Jennifer Garner: Baby Bump Bananas!

Ben loves Violet to death, wants her to have a sibling, and wants to be an involved parent, but he’s sick of Jen. He respects her as a mother, but he’s bored with her as a person.

Ben liked her enough when they were dating but he had no plans to marry her until she got pregnant when Jen was seen as the “next American sweetheart” since Julia Roberts and Jennifer Aniston are getting old. Ben’s rep was already hurt from the whole JLo fiasco, so he couldn’t risk damaging his rep further by refusing to marry Jen (since she was pregnant), and he wanted to be involved in his kid’s life (unlike his own father), so he married her.

Now he’s bored to tears with her, but I think he’ll stick around long enough for his kids to be old enough to really know him as a dad, then he’ll divorce her when he can get equal visitation time (dads don’t typically get that with little kids).

Until then, he’s in this marriage for Violet and the baby on the way.

And don’t give the Pitt-Jolie household as a good exemple : 6 or 7 kids in 3 years! Hello! Something is wrong there. How can they bring up so many young kids well? With the help of 5 nannies? They are nuts.

Ben only went to Dubai to look for money. He needs financing for his film projects so he hung out with his brother. I think Jen and Ben’s strategy for not being seen to be photographed together is backfiring. THe paps are hounding Jen and the baby constantly. They hound Ben when they can, too, but the image that has been developing is that the two aren’t together and there is trouble. I know the main problem Ben had that was really dangerous to their marriage is his chronic gambling. He really loves to gamble and was in Vegas alllllthe time. I think he has cut way back on that now, but he definitely has a n addictive gambling problem.

violets a cutey. Maybe jen was carrying her cos it was dangerous as there were cars around at home time?? She’s pregnant not an invalid. She’s also a very fit woman and besides its her child she can carry her on her head if she wants.

In my country I can say that I think that 5 or 6 kids in 3 years is daft, so I am writing it, because I think so.

I am a strong believer you never know what happens behind closed doors maybe they are very happy in private but I do do wonder from time to time why Ben hardly spends time with his family its so rare to see them together

Laurence #50
While I’m not going to speculate on Jen and Ben’s marriage because I don’t live with them and don’t them personally like you apparently do (yeah right!), I will however say that as far as being “boring” goes, I think you have that backwards, Ben is the one that is boring, Famke Janssen used to date him and I remember her saying that he bored her to death. Jen also said that Ben never wants to leave the house, she said you can have a great conversation with him just as long as you don’t want to get off the couch, these are actual quotes from both women. Jen seems like the more fun one of the two, she like her daughter are always smiling and seem happy. If Ben is miserable he should shoot himself, no one needs his sorry ass around anyway.

It is interesting how you talk about Ben and Jen are the only couple
that do this.. Than why does Katie have to take Suri to work with her
at night…?? Where the hell is Tom .. He only has the Today Show
tomorrow. He hasn’t held his daughter in a long time..

They might have made a agreement that she picks her up from school.
And what is wrong with that NOTHING!

She is so adorable.
I love that fact that Jennifer and Ben dress her normally and seem to be giving her a normal upbringing.

Jennifer seems to be a terrific mom and wife. Wishing her family the best.

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yOU ALL SOUND LIKE THE HUGEST IDIOTS IN THE WORLD. WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT WHAT’S GOING ON IN THEIR FAMILY??? WTF????? THERE ARE PICTURES OF BEN HOLDING VIOLET FROM YESTERDAY!!!! THEY WILL PROBABLY LAST WAY LONGER THAN ANY OTHER ‘SHOW’ COUPLES OUT THERE!!! I’VE SEEN BEN WITH VIOLET MORE THAN SEEN BRAD OR MATT OR RYAN WITH THEIR KIDS!! WTF???????

:lol: Bennifer fans seem really obsessed with Brangelina. :lol:

C’mon ! Why even compare these two family together? You do realize that Violet is the one who gets photographed everyday not Brangelina’s kids?

This is why Some people ask about Ben as a present picture. Because we see almost daily picture of Violet. So we can actually tell.

But BP on the other hand or even Matt and Ryan kids don’t get photographed daily.

C’mon deal with it. Since last year When she was promoting her two movies , We hardly saw them together. There was picture of her with Violet last year in NYC daily. And she was the one working but Ben was hardly the one who would accompany them.

We don’t need rags and tabloids and gossip to tell us this. We have been following celebs for a long time. We know when couple don’t make such a effort to be together , it means there is actually a problem in relationship. But whatever. Let her have her kids.

Why can’t Jen carry little Violet? Don’t hate on Jen, hate on the paps who can possibly step over the little child when they are constantly hovering over this family.

I have no idea why I feel the need to defend them, probably because I just adoooore little Violet!