Balthazar Getty & Sienna Miller: Mexico Meet-Up!

@76, men do not always get away with murder…just ask Jude Law, who the media ground into the dirt, with Sienna’s full cooperation as she played the part of the poor woman scorned to the fullest extent, and everybody fell for it hook, line, and sinker, not even knowing what she had already done or what she was capable of herself. And note, she and Jude weren’t even married, yet Jude was considered the lowest of evil villains, and it even now comes up from time to time as being this most salacious scandal, when in fact, it pales in comparison to much more scandalous happenings that just don’t get much press because the parties involved choose to keep it under the radar as much as possible, something Sienna doesn’t aspire to. Months and months later, she went even more white trash and threatened Daisy via the media, saying that for Daisy’s sake, she hopes she never meets up with her. So as stated in an earlier post, Sienna set the tone when she made a spectacle of herself as the innocent ingenue-done-wrong 3 years ago and helped keep it alive as long as she could, when it was something that should have been settled privately between her and Jude. That was nobody’s business (and note, if you have consensual sex with someone and then spill the details to the world, not cool…Daisy was a little opportunist, too). That’s why I think she’s getting all of this, particularly from people who sympathized with her, who now know the truth about her.
I also want to add, I don’t excuse Jude for having an affair…if things weren’t right between them (and from things I’ve read, they weren’t, as she was partying it up - and everything that implies - while he was away filming at the time), then he should have broke it off with her. Just like Getty should have done things differently. None of this is any of our business, but somebody is responsible/to blame for the public display, and the common denominator I see in both situations is Sienna. All I’m saying is that other celebs do manage to keep stuff like this more private with little to no press intrusion…and Sienna is not THAT interesting that she can’t keep, at least most of, her private matters private. So, as long as they are inviting the attention, then people are going to respond and say what they think. Simple as that.

#76
Why aren’t we “blaming” GETTY (translation: Since VM is a woman why won’t people let her off the hook or cut her some slack for sleeping and shamelessly flaunting her affair with another woman’s husband?)?

1) Because VICTIMienna is forever the victim, even when it is celar that she could have avoided the situation she always finds a way to make herself the victim. BG isn’t always whining and complaining about how he is being mistreated or how someone is making his life “intolerable”, but VM is.

2) Because VICTIMienna won’t LAY LOW and SHUT UP. Just like we didn’t need to see those Thanksgiving photo-ops and pictures of her groping the MARRIED MAN at SII, we didn’t need to see these pictures of her in Mexico with the MARRIED MAN supposedly celebrating her birthday. BTW, it looks like she is whispering in his ear. He probably asked her when she was going to give him his allowance.

3) Because VICTIMienna never takes responsibility or accountability for her actions. She blames the media, RG and her kids, and even BG. She hides behind arguments used to protect REAL VICTIMS and abuses the court system for her own personal gain.

4) Because her antics are INSENSITIVE. VM defenders want people to have sympathy for VM, but they completely ignore the fact that VM has not shown an ounce of sympathy towards RG and her kids. BG is not divorced or legally separated, so these photo-ops are inappropriate. If VM didn’t have any intentions of hurting RG and her kids, then she would have WALKED AWAY or waited until the divorce was final until she pulled PR stunts like this. She and BG know how to avoid the papz when they don’t want to be seen or heard, so how come they didn’t do that? Because VM needed to keep herself relevant and upstage RG and her kids. Why does she keep gloating over a man that doesn’t even give the pretense that he loves her?

5)Because VM keeps trying to spin her AFFAIR into a romance. What is romantic about publicly humiliating a mother and her 4 kids? What is romantic about sleeping with a man who has so little respect or love for you that he won’t divorce his wife?

6) Because these photo-ops are useless considering the fact that the MARRIED MAN is STILL MARRIED. All these photo-ops show is that the MARRIED MAN is not as into VM as she wants us to believe. By staying attached to his wife the MARRIED MAN is indicating that he can’t move on. It’s understandable why RG would not file the divorce. Afterall, if BG really loved VM he would divorce his wife and provide the proper funds to take care of their needs. The fact that he won’t do that shows that he is being vindictive and is using his booty-call to humilate his wife because RG won’t be a good wife and take him back.

7) Because VM defenders are her worst enemies. Their attempts to defend her only make her look even worse than what she already does.

The “not the married one” excuse advocates women not taking responsibility for the consequences of their affairs. It implies that women don’t have to respect the relationships of other women or be accoutable for the consequences of their affairs (even when peole get hurt in the process).

Bringing up AJ or any woman who has had an affair only supports arguments against VM and demonstrates how bad VM antics with BG really are. AJ had an affair with a MARRIED MAN, but she had the decency not to allow the MARRIED MAN to suck or grab on her breasts in public or stand on a balcony nude/topless with him.

Stating that “we do not know the full story”, ignores the fact that 5 people are being hurt by this affair. You do not need to know the full story to understand that RG and her kids ahve been hurt by this affair.

Spouting the “they were seperated” mantra is wrong for several reasons. This lie was created by VM and her mothers to justify her behavior with a MARRIED MAN. A separation is not a DIVORCE and a DIVORCE GRANTED BY THE COURTS ENDS A MARRIAGE. Considering that many couples use this time to fix their mistakes, it still looks like VM is interfering in BG marriage. Since BG has not filed for a separation or a divorce there is no basis for this argument.

Wow you have to much time on your hands and take this way too personally

#81

And apparantly you must have too much time on your hands because you are here posting just like everyone else. If you didn’t take this matter so personally, then you wouldn’t be here
trying to defend VICTIMienna via NAME CALLING AND INSULTS. It’s typical behavior of VICTIMienna fans, when they can’t forumulate a valid point in support of VICTIMienna they deflect from her bad behavior by changing the subject (ie-hurling insults at other posters). If you spent less time fawning over VICTIMienna’s VERY PUBLIC AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER WOMAN’S HUSBAND, you wouldn’t have to resort to INSULTS AND NAME CALLING when someone presents logical arguments against VM antics with the MARRIED MAN.

BTW, VICTIMienna also has too much time on her hands. If she spent less time publicly helping a MARRIED MAN betray and humilate his wife and 4 kids, then she could invest more time into developing her so called “talent and beauty”. She is also taking the MARRIED MAN’s unwillingness to commit to her way too personally. She is just BG’s booty-call and sugar-mama, what did she expect?

To Vanessa #78: No, we don’t know what S*****ienna is really like and we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors either. We don’t want to know! That’s just the point!
Balty and S*****ienna should have kept their sexual antics and nudity behind closed doors. Even couples who are “knowingly” in the process of divorce, people who have terrible feelings for their spouses don’t treat their spouses and children like this! This is a very unusual case. It seems to me, Balty has found a drinking buddy and someone to do drugs with. Although, maybe there was water in those wine bottles they were photographed drinking from? I call this control. SM controlling Getty an alcoholic by drinking with him and doing drugs with an ex heroin addict. I’m permitted to have my suspicions. BG looks like hell now and when you see past pictures of him with his wife he looks great. BG & SM don’t seem to know the meaning of the word love! If you truly care for someone why behave like this? Do you really want the whole world to see you and your mistress having sex? For shame!

VM has no one to blame but herself. It’s wasn’t the media that made her shamelessly flaunt her AFFAIR with another woman’s husband. She knew that he was MARRIED, so there is no justifiable reason for sleeping with BG. It doesn’t matter what he may have told her because her only option was to WALK AWAY.

You don’t need to know the full story to understand that 5 people are being hurt by this VERY PUBLIC AFFAIR, that these photo-ops with the MARRIED MAN are INSENSITIVE, that it is not appropriate for VM to whine about how she is being mistreated when she is publicly helping a MARRIED MAN betray and humilate his wife and 4 kids, that VICTIMienna could have AVOIDED this situation by rejecting the MARRIED MAN’s advances or waiting until he filed for a divorce before pulling PR stunts like kissing the MARRIED MAN on a public street or releasing photos of the MARRIED MAN spending “quality time” with her in Mexico, London Prague, Italy, NY, and LA, and that both VM and BG are fully capable of AVOIDING the papz when they don’t want to be seen or heard.

It’s interesting that some people blame the media for portraying VM in a “bad light”, but they completely ignore how VM has used/abused the media to portray RG and her marriage in a bad light. The only way VM can justify her actions with ANOTHER WOMAN’s HUSBAND is by making it look like she was just “saving” BG from his “bad wife”, hence the “they were separated” or “his marriage was already bad” lies. No one has slanted the media more than VM, from whining about how she is being “unfairly” treated to flaunting her AFFAIR.

The only ones that have ever maintained that BG and his wife were “separated” or that the marriage was in trouble before SM entered the picture is SM and her mothers. Since the married man never said that he was separated and only announced that he and his wife had RECENTLY separated as a result of those “embarassing” photos, it would stand to reason that SM and her mothers created the “separation/marriage was in trouble” lies to justify her behavior with the married man.

More of the “tour of the nasties.” I hope they settle down with each other and then f’cking disappear. Losers.