cameras have stopped rolling/

Hell yeah she was sincere. But Lauren is being a bum and won’t see that. It’s not Heidi’s fault anymore, all this rift is Lauren. I don’t think Lauren deserves to be her friend. ” I can never be friends with Heidi as long as Spencer is around”, so she can hang out with everyone else in his life? Wow, smart Lauren.

team-notsolauren @ 10/08/2008 at 6:38 pm

I deffinatley think heidi was very sincere, i just wish she would get rid of the ass hole boyfriend she has, he is tearing apart her friends and her family from her, i think that lauren also needs to realize how immature she is being about the whole thing,she should seriously grow UP :D

How can you take anything this girl says seriously when she and her boyfriend pose with tacos? They fake their photographs and look like idiots doing it.

But then The Hills is all bullshit anyway.

Please, she instigated the sex tape rumor, she is not sincere, she is just a user.

to be honest the only reason lauren and heidi arent friends is cause of that ******* spencer. im sry but i really dont know what heidi sees in him she needs to open her eyes and realize that hes no good for her. he is so ignorant and childish.

I actually think it was sincere but like Lauren said in the episode, Heidi can’t just come out and blame Spencer because she’s too loyal to him. WTF does the guy even do for a living besides mooch off her? He never leaves the house.

If she would just lose the zero, her and Lauren could be friends again. Spencer is the issue. He brainwashes Heidi’s mind to his liking and he doesn’t let her be her own person. She just needs to dump him already.

I’ve had a friend who didn’t approve of my boyfriend and I was in that same situation and didn’t want to see that my friend was right about the guy being a loser. And we stopped being friends for a while but after I saw what she did, I dumped him and went right back into my friendship.

I think it was sincere in the sense that, like both keep saying, you always miss a best friend. But it’s really difficult to view anything that Heidi and Spencer do as sincere when they already admitted that in the past, they created fights just for TV purposes. This could be one of those fake-arguments that was planned in advance, including the letter.

LC, doesn’t realize that Brody, Stephen, and Jason called her beefcakes and Spencer just repeated it. LC needs to cut her ties from Brody, but she always craves his presence.

beefcakes to be translated as beefcurtains.

christina @ 10/08/2008 at 7:31 pm

Damn! I wish they would just be friends again.

This is news because?????

Spencer is the biggest creep. Heidi the biggest fake, The jury is still out on Lauren………

I think Lauren and Heidi should be friends again.. This has been going on for too long, heidi has said sorry many times but for lauren its not good enough. They were best friends, they shouldnt let it ruin their friendship over a rumor. Everyone forgot about it so they should too. They should put this behind them and forgive each other and just be friends again.

I think Lauren and Heidi should be friends again.. This has been going on for too long, heidi has said sorry many times but for lauren its not good enough. They were best friends, they shouldnt let it ruin their friendship over a rumor. Everyone forgot about it so they should too. They should put this behind them and forgive each other and just be friends again.

I feel sorry for Heidi, she has done everything to try and get her friendship back on track with LC, and LC is being completely immature about the whole thing and just being mean to Heidi.

As other ppl have said and i have said before on past threads there is a reason that LC looses all her friends, it’s her because she is controlling and addicted to drama and brings everyone down.

And if she really did value her friendship with Heidi, you wouldn’t let a guy stand in the way, i have disliked friends boyfriends before, but i have stuck by my friends because i care about my friendship with them.

LMAO. so the best part, as acknowledged by Jared, and the rest of us who watched it was this part, “Later in the episode, Spencer gets angry after he finds out that Heidi apologized to Lauren without his knowing.” Like how f’n strange was that. yes i know spencer has no life and spends mucho time at home…like moi, but the producers must have let him know that heidi and holly were talking about thou who shalt not be named. like who the f does he think he is. heidi can’t think, or act for herself?????? i was really hilarious to see. love it. i dislike spencer because he’s obnoxious, but whatever, drama is fun times.

Lauren’s not being mean to Heidi. She’s already told Heidi that she forgives her, but she just can’t be friends with her. I don’t understand how people expect her to, after all the nasty things Speidi has said about her. I would never be able to trust someone after that, especially if they’re still with the person who *still* says nasty things whenever he gets a chance.

Lauren see that Heidi was sincere in her apoligize, but yes, she’s right with spencer, nobody can live. i feel really sorry about how spencer treat heidi in the end of the episode :/ holly try made heidi see that spencer is the problem, but heidi don’t understand this, because of him all her friends have gone. LC wants to be friends with heidi, i think. if spencer doesn’t appear in heidi’s life everything would be different

AHHH…Tricky picture!!! for a second I thought it was recent and Heidi got rid of Flesh beard Spencer

Oh please. Friendships die all the time - you are friends with someone for a period of your life, you change, they change - it’s nobody’s fault. Lauren is just honest about it - if it’s done, it’s done. She’s tried hard, but you have to call it a day sometimes.

In Heidi’s case, her relationship with Spencer is 100% to blame - but she CHOSE Spencer, so it says a lot about what she needs right now. He is VERY controlling of her - could you imagine anyone speaking to your mom like he spoke to Heidi’s mom? Has he heard of respect??

Heidi’s letter was sincere, but she’s being controlled and manipulated and doesn’t know what to do. I feel awful for her - it’s an abusive situation and she needs to get out. Someday she will and she’ll see how destructive this relationship has been to her and those who love her.

I think Heidi feels bad/lonely, but I don’t understand how she isn’t seeing things the way they are. I get it for a regular person, but for her to have it plastered on tv in front of her of her to re-watch (so basically it’s slapping her in the face) and she still can’t see it? She actually thinks she can have both Lauren and Spencer in her life and that’s absurd. Why would Lauren be friends with someone whose boyfriend started horrible and embarassing rumors about her in the press and continues to smack talk her publicly? By being with him Heidi is condoning that behavior, so in my eyes in makes her guilty by association…So while I think she was sincere in her letter to Lauren, I also think she is brainwashed by Spencer and afraid of him, but also showing signs of wanting back her old life. I don’t see why Lauren’s high expectations of the people she surrounds herself with is a bad thing or means she controls them. I wouldn’t want to be friends with these people either if I was in their position. It’s easy to criticize when it’s on tv, but people who tolerate that in real life would just be pathetic. She doesn’t tolerate it on tv and that makes something wrong with her?

I think it’s sincere…but she’s scared of losing Pratt-hole. I think she’s been brainwashed and she’s scared OF him…did you see when he came around the corner and asked what they were talkin about…she looked like she was scared he was going to beat the **** out of her. I think it’s sad how in deep she is with him. She has no friends, she’s alienating herself from her family all for this jerkwad. I’m hoping after the hills ends or maybe sooner she’ll realize that he’s just bad news and kick his ugly ass to the side…where he belongs. She really seems like an abused woman…she just acts like one whenever she’s around him on the show…and the way she defends him it’s disgusting!!!

Spencers fault @ 10/09/2008 at 10:52 am

Heidi lets Spencer RUN her life! She is one of those girls who is afraid to be ALONE so she lets some jerk boss her around treat her family and friends like crap. It is so sad that Heidi feels lonely without any friends and it is all because of Spencer. Don’t get mad at LC because she knows who she does and doesn’t want in her life. She is just as upset about not being friends with Heidi. It is so ridiculous that you put the blame on LC after all Spencer has done. It’s not like we don’t see what he does on that show or how he acts towards Heidi’s friends and family and his OWN family! Heidi needs to wake up before she really does only have Spencer!

As for the Audrina and LC feud it is based on RUMORS! Rumors that very very possibly Spencer let out he is the sources good friend that broke the news. We all know how LC dislikes JB so why in the world would she do anything with him. She was celebrating LO’s birthday! LC didn’t make a mistake and that isn’t what Audrina said on Ellen! Audrina is pretty much just like Heidi they don’t actually go and talk about things with people they let tabloids run their lives. They crave and live for the drama. If they didn’t they would have worked everything out by now. Heidi and Audrina are both very naive and need to grow up!

MTV is clearly paying Heidi for not only being on the Hills, but to stay with Spencer. Why would she stay with that controlling pig? She always looks miserable with him.

i think she’s been sincere .. But, Lauren is right, they friendship won’t work with Spencer there .. He is fake, he is sucks ..
But i also think that Heidi did a lot of bad things to Lauren, things that can’t be forgiven in a short period of time..

yeah i reckon its sincere.. esp since she had that talk with her mum i think she is starting to come back down to earth and is starting to realise that what she did was wrong and spencer is a **** wit

about time i say!

that was the biggest piece of bs!!!

Heidi is a jealous, insincere, fake ho!! All along, she’s been saying she’s done nothing wrong…. then why the hell is she saying she’s sorry???? FOR WHAT???????????????? She’s lying!!!!

I really don’t mind Heidi, it just that i really don’t like the person that she has become. It is so obvious that she is so needy and has low self-esteem to constantly lets Spencer dictate her life the way that he has in the past couple of years.

Lauren and Spencer didn’t get along so then Heidi chose Spencer and therefore Lauren and Heidi are not longer friends. Heidi had a huge career opportunity with Bolthouse in Vegas, Spencer told her to come home, so she did. Spencer is SO rude to Heidi’s mom and sister and Heidi gets mad for like a second and then turns around the next day and acts like nothing happened!!!

She is obviously so scared of losing him that she allows him to literally dictate her life!!! If a guy ever talked to my mom the way the Spencer talked to Heidi’s mom…i would n’t be dated that guy for very long….! If anything Heidi could actually learn something for LC beause there is a girl that has a level head and when people treat her or her friends badly, she would put them in their place!!!

just another message from a Hills fan in Sunny Side South Africa ;)

Ebonyloveslauren! @ 12/30/2008 at 7:51 am

oi, all you lauren haters.
lauren doesnt HAVE to forgive heidi!
heidi totally picked sides with a pig of a boyfriend over her long time bestfriend so hell yes lauren should be annoyed and never forgive her.
forgive and forget is the only way to go!
team lauren (Y)

jessica Nyquist @ 12/31/2008 at 6:03 am

I think that Heidi was being sincere when she wrote the letter, and I think that both Lauren and Heidi want to be friends, but can’t because of Spencer. Spencer is controlling Heidi’s relationship, and he has pushed all her friends away from her. I think she needs to dump this loser. He is only bringing her down. He should not talk to her family like that. He is just so rude. He needs to get a life. Hopefully Heidi will dump Spencer, and Lauren and Heidi can become friends again. Also I think that Lauren shouldn’t have cut off her friendship from Heidi just because she didn’t like the guy that her best friend was dating. I think Lauren sometimes gets in the way of her friends relationships to the point where she pushes her own friends away. She needs to stop being so immature about things.

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