Heidi Montag’s Apology to Lauren Conrad

I think Heidi feels bad/lonely, but I don’t understand how she isn’t seeing things the way they are. I get it for a regular person, but for her to have it plastered on tv in front of her of her to re-watch (so basically it’s slapping her in the face) and she still can’t see it? She actually thinks she can have both Lauren and Spencer in her life and that’s absurd. Why would Lauren be friends with someone whose boyfriend started horrible and embarassing rumors about her in the press and continues to smack talk her publicly? By being with him Heidi is condoning that behavior, so in my eyes in makes her guilty by association…So while I think she was sincere in her letter to Lauren, I also think she is brainwashed by Spencer and afraid of him, but also showing signs of wanting back her old life. I don’t see why Lauren’s high expectations of the people she surrounds herself with is a bad thing or means she controls them. I wouldn’t want to be friends with these people either if I was in their position. It’s easy to criticize when it’s on tv, but people who tolerate that in real life would just be pathetic. She doesn’t tolerate it on tv and that makes something wrong with her?

Heidi lets Spencer RUN her life! She is one of those girls who is afraid to be ALONE so she lets some jerk boss her around treat her family and friends like crap. It is so sad that Heidi feels lonely without any friends and it is all because of Spencer. Don’t get mad at LC because she knows who she does and doesn’t want in her life. She is just as upset about not being friends with Heidi. It is so ridiculous that you put the blame on LC after all Spencer has done. It’s not like we don’t see what he does on that show or how he acts towards Heidi’s friends and family and his OWN family! Heidi needs to wake up before she really does only have Spencer!

As for the Audrina and LC feud it is based on RUMORS! Rumors that very very possibly Spencer let out he is the sources good friend that broke the news. We all know how LC dislikes JB so why in the world would she do anything with him. She was celebrating LO’s birthday! LC didn’t make a mistake and that isn’t what Audrina said on Ellen! Audrina is pretty much just like Heidi they don’t actually go and talk about things with people they let tabloids run their lives. They crave and live for the drama. If they didn’t they would have worked everything out by now. Heidi and Audrina are both very naive and need to grow up!

i think she’s been sincere .. But, Lauren is right, they friendship won’t work with Spencer there .. He is fake, he is sucks ..
But i also think that Heidi did a lot of bad things to Lauren, things that can’t be forgiven in a short period of time..

that was the biggest piece of bs!!!

I really don’t mind Heidi, it just that i really don’t like the person that she has become. It is so obvious that she is so needy and has low self-esteem to constantly lets Spencer dictate her life the way that he has in the past couple of years.

Lauren and Spencer didn’t get along so then Heidi chose Spencer and therefore Lauren and Heidi are not longer friends. Heidi had a huge career opportunity with Bolthouse in Vegas, Spencer told her to come home, so she did. Spencer is SO rude to Heidi’s mom and sister and Heidi gets mad for like a second and then turns around the next day and acts like nothing happened!!!

She is obviously so scared of losing him that she allows him to literally dictate her life!!! If a guy ever talked to my mom the way the Spencer talked to Heidi’s mom…i would n’t be dated that guy for very long….! If anything Heidi could actually learn something for LC beause there is a girl that has a level head and when people treat her or her friends badly, she would put them in their place!!!

just another message from a Hills fan in Sunny Side South Africa ;)

I think that Heidi was being sincere when she wrote the letter, and I think that both Lauren and Heidi want to be friends, but can’t because of Spencer. Spencer is controlling Heidi’s relationship, and he has pushed all her friends away from her. I think she needs to dump this loser. He is only bringing her down. He should not talk to her family like that. He is just so rude. He needs to get a life. Hopefully Heidi will dump Spencer, and Lauren and Heidi can become friends again. Also I think that Lauren shouldn’t have cut off her friendship from Heidi just because she didn’t like the guy that her best friend was dating. I think Lauren sometimes gets in the way of her friends relationships to the point where she pushes her own friends away. She needs to stop being so immature about things.