Gerard Butler Parties Oscars-Style

#73-I am with you. How does anyone know, all it is is speculation and this isnt fair to Gerry when he himself said (I know at least twice-)everytime he is seen/pictured with a woman/someone either talking to, standing by (whatever) he is having an affair with them (or in a relationship). Now, I know for myself and I am sure all with agree no one wants to be done this way……someone assuming that because you spoke with another or stood by them you are automatically going out with them……this is how the rumours, assumptions and speculations start and it only takes one to do so. He already is a “target” for the “paps” and the like and it looks at times it is taking its toll so bottom line if you really have to know about what he is doing with his personal life…why dont you ask the man himself!

Peace.

LW

Gina is an old friend of his, not his girlfriend. From what I’ve heard he’s actually still seeing Kristi.

You know, I think you are wrong Lynda. I think at first his fans might be a wee bit jealous, but then they would eventually accept it and things would calm down. Just like anything else. I really don’t think Gerard would hide a girlfriend. It doesn’t sound like him to me.

So, he’s not married to anybody. Why should he be exclusive to one girlfriend?

How are his dating habits anyone’s business but his and the women he dates?

ahhhhh…. but that’s only assumed behavior and events based on a few shots on video. Unless we actually know for certain how Gerry does or does not treat his dates… it’s all just speculation. Those videos really tell us nothing.

#78- you heard it from whom that he is still dating Kristi? Her b/f? I heard he has numerous projects in the works…………

Rather than believe anything that annoying bunch of yammering goofballs at TMZ says, I’m inclined to believe real, average people who meet Gerry. People who have met him and have nothing to gain by making up stories. There are plenty of people, and not just fans, but passers-by or those who stop to watch filming going on, who talk about how friendly Gerry is, how down-to-earth and willing to say hello and smile for a picture. It seems that he has been consistently kind and friendly to people throughout the course of his career. I genuinely admire that about him.
That said, it would make sense that a man who is kind, caring and respectful to strangers would conduct himself with the same grace in any other relationship.
I admire that he has had the courage to admit that he could be more mature in his relationships - many of us could say the same about ourselves.

#91-It was via a British journalist and it was a year or so ago. I was in London at the time. I am not intuned with Gerry as you are and as I said had I needed to validate the article I would have saved the email.

If Gerry has so many girls on a string then why hasn’t one of the pissed off ex’s started blabbing? Everyone on this site would eat it up. You guys just refuse to admit the obvious: HE’S BORING! He’s not Clooney, he’s not a playboy, he’s a cute guy with lot of fans and not a lot of game. Why do you people blow him up to epic proportions? Why do you assume he’s this great Romeo that no girl can resist? I doubt it. He might just very well be dating Kristi and minding his business instead of sluting around.

yeah, doesn’t anyone have any good scoop.

#96 you may have a point. IGerard is boring. I don’t know what or who he is, it’s the same trashy non-news all the time, have said my piece, just think I am going to sign off on all of this.

#88: I wouldn’t be surprised about that at all. One thing doesn’t automatically exclude the other, LOL. And the Kristi rumor came from his side, not hers. Apparently he has some very communicative friends and acquaintances as you seem to know yourself.