OlderSun, 29 March 2009 at 4:54 pm
Gerard Butler is a Nude Law-Abiding Citizen
Clean-shaven Gerard Butler attends the Jameson Empire Magazine Awards at the Grosvenor House Hotel, Park Lane on Sunday (March 29) in London, England.
The 39-year-old Scottish stud has been filming his latest flick, Law Abiding Citizen, in Philidelphia with costar Jamie Foxx. Gerry filmed a nude scene on a closed set last week. He also brought a masseuse on set for the tired and sore crew members. What a nice guy!
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Lookin’ bit tired…
I used to find him really sexy. But there is something off about his face. He looks older some how. Maybe a bit puffy. I don’t know. Maybe he should get with Jen Aniston. They may be perfect for each other. except he really likes his women more his age or younger.
Will he be right back in NYC this week for the Dressed to the Kilt thing? Take a break, GB. Anyway, can’t wait for TUT, Game and Lawabiding Citizen and finally, Burns.
He looks sooo old.
Invest in some Just For Men and get a facial, Ger.
You’ll be smexy again.
I”m not familar with much of his work, but he is one ugly S.O.B.! I always hear people extoling his virtues, which may be true as an actor, but he has a face that could stop traffic, and I mean that in a bad way. So overrated! I better get going, I can hear the rumble of his supporters already.
He does look older. But there’s something noble about his looks. He looks like my dad a bit.
Where’s the scruff?
Thanks for the up-date and photos of Gerard, he’s looking very smooth and sexy. Loving the clean-shaven look, he looks younger to me. I guess he is sporting the clean-shaven look for his new role in Law Abiding Citizen.
I personally think he looks better when he has a bunch of facial hair. Most men look better clean-shaven, he is the exception. The more facial hair he has, the less visible his face is, thus he becomes more passable looking. Cover that ugly mug up Gerald!
Y’know, about five years ago I saw him in Phantom of the Opera and thought he was SO sexy, but a rotten singer. OK. Fine. But then I started to pay attention to him and I think first, he needs to work with a speech coach or something because there’s a lot of Scottish actors who aren’t so awful with their accent. Look at Ewan McGregor and James McAvoy. Even the Irish like Colin Farrell or Jonathan Rhys Myers or Liam Neeson or Aidan Quinn. They are all understandable. But Gerry spits when he talks and he mushes up his words. I think he has a speech impediment. Also, if he is “39″ then so’s my granny! LOL!!! He looks a lot more like 49 or even 59. I was to have sex with him I’d have to make him not talk and wear a bag over his head. But he has a nice body. Except, he never has had a steady girlfriend for all this time. Maybe one or two. I don’t think he much likes girls.
Feeling bad for saying it because he seems a nice guy, but half of the time I don’t understand a word he says. So I’ll have to agree on that one with poster # 10.
He has a girlfriend, her name is Kristi. I wonder if she was there with him?
He has a whole “herd” in Philly. I wonder if they were there.
Thanks Jared.
Anon @ 03/29/2009 at 6:06 pm
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Aidan Quinn is Scottish??!! Well, fcuk me, I never would have quessed that to be the case, and he’s one of my favorite actors. I’ve seen so many of his movies and he never spoke with an accent. Just something else for me to like about the guy.
Gorgeous Gerard.
Kristi was there with him most of the time he was filming his latest movie in Philadelphia. Dont know about the “herd”.
I’m pretty sure Aidan Quinn is American.
Gerry looks like he hasn’t slept for a week. The “herd” has probably exhausted him, LOL.
Or maybe it’s just the clean shaven look. Doesn’t suit him at all.
@freddyb: How do you know she was in Philly most of the time with him?
Is there something wrong with Gerard’s mouth? I have watched him in interviews and there is definitely something very odd about his mouth and the way he moves his lips. It seems to get worse as he gets older too. And yes, he looks MUCH older than 39 and he hasn’t aged well.
Dude looks like crap. Paunchy and bloated. Blechhh
I agree that he looks better with the scruff - it is hides his paunchy mug and it suits him better.
Is Kristi that girl he was photographed with? The one that had a really long face and looked like a horse??
Eeeh? Are we looking at the same guy? Seriously, he looks very healthy, cleaned-up and there… in the nick of time.
He’s enjoying the well-deserved momentum from his career and Micheal Sheen is (slated) to be a part of a film of his? Could be networking visit? I mean RnR wins!!! They use his image for The Movie. I suspect this nearly guarantees Guy’s sequel. I think Ger can pull off 38 for many years to come. Russell Crowe rocks. HOPE he got to meet with him? Hurray for Russ!
Very happy with this appearance and why. He’s in very good company. This is b.i.g. I’m so happy for him. He’s an exceptional human.
Kristi is the girl from the Arcade. I think she’s a FWB at best.
Ugh! Someone’s stuck a fugly stick up his ar$e and perforated it. He used to be so hot,
I hope his scene is not with Jamie Foxx!! lol
FWIW-Aidan Quinn, Born in Chicago on March 8, 1959, to Irish immigrants, Quinn and his four siblings were raised in both the U.S. and their parents’ native country. The family spent so much time in Ireland that Quinn had part of his high school education there, and he moved to Dublin in his late teens. While in Dublin, he tried to break into the local theatre scene; when that proved to be less than fruitful, Quinn returned to Chicago. There, he worked as a roofer and joined local acting companies. He acted in a number of productions and made his New York debut in an off-Broadway production of Sam Shepard’s -Fool for Love.
freddyb what have you done?
I can hear the 300lb fangirls charging. I’m getting outta here!
They’ll have to get past the “herd” first!
gorgeous no matter what. he ages like fine wine.
freddy is lying
I would drink his dirty bath water.
Yes I’m that much of a *****.
Someone give him an energy drink. I do think he is a hottie, but I agree with #10. I have a difficult time understanding him.
If anybody has question about his mouth, just watch his kissing scenes and also this video on youtube. He has perfect control of his mouth.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cjc3Ik5sqUc
wow, you guys are definitely sipping on the haterade today…
wow, you guys are definitely sipping on the haterade today…
“IS FREDDYB LYING?”
“WILL THE HERD UNCOVER THE TRUTH BEHIND BLOG-GATE?”
Tune in next week to find on ‘When Fangurls Attack’ - 8pm on the Discovery Channel!!!
LMFAO @ #36
Umm….Joan, did you see him at the Golden Globes? Gerard Butler does NOT have perfect control of his mouth! It’s very, very weird looking.
Is he having a scene with Jennifer Aniston? I read it here:
http://www.howlegit.com/link/link_details/what-s-really-going-on-with-jen—gerard-
Jared, thank for the pics. Butler looks great and awesomely sexy, as usual. Now THAT is a MANLY MAN!!!
Everybody has a day where they don’t look good…this is his day…and for that person who says he has a horrible singer….Andrew Lloyd Wright chose him to be the Phantom….chose Gerry because of his voice and the rawness that he brought out in the Phantom…I too like him scruffy but he’s hot either way….and I love his accent too…
Hmm, scruff or not, he’s beautiful. Dont care what anyone says on that one. He’s stunning.
And accent, I can understand it most of the time, and, that too, either way, is beautiful =D
#39 Wow, now that’s a hot couple!!!
But if it was so long ago, I’m sure they’re just friends who daydream about each other every once in a while.
I’d so cross my fingers for those two to get together, however, there’s someone else (hotter) who’s elbowing guys to get into Jennifer’s toned arms. Any bets? Don’t bet, this is Gerard’s thread.
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Everyone has bad days, I think Gerard is hot most of the time.
My mom and sister are in love with him-I don’t get it. He has a hamster face, he probably smells like one too!
All filthy Jocks have weird mouths.
It’s from sucking coçk all day and fuçkîng guys bareback in the shower before blowing their loads on eachothers ……shît sorry. wrong board.
Awww….He missed Shanna Moakler’s birthday.
He is an actor not a beauty contestant.
All Gerry’s fans adore his mouth just because of that , his lips go a little to the left sometimes and we looove it.
The same with his accent, it’s adorable!!!
Gerry, love him or leave him…
Gerry is a great guy, a handsome man, an actor extremely dedicated and he deserve all good things in these world. I’m very sad with this unpleasant comments up about him.
SUCCESS, GERRY!!!!
Gerry is still hot!!!!! I don’t care what anybody says!!!!
Apparently people can’t read? Because I said Aidan was IRISH not Scottish, and yes he was born here but his parents weren’t and he does have an accent but it’s very subtle. Brian Cox and Brendan Gleeson are good examples of other Scots with accents who you CAN understand. I think Gerry should have his teeth fixed. It might help. He seems to have some overbite thing that affects his speech. He can afford it so he should do it. And Gerry’s always got some random “model” to hang around with for events and staged pictures. He has no steady girl friend and hasn’t had one for some time. If ever.
I read where he has an apartment in NYC in the Chelsea neighborhood. Think about it.
I’m sure is a talented actor, judging by the plaudits he has received in the past. He is a big guy, just like me, but he has an UGLY face. I mean really, what is “beautiful” about him? I got my magnifying glass out and I’m still not seeing it LOL. I know beauty is subjective, but he has an asymmetrical face and a wierd mouth. However, his fans will continue to insist he is gorgeous, attractive , etc and I’ll continue snickering.. FUGLY GERARD sounds about right!
I love how you haters mercilessly slag him off online, safe in the knowledge that he can’t reach down internet and and stab you in the f/cking face.
he is 39 but he looks older. i think brad looks younger than him.
#52 not fugly gerard- Geriatric Gerry.
They like CLEAN-SHAVEN persons in london.
IN AMERICA IS A CRISES GOING ON, folks!!
#54… So what????? I don’t care about Brad…
I care about Gerry, just the way he is…
And sometimes his voice takes me to heaven! It’s so sexy!!!
I’d put his mouth to the test any day. And see if he had a “problem” using it. But, with the stories going around these days, makes me want to bathe in acid.
Anyway, other than that..He looks tired and unhappy. He used to have a “glow” about him. To me, he looks miserable now. Get out Gerry! Get out of the biz! It’s killing you….lol! (well, not laughing, that sucks!)
J’adore.
I’m actually glad that he is with Kristi, because she’s not that pretty. It would feel much worse if he was with someone really beautiful! Lol
GET OVER THS KRISTI SH/T.
He is not with her or should I say SHE’S not with him. Can we just apply a little common sense here? Kristi K is around 30, educated at one of our best colleges, very successful in the biz. She too much woman/mature for him.
The “herd” he picks from are kids/early twenties. Too inexperienced in relationships to know better and at an age of s/xual experimentation that frat boys like and can handle.
It’s hard to give a man strong boundaries when you’re young and want to break them yourself. Trix are for kids.
GET OVER THS KRISTI SH/T.
He is not with her or should I say SHE’S not with him. Can we just apply a little common sense here? Kristi K is around 30, educated at one of our best colleges, very successful in the biz. She too much woman/mature for him.
The “herd” he picks from are kids/early twenties. Too inexperienced in relationships to know better and at an age of s/xual experimentation that frat boys like and can handle.
It’s hard to give a man strong boundaries when you’re young and want to break them yourself. Trix are for kids.
sorry for the double post
I´m portuguese and i dont whrite very well the english but were it goes ! I just love Gerard is such a nice guy and he is a very hard working actor we could see that in 300.Of course is tired, people think that an actor have to be perfect in all aspects,always sexi with fresh look!He is human like us!He gets up every morning goes to the bathroom do what it have to do have breakfast and go to work!But he is working allot because he is ambiciousl (Ulgy Truth, Rock´nRolla, Game, Law Abiding Citizen and the Burn´s project that he figth so much for it! As for hes accent i just love it and i understant every word he say with out subtitles and i´m not english, so for those that wants a perfect human being ,I´m sorry but there are not perfect persons! Gerri i wish you allot of love and prosperity in your career.Me and the Brazilian girls love you very much just go to you tube and you will have the reasons whi!! For the rest of you just think a litle before you whrite anithing abougt a person , you can hurt someones fellings speacialy Gerri´s lovelly mum. Lots of Kisses from PORTUGAL ———- RUTE RODRIGUES
#62: You gotta be kidding. She’s not successful at all, she’s a small production assistant who wants to make it big as a writer and probably uses him and his connections in the biz to boost her career. Just look at her imdb resume and you’ll see that she hasn’t achieved much yet.
My husband, my son, my dog and even my favorite movie star Gerry (Gerard Butler) are looking older. Should I despise, stop loving or abandon them?
Of course I will love them forever … that’s it…
I think he is dating her. Many people saw them together in Philly.
#64 Dear Rute! Your words are my words. Gerry is wonderful guy. Dot!
Kisses from Brazil!
Hey Ruth and Rosfan..
I agree with you Ruth ..you are so rigth..
Hey from Skanidinavien
Big love and kisses for Gerry from Ukraine!!!
Gerry, that is…
Alot of his old fans seem to believe he is gay.gossip sites,rumours on the streets.Now all of the sudden he is surrounded by Kristi again and herdes of women.
Really???Have you seen pics of these women??Pics that are NOT staged??No!! Nobody sees him in public with women walking in the park or having a nice evening at a restaurant.
Most of his encounters with women look staged..and probably are.
Nothing wrong with being gay but there is something wrong with living a big lie.
All these rumours about him dating women or having them lined up makes it even worse.It is like he has no respect for women whatsoever.While that is not true at all.Please open your eyes girls.
He is always surrounded by gay men,never seen holding hands with a lady,leads a life style that looks similar to George Michael’s back in the days that he was still in the closeth.(the models,jewelry,leather jackets and the scruff) THINK ABOUT IT!!.
So let’s not attack Kriti or any of his dates or any other women that tries to come near him,for he is NOT interested in them anyway, and really as they all are willingly to claim….JUST FRIENDS!
Besides him living a lie.He is a nice and very kind guy.
#73: And how would you know he is gay? Do you have any proof of that? No, you haven’t. Maybe you find it hard to believe but there are actually straight men who have gay friends, date models, wear tasteless juwelery, live in Chelsea and have a pug. Have I missed anything? I actually know several myself who fall into at least some of these categories.
As for Kristi, a lot of people have seen them together in Philly, he didn’t hide her at all, but most people there just don’t care about it and therefore don’t talk. And there are no paps in Piladelphia, so there are no pictures. Simple as that.
There’s nothing wrong with being gay but why are some people always so eager to MAKE a lot of movie stars gay? And probably all the wrong ones. The really gay ones all have a very visible beard and a perfectly staged fake public “straight” life.
If Butler wanted to hide being gay he would have a girlfriend for everyone to see.
@ #73
Naaah.
Bi-sexuality is always a possibilty. Nothing surprises me anymore about Gerard.
Anyone that claims that he wants to keep his private life private as much as he does has something to hide.
With all the fangurls in Philly, someone would have a pic of any woman that was with him. This whole thing sounds exactly like the Jasmine posts.
Too many gay rumors out there, someone needed to drum up some straight talk.
Maybe Kristi or her friends started all this talk to get her name out there again.
Fangirls whatever. He is still not that recognizable - many people have never even heard of him still. He could easily walk about in Philadelphia with anyone and no one would know or care who he was. I am sure that is the reason why there are no pictures. He is most defintely not a household name yet. Or, the people that may have taken pictures were not the paparazzi and dont want to put pictures out there for the world to see. Obviously, he was not being that private about what he did and who he was with.
#76: Believe one thing: the fangurls who saw them in Philly ALL have pictures of him and Kristi, but they keep them to themselves or in their most inner circle. It’s called “protecting St. Gerard’s privacy”, LOL. They are much more adamant at keeping his personal life under wraps than he is actually. He can always rely on that. None of them would ever publically share their pictures or stories as that would be considered treason and they’d be kicked out of his fandom (and favor) immediately.
And yes, he does have something to hide: that he’s sleeping around with pretty young girls and cheating on his “girlfriends” that he officially doesn’t have.
I doubt it #77. Some of his fans will come up with any excuse they can to talk themselves out of believing that Gerry is actually with someone.
These are the same kind of posts when he was supposed to be going with Jasmine. So ridiculous
#80 he may be with ’someone’, but it’s not Kristi. LOL!
And as far as phangurls having pics….please. If he has nothing to hide then why not have his picture taken with SO on the red carpet or on the beach etc.
looking at those latest pictures of Gerry, he could use a little time on the beach. Looking kinda pasty and pale.
His SO’s initials are NB
I’ve always suspected it’s the rabid fangirls who put out the supposed “steady girlfriend was with him during filming in (insert city of choice)”. The possible alternatives, he’s gay, bi, or a man-***** are unacceptable.
There is a witness in Philly who swears that his camp rounded up women on his behalf. So which “eyewitnesses” are telling the truth?
Personally I choose the “herd” story. It’s fresh and new and there is still so mileage available. It’s also funny as He**.
#79 - you are so right. They will do anything to protect him. Makes them feel like they are part of his inner sanctum.
Hi Louise :-)
I actually believe that several things might apply at the same time. I believe the herd story, yet I wouldn’t rule out that at the same time he is also seeing someone on kind of a regular basis as a “backup” for times when there is no herd around. LOL. And he might also be bi. I don’t believe he is totally gay. Then he could have made things much easier for himself.
I agree with those who say he tries to hide his personal life because he doesn’t want his several “dates” (whoever they might be) to know about each other and to hide the man-whoring. Even though there are always rumors there are very few pictures or videos. There’s never been any real evidence (apart from the arcade video), even though TMZ tries to make it look that way. But most of their videos don’t really show anything.
#82
Of course he is pale; he just finished filming the movie where he spent 10 years in jail. Not too much sunshine in there, right?
That is why he looks the way he looks in these pirctures.
#86. I think he may have a couple of “backups”. LOL.
I sort of think that was the problem with Bianca. He brought her to couple of red carpets and the backups found out, and then the sh*t hit the fan.LOL.
#79: “the fangurls who saw them in Philly ALL have pictures of him and Kristi, but they keep them to themselves or in their most inner circle. It’s called “protecting St. Gerard’s privacy”,”
You must be on crack. This is the dumbest thing I have ever heard in my life.
wow. Just wow. If you guys were really smart you would know that all these women are with the same “agency” that is connected to G.
#89: You obviously have no idea of his fans
#88: That’s very possible. I wasn’t around during the Bianca era but apparently he never brough anyone in the open anymore after her. Didn’t kill the rumors though. It will be interesting to see if he now goes back to LA and what will happen there with all the paps around. He’s really been spoilt in Philly, LOL.
#90: And if you were really smart you’d get your facts straight. The agency theory is way old and total BS. Yes, some of the women are with the same agency, but not all. Aniston, Diaz and the likes are all PR stunts, we know that, thank you.
He is G A Y - what the **** are you getting all your shorts in a twist over a a gay guy.
Now that Aniston is single again , I’m sure that cr*p will start up again.
I don’t think the poster was talking about Diaz, etc. being with the same agency.
I know what the poster meant and it is interesting. ; )
@ both #90 & #95.
Are you implying that the great horny shepHERD pays for it as well as having a herd? Does not compute. Or is that my dirty mind?
let’s just say EVERYONE get publicity.
I’ve noticed a lot of ugly comments from posters who claim not to like Mr. Butler. If you don’t like him, why do you hang around and post such uncomplimentary remarks? Just to antagonize his real fans?
I’d really like to know. Honest.
#96. Sometimes the herd isn’t available and the man has needs that must be filled .
#98
Great post!
I cannot believe that someone can trash a person they don’t know anything about.
#98
This is not a fan wall. This is a blog which people are invited to post their opinions. It’s called ‘freedom of opinion & expression’.
You will find it in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. Article 19 to be precise.
I am a fan. But an increasingly pissed off one at that because of all the consistent reports of how badly St. Geraaarrrd can treat his women sometimes.
#101
I really like the name St. Gerard. :-) Very inventive.
Suits him well in a positive light. (for me, only my opinion)
#102
I’m sure he’s also a virgin.
#103
Probably. :-)
You are very entertaining.
I don’t really care if he is gay or not. I like the man as an actor and as a sexy hunk of man. I’ll never meet him to test his preferences so what the he** difference does it make?
I thouroughly enjoy his movies and he is a superb acrtor. He can make any role his own. As for his speech, in interviews he is very articulate. He has a very high IQ. Only in films where he is opposite other actors of Irish or Scottish accents does he slip back into his native way of speaking. When Irish and Scottish speak together it is hard to understand a word unless you are familiar with the accents.
He could flaunt any number of women on this red carpet or that phoro op and it would make little difference to who he is. Look at all those actors who latch onto other actors as partners. Very few stay together. They swap around like members of a swap meet.
Personally I’d rather think he hasn’t dipped in one after another. Who wants to be with someone who can be linked to have the population of Los Angelas, Hollywood and New York. It is good for a change to see someone who is afraid to show up on their own.
Gerry all the way. To hell and back. Don’t care for him? Then bugger off.
Are you people blind???
I agree he´s a bit tired and pale in these pics, but even like this he leaves most men far behind… in the dust! Everyone has the saint right to go not so well in some pictures, toss the stones who never did it!
He´s a gorgeous man, and more, he´s charming and funny, his mouth really has a particular way of moving when he talks, but this only make him look cuter.
#101
I would be the first to defend freedom of speech, having done just that on foreign shores. And, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. But, why do some appear only to come here to denegrate Mr. Butler? Do you know him personally? Do you know the people who produce these “consistent reports” of his treatment of women? How do you know that what you hear is true? Have you witnessed such incidents or spoken with these women? You see, I’m honestly serious as to why some feel it so necessary to be so negative. Why not just quietly disagree, have a good laugh and move on? I’m a student of human nature and find this very interesting.
1. Gerry ONLY looks good with scruff or a beard. When he shaves it off, he looks like an ugly guy.
2. Gerry has poorly capped teeth. Which have given him a speech impediment. This is why he does not get key movie roles.
3. Gerry has never had a real girlfriend……I think he is gay.
21. TED CASABLANCA 03/06
Shocker! There’s yet another secret gay actor whose star is rising faster than Chris Brown’s temper! Right now, No-Beave Steve has a decent gig making a name for himself playing loveable but hateful characters. So much so, these semi notorious parts have landed him a sizeable part in a major movie franchise. In seconds, Steve, whose looks are as sultry as his kiss (say his boyfriends), is poised to become the next the, no question. But isn’t it interesting that standing right there, right by Steve’s hunky side on all those requisite red-carpets will be… …not a fake girlfriend. What?! Is this dude on crack? Doesn’t he know that’s how you get ahead (and stay ahead) in this superficial town of ersatz relationships and even faker People magazine spreads? Yes, he does, actually, and he doesn’t give a crap. I so love this guy! Close buds to No-Beave insist, assure and swear on their equally humpy hearts that NBS has made it an edict that he will not be participating in the only-for-show romance game so many of his movies’ handlers have tried to make him participate in. As I said, fab. Just can’t wait for the first reporter to call him on what he so obviously plans on not hiding? Will it be Perez? Me? The Star? Harvey Levin? Or maybe, just maybe, it’s gonna be Anderson Cooper…stay tuned.
This is what happens, you work all the time and on your downtime instead of taking some well deserved rest, you chase too many girls at the same time, attends too many parties. If he goes on like that, he won’t live to see his 50ies. It’s sad as he’s still good-looking but he actually looks older now than his 39-year.
He should find himself a nice girl near his age, have a committed relationship with her, take time off and leave the partying alone when he’s working and instead favor quiet nights at home with his sweetheart. Men who choose to have a serious relationship with somebody they’re compatible with live longer and it is proven by studies on the subject.
Everyone head back to philly chit chat 3/27 thread for update.
“That may be the girl, or someone who looked like her”.Sounds like a positive ID of Kristi to me. LOL. Still doesn’t explain the herd tho.
When are you fangurls going to GET IT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULLS that Gerry is not dating this Kristi chick. It just cracks me up that each time someone mentions he is gay, you bring up some random chick nobody ever sees.
First of all, if he was REALLY INTO WOMEN, which HE IS NOT, he
certainly could probably do better then Kristi or Bianca or all these stripper looking types you always mention.
THIS BOYO IS GAYO!
So maybe the herd were really guys in drag!!!
#113
If Gerry is gay, why was he out on the pier in LA smooching the young lady whom you call Kristi? I’ve seen the video, and there were several kissing sessions. I didn’t see Gerry puke, so he must not have found it distasteful. He may be gay, but so far I’ve seen no definitive proof. I have, however, seen him “making out” with several ladies through the years in photos or on video. So, could someone “in the know” please site some instances of his flirtations with members of the same sex? Just call me curious…I’m not looking for an argument. Just some hard facts.
stinkyL
did you read the post by the girl claiming to be Danielle(sp?). what do you think?
#113
If a person is gay, bi or straight, it is up to the individual whether or not he or she wants that information known. It’s NO-ONE ELSE’s place or business to make a claim regarding someone else’s sexuality.
#116. Nope. I was reading the comment section on Friday when all hell broke loose. Not going back. That so -called update went up on Friday, that’s what set off the whole blog.
i have been a fan of Gerry’s for almost 9 years. He is a fine actor and very handsome. Watch Dear Frankie. It’s a nice happy movie. Im not thrilled that he made a movie with Katherine Heigl but oh well. He was hella hot in Phantom but 300 is the ultimate for him.
You are so …bla bla bla bla…
The man must be bi… and so what?
I’m his fan, no matter what…
#95: I state this is only hearsay, but apparently Kristi joined his agency AFTER the pier incident. So it could be he’s helping her with her career now. If it’s just because they’re friends or because they’re actually together, I don’t know. But I think this is different than the Diaz thing. After all, Kristi was an unknown before and not a high profile actress to make sure he’d get some headlines out of it.
He’s in love woo hoo :)
#121 - She is not with his agency. She is with another agency which is still connected to G in some way. That’s all. It’s call PR and everyone is benefiting. Also she is not an actress like you state. She is a writer.
#115 - It’s called acting (and I use that term loosely). he kisses women in the movies all the time.
OK then… .. ..
According to poster #83 his SO’s initials are NB. So where does NB fit into this equation with Kristi?
How can someone who has been ripped apart on this blog in the past be ignorant enough to think she’s exclusive? Surely she’s aware by now of what’s been written over the last fortnight.
It’s not adding up, as usual.
All this speculation is making me feel ill.
#123: Please read my post closely, I said she was NOT an actress.
#124: Do you seriously believe that crap about the initials? That was just BS. I could post and say his SO’s initials were XY and there would probably some people out here who would believe it. In my opinion, the less anyone says the more suspicious the statements are. Just popping in, throwing around some BS and never be seen again. Same with the gay rumors. Nobody ever came around with a real story or at least some details. All that people say is always just “he’s gay”. Really a profound statement. LOL
Since none of the rumors about what happened in Philly are backed up by photos or anything else that has any real substance, I guess it’s easy to just ignore them and pretend they’re not true. Even if they were. You know, the old “if there are no photos it didn’t happen” attitude. Yeah, right. A zillion things happen each day that are not photographed yet they do happen and they are true nonetheless. Not saying that’s necessarily the case with the Philly rumors, but please don’t be so naive to think just because you didn’t see anything with your own eyes means it must have been made up for sure. You would be surprised how many rumors about celebrities that are never “proven” are actually true.
Personally I tend to lean towards the “roundup’ at the club rumour. And I can’t see a “steady” in that scenario, unless it was kinky.LOL
The heated discussion, also plausible. Filming is over, he’s leaving town. Adios baby.
#126
Take a chill pill. And don’t assume to know what I do and do not believe.
All I will say is that I am reluctant in supporting the career of an actor when there is enough conjecture out there to draw the conclusion that he treats his girlfriends like crap.
He might have a girl or several who probably all think they’re steady or “serious”, and yet continue to play the field when they’re not around. To me, that seems to be the most likely scenario. The herding would also fit in there. What puzzles me though is the argument (if that is true) at the restaurant, I mean shouldn’t a local ******* buddy have been aware that he would leave her when filming was over?
#126 - freak out much? LOL!
don’t you get it? It’s all the illusion of a gf. and there all have the same rep.
#128: Relax. Most of what I said was meant to be general remarks and not directed at you.
#129: Maybe the local ****buddy thought she was THE ONE.
Hey, if we’re lucky, she was so pissed off, maybe she’ll spill her guts in a blog.
#130: What I get is that people like you always try to sell their personal speculations for facts. Yes, it is suspicious that they have the same agency, but that’s no proof whatsoever. Get me? Please present any real evidence. What’s the problem with that?
#132: The only problem is, even if she did nobody would believe her. LOL
Gerry was with Kristi on her 30th birthday. It was on March 17th. Maybe he is seeing other people but not likely. At least Kristi is in her 30’s!
#134: But the fangirls would implode and that would be worth watching.
This reminds me of something I read inTedC’s column a couple of years back. Someone wrote in claiming that Gerard was a lousy lay.
Ted replied”What’s the matter ,honey? Didn’t call you back?”
#135 - LOL! He was with Danielle Audain.
Kristi was in LA on March 17th….fyi.
He is still seeing Jasmine too. She lives near me in NY. I saw them together last week before he went to London for the Jameson Awards. She may have even gone with him.
#135 LOL - no he wasn’t. I suppose it could be a coincidence that Kristi has the same b-day! Not likley. Why can’t people believe that he is with Kristi? It is so lame that everyone tries to talk themselves out of it.
#140 - Kristi was with her bf in LA - you must be a phangurl that is in denial he is gay. Why can’t you believe he is not with her.
Why would she want to be with him anyway? He’s a pig.
Hah - Kristi was not in LA - she was in Philladelphia for her b-day.
No. no, no. He’s dating Naomi Campbell. She’s been asked to star in a Bollywood film(No joke). Gerard can join her in India ,and then he can have a Bollywood “herd” as well!
#140 must be friends with the idiot blogger HughE.
I dont know who HughE is?! All I did was post that Gerry and Kristi were together for her b-day and people go ballistic. You are the people in denial.
Completely off-topic but Interesting fact:
There is a place in Glen Coe, Scotland, called the Glen Coe Inn. The proprieters are members of the clan MacDonald. There is a sign near the door entrance that reads ‘No hawkers or Campbells Allowed’. Could you imagine NC facing off with the bouncer? LOL
#141 - I do concur with the pig part though.
#145, #142, #141, #140, #138, #135
OK, which one of you two is Gollum and which one is Smeagol?
The bouncer wouldn’t stand a chance against Naomi. She’d toss a cell or Blackberry at his head, and he would be out cold.LOL.
And I see the rabid fangurls are back.
ok, anyone can post anything here - doesn’t mean it’s true.
But, he wasn’t with Kristi or whatever her name is. That is the truth!! LOL!
What is it with people posting things? #145, #150 and then not stating how they know?? I guess that’s the way of the internet.
Also, #150 sounds like a delusional fan girl. LOL. I wonder how long this thread will go??
#152 …..So does #142, 145.
NO MORE!! Please no more posts on this thread. It’s irrelevant - who cares - he is a dog.
Nick Boyle
Deal with it.
GERRY IS BEAUTIFUL MAN. WHY YOU ARE SO ANGRY?
i agree with #73 post. re: similarities with george michael in the early days.
can u say valtrex?
News
RocknRolla: wins Best British Film
At the Empire Awards~Info on the event are available from Empire on line.
An expert from their blog…the acceptance ’speech’:
AND THE WINNER IS…ROCKNROLLA
Guy Ritchie: Thank you very much. I won’t say much more because Gerry Butler is the eloquent one among us. But thank you very much for this. Gerry: This was supposed to be Guy speaking but as usual he dumped it on me. Listen, I want to thank Guy who really wrote all the words and directed all the stuff and did a great job and it’s about time he got SOMETHING right…read the entire article and view video at link: Best British Film
Congrats Gerry!!! You are part of it, a great part!!!
Ok, here goes. Gerry is a player. His objective is to string along as many girls at once as he can. Sex is really not the end goal, the “stringing along” is. This is severe narcissism. If you want a “date” with him you can easily get one. He WILL call you back and if he’s still interested he’ll keep the FWB going. If, after the call back, he’s not interested (which will happen if the girl tries to make the rules) he’ll stop calling.
The FWB thing gets one-sided and the GIRL will usually drop him. One less in the herd. Gerry has said publicly that the chase (which for him does not end with sex) is what he likes. But when the girl starts wanting him, he doesn’t want her. Translation…When a woman isn’t an object anymore (to string along on his terms) and becomes a real person with demands, feelings, hopes, fears, etc. he doesn’t want her. He’s a big coward.
One night stands or short term affairs between consenting, non drunk/drugged adults is fine, if that’s what you like. It’s the leading girls on and dumping them when they want a balanced friendship/relationship that makes him a pig. This is why he’s got such a bad reputation in LA. Lots of people fool around but he plays with a level of malice about it.
I can only state that this is FACT. I know there’s really no way, on the internet, to prove it. Please fangirls believe me and proceed with eyes wide opened.
This birthday story is one of the best examples how things usually get totally mixed up in the rumor mill.
He was at a karaoke bar in Philly and it was the patron’s birthday. At that bar, he was allegedly seen with the same girl that he was smooching with at the club opening that was identified by the blogger as “could be Kristi”. However, that has actually never been verified. In the process of spreading that story on the internet it then turned into “Kristi was with him in Philly on her birthday”. And a new rumor was born!
what argument at the restaraunt, come on guys spill the beans!
#161: That’s all that was posted. No more details, at least not in public. He seemed to have had an argument with a woman at Parc a couple of days after the club opening. Hasn’t been reported who the woman was or what it was about.
#139: Get your facts straight before you post - he wasn’t even in NY last week.
A little something for today’s entertainment.
Someone hackedinto Shanna Moakler’s twitter account and posted this: “I s*cked off Gerard Butler when my husband was almost burnt to death in the hospital
A little something for today’s entertainment.
Someone hackedinto Shanna Moakler’s twitter account and posted this: “I s*cked off Gerard Butler when my husband was almost burnt to death in the hospital
Cr*p. Here’s the whole quote:” I s*cked off Gerard Butler when my husband was almost burnt to death, in a hospital,i’m paying for it now. Karma is a *****.” Priceless.
Sorry abou the other posts.
#159 - I believe you. He seems like a narcissist…..I just wonder what makes him or anyone like this.
Of course he will probably use “my father wasn’t around excuse.”
#159. Interesting assessment,very probable. It may also explain the preference for younger or less experienced women. Anyone closer to his own age would see his B.S. a mile away.
#166: I don’t think that was funny, sorry. Especially not if it didn’t even happen. I can’t stand her but I’m afraid the bad Karma will hit the hacker in the end…
#159: I’m inclined to believe you since that’s exactly what I have always been thinking. However, I’m not sure if it’s because he’s a coward or maybe more because he’s a control freak who wants everything to go by his terms. He always strikes me as someone who needs to be in control and gets extremely insecure when someone else is in charge and he can’t have things his way. So it would fit the picture that he neither wants nor is capable to deal with a woman who has some self-esteem and a mind of her own.
Me, I think you dont know what the word “patron” means. Initially, It was reported that Gerry was at a bar singing happy birthday to a “patron” when the blogger didnt have a picture. Later, the blogger said that he got a picture and it was the same person he was with at a club in Philly the following weekend.
#161, And another example of a rumor being born: It was reported that Gerry was seen at a restaurant having an “intense” discussion with a woman. I suppose one can choose to interpret “intense” any way they would like.
#170 - I can’t believe that you believe what that blogger said about anything! He kept changing his story for *** sake!
It was laughable!
#170 - “and it was the same person he was with at a club in Philly the following weekend.”
He didn’t even say this!
#170: From what I understood the blogger said he got an e-mail from someone with a picture of Gerry and his “Philly girlfriend” that was from the night at the karaoke bar where he was singing Happy Birthday to a “patron”. I also didn’t make a connection between this “patron” and the girlfriend. The blogger never stated that it was the girl’s birthday. He only said that the girl that was with him at the bar was the same that was with him at the club opening. Besides, the karaoke thing was on a Saturday I think so whoever’s birthday it was it wasn’t Kristi’s as it’s been stated here several times that her birthday was on the 17th. I still think the bar/club girl was not Kristi but a local look-alike. If it had been Kristi I don’t think his people would have herded the girls at the club, as they would have known his girlfriend was in town and with him that night.
This guy has moved on who ever it is. He is a pig.
He has to be loaded with STD’s
#173 - yes he did.
I find it interesting that Gerry’s fans cannot accept the fact that he may be with someone. They will use any excuse possible to talk themselves out of believing something. It is so bizarre.
He said “could have been or someone that looked like her. ”
Not the same thing
to borrow a line from #148: Gollum, Smeagul are you there?
Fascinating - this is quite a rational and insightful explanation of all the madness. Scary, too. Has anyone read Dr. Drew’s new book about the prevalence of narcissism among celebrities?
I hope you didn’t personally cross paths with this apparently troubled man - blessings.
#158, interesting post I could believe it.
oops, I meant #159, sowy
I’m flattered.
Bet this book in an interesting read. I wonder how many copies G has been given. LOL!
I’m just surprised none of the exes have come out publicly and ripped him a new one.
hummmm#159..Somehow..Your story rings true to me..Something I’ve suspected for a very long time…Yeah, proceed with caution..Good advice…Thanks..:)
#185 I think they have. Read post #159. They have to stay incognito otherwise the fan girls will rip THEM to shreds.
#159
Sadly, this just confirms what I’ve posted @ #101 & #128.
I know I’ll get blown off for this but just to play devil’s advocate regarding #159’s post, which is entirely plausible. But rather than slag him off as a dog, maybe he really does have rejection issues and this is how he compensates. This is not to make excuses for bad behavior but sometimes it’s easier to create a scenario where you can push someone away or make them do it for you than to deal with your ****. It’s a shame if that’s the case no matter who it is, but just a thought. Ok, let it rip with the “FANGIRL!!!!!” posts…*eyeroll*
no logic train..those points are good…something to take in consideration..Good points…:)
#159 - You do realize your warning will only give the fangirls hope. They love the fantasy of him having relationship issues that can only be solved with the love of a good, girl-next-door woman. This will only make them think that they are the one to change him.
They are
carrot…Good points…but if this is true and #159 is stating the facts…nothing and no one can every change that kind of man..Look at Warren Beatty..He’s married but there are rumours and floaters that he still messes around..Sadly, these men love the “hunt” persay…after that..it’s over and they move on…
It’s true that nothing will change the fangirl’s minds - they are in love with a fantasy, which is fed by someone who is a master of telling them what he knows they want to hear. No matter how much evidence is waved at them - they still believe, in their hearts, that they are “the one”. Sadly, men like this aren’t looking for “the one”, no matter what they may say in interviews. Men like this are profoundly disconnected from others, and the needs and feelings of others are meaningless to them.
#174-cant find it anywhere, interviews, etc where it states Kristi Korzec is his girlfriend……. least with Jasmine there was several verifiable (New Years and on the corner in NYC for example-though nothing like the vid of Gerry and Kristi back in November at the Arcadia)pics and postings (JJ for example)……
Peace.
LW
Do you really think he sings Keroke as much as it is posted? Hope not.
Nothing’s wrong with his mouth…it’s just his hot scottish accent rolling out lol my husband is scottish and girls let me tell you…the way they roll their ‘r’s…translates in many other areas ;)
Gerard Butler is sex on wheels
GERRY IS SO KIND TO HIS FANS AND THAT’S WHAT MATTER TO US… I’M HIS FAN AND DON’T WANT TO MARRY HIM. HE LIKES HIS FANS AND DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY THEM… SOME FANS JOKE ABOUT THIS BUT THEY ARE NOT STUPID…. SOMETIMES HE SENDS MESSAGES TO HIS FANS AND NEVER FORGET TO THANKS THEIR DEVOTION TO HIM… YOU NO NOTHING ABOUT THE CONNECTION BETWEEN GERRY AND HIS FANS. I KNOW… AND THIS IS SOOO GOOD!!!!
Gerry Butler fans are the most delusional on this board. They are the only fans of a star that consistently post b.s. insider information on Gerry. Like they are his neighbors etc. How many times have we read postings about people claiming to be his condo neighbor in Los Angeles or live in the same neighborhood in NY. B-S!!!!!
Then they sit around talking about some stupid girl Kristi like they know her. The make out video was bull. She is probably his cocaine pusher….
Hi again. It’s #159. Thank you for all the positive/constructive comments. I was worried I might set off a fire storm of negative accusations and counter- accusations that leads nowhere. It wasn’t easy to write what I did.
A few points…
-To carrot #191, despite the small chance of triggering a fan “fix him” frenzy, I still feel it’s right to tell the truth, especial after the craziness of the past few weeks ~philly chit chat, herding etc. There probably are people/fans who think they can save GB ~ they can’t. If my “warning” gives these girls more hope (not my intension) then I can only say to them, it’s not your responsibility to change or fix anyone. Gerry has to WANT to change and put in the effort; then he will have a balanced relationship.
-To train #189 Gerry does set up scenarios that repel his friends/lovers so the other person wants to leave him; this lets him “off the hook” (responsibility) of ending the relationship. Yes, this is a coping strategy of his but it causes a lot of confusion and pain for the other person. Afterwards, HE gets to play victim, i.e., “no one can put up with my work schedule, no one can stay with me, if you get to know me I’ll disappoint you, I’m not “in” all these relationships the press says I’m in”…SOUND FAMILIAR?
If any of this wakes one dreamy fangirl up, it’s been worth it.
#159/200–I don’t doubt you one bit. It all sounds so true, but why is it that no one talks or tells on him. I find that very odd. You’d think someone would carry a story once in a while.
#83 i think you’re joking. I bet the initials NB for gerry’s SO stands for No Body.
#201 who’d believe her? they’ll say she’s just a scorned lover. she got what she deserves. people have already said such things on this site and others. we’ve all read how girls are treated in these situations. TRASHED. i think they keep quiet to protect themselves or maybe some are embarrassed or maybe some just move on. but so does the frat boy gerry. things look a little clearer now. I feel sick
201
I think someone is telling on him!
So, Jasmine is also in the picture again? Why on earth would she take him back? If what #159 says is true I doubt he’ll ever change. He’ll continue to lead the girls on. He must be a real charmer though if he can even get away with it twice.
#201: Actually, there have been several stories out on the net, either from girls who claimed to have slept with him or people who said friends of them had slept with him, but as #203 said, nobody believed them. The interesting thing about all these stories was that they were all about one-night-stands, a couple of dates, short flings or FWB. There wasn’t a single one about a steady relationship. So that backs #159.
Since most of these stories weren’t that flattering (indicating he was a man-***** and dumping the girls when he lost interest in them) the posters were always bashed by the armada of fangurls and then everything died down very quickly.
Does anyone remember the blog of this girl who claimed to have slept with him in Vancouver? She gave a pretty detailed report on the whole setup, how she had been approached by his handlers, brought to the set, at first refused to sleep with him but then did it after all some days later? The only actually “bad” thing she said was that he was only “average” in bed. The poor girl was torn to shreds and a couple of days later she took the blog down and revoked her story saying she had made it all up for a school paper or something like that. But I doubt that. There were certain details in this account that I think she couldn’t have known if it hadn’t been the truth.
So it’s really no surprise that most of his “conquests” prefer to keep their experiences to themselves.
It boggles my mind that people don’t want to believe that he is dating Kristi.
It boggles my mind that people don’t come up with any proof he is dating Kristi if it’s so obvious.
According to one of the rags, Gerry is responsible for Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker breaking up.Again. LOL . Good Morning fangurls!
Even the G man wouldn’t touch Shanna Moakler! I hope, LOL.
#195: LoneWolf, what interviews do you mean? I don’t know anything about an interview. Actually, there is no proof whatsoever that Kristi is his girlfriend. Just speculation. You know, posts and comments on various sites, saying they saw them together in Philly or “knew” that she had visited him. Of course without pictures or anything. Someone posted that he had a “real girlfriend” and that she had been with him in Philly most of them time he was there, and another report said he had been visited several times by a woman who lives on the West Coast. This might or might not have been Kristi. Anyway, there were also lots of other rumors about him making out with a girl named Ana and a local Philly girl, then the bar/club story, and I also heard some more gossip about him fooling around in Philly. So, the bottom line is, even if he is still dating Kristi, it’s certainly not exclusive on his part and if she’s really dumb enough to think she’s the only one, then she’s in for some ugly truth sooner or later, LOL.
#210- Don’t forget NY fashion week.He was at an afterparty,sitting at a table surrounded by models.
#211: Right, wasn’t there this story about him and some model that were the last to leave the party together in the early morning hours?
Speaking of NY, if it was really true he’s also seeing Jasmine again we might be in for some major drama, LOL. Guess it’s not impossible, NY is what, like 90 minutes by train from Philly? He could have sneaked out of Philly for a couple of hours and even gotten back on the same day.
It’s all a charade. Some people (fans) definitely want to put him with someone {Jasmine, Kristi, etc.) because they can’t believe he may be gay or bi.
#206 Maybe he pays them off….really.
I think Kristi herself or her friends are posting here. One of her friends posted on IMDb raving about her after she and G were first spotted together in the video. What a joke. I think Kristi is after the publicity. She was a unheard of writer before.
#159/#200 someone who knows: Thanks for the follow-up. It’s nice (and rare) to have an unheated exchange around here, lol! And, I agree that those methods, no matter the motivation, cause the other party pain. I guess I don’t get the ‘victim’ vibe from him - I just figure he’s ultimately also hurting himself and, as you say, that’s for him to figure out if he truly ever does want a balanced relationship.
#206/telling: I’m pretty sure that Vancouver “story” ending up being debunked as someone’s school/college writing assignment. Even if he is ‘cut and run’ he doesn’t strike me as someone who needs help/handlers to manage his encounters.
#212:I heard he was seen leaving with two models. I haven’t heard anything about Jasmine tho? Where is this coming from?
More like leaving with two trannies.
#216: Go back some pages, someone mentioned they saw him and Jasmine in NY last week.
#215: Well, apparently his handlers did herd the girls in the club, so I wouldn’t be surprised if his handlers also approached girls he was interested in. Although it would be really pathetic. Maybe “someone who knows” can say anything about that. If it’s true I’m sure this has happened more than once.
#218: The herding thing was debunked as well - that blogger is out of his league.
#218: The herding thing was debunked as well - that blogger is out of his league.
The blogger was a joke. For someone who claimed he didn’t know who Gerry was, why would you even write a blog about him? An inaccurate one at that.
#220: No, it wasn’t. He just changed the story a bit, but he stood by his claim that the handlers asked for the pretty girls to be brought up to the VIP area to meet Gerry. He just admitted that they weren’t literally “lined up”. I think the problem with this blog is that because it was obviously embellished a bit at first to gain some attention, the paddling back destroyed his credibility although the core of the stories might still be true.
How the **** does this handler business work?!?
“Excuse me, Miss, we work for Gerry Butler and he has decided he wants to **** you. So if you could kindly come with us…”
WTF?!?
#222 - It was incredible the was he would change his stories - it was like he was getting his info from the posts.
Another example would be the post about G’s mom here. All the blogger did most likely was to read the column that it was first mentioned (restaurant incident) Anyone can do it.
If these stories are true - he comes across as a PIG!
#221: The blogger writes about everything that goes on in Philly, he did so long before LAC started filming there. Gerry is just a minor part of his blog. After his first report he apparently received tons of fangurl mails who pampered him and encouraged him to write more and more. Until the day he dared to say something not so nice about Gerry (the herding story) and then all hell broke loose. But that doesn’t mean that the whole blog was BS. I think this guy described the things in the club as he perceived them and had no idea that he was stepping on the fangurls’ toes with it.
I stand by my post…..with his constant changing of the events, he lost credibility. I doubt he was even present at most of these places.
Anyone can say anything in a blog. Just because it’s a blog doesn’t mean any of it is true. Blogs are not journalism.
#224: I agree with you that he sometimes obviously used information he gathered elsewhere, but a lot of the things hadn’t actually been published anywhere else. I think the blog was a wild mix of personal observation and second hand information which is another reason for the credibility problem. As I said, I guess that most stories have a true core, but it’s hard if not impossible to tell what parts have been embellished or are based on hearsay from other people.
Well, I guess most of us can agree he comes off as a ***** and a pig.
He needs new management and a publicist.
#227: No, of course a blog isn’t journalism. It’s always a person’s interpretation of things. But in contrast to all these other anonymous rumors that are being spread on the net, this guy identified himself and didn’t hide behind “anon” screen names. Even though you have to take these stories with a grain of salt, I don’t see why his posts would be less credible than anonymous BS like “He’s gay” or “He’s dating [insert name]“.
The herding scenario is the one consistency in both blogs.It’s not really that hard to believe. All the “in’ clubs have VIP rooms. The only way a mere mortal would gain access would be by invite.So I can see this with regards to Gerry.
And the blogger was at the club opening, and did have photos. Just none of Gerry.
#230 - Point taken and I agree. :)
Maybe he was getting the “backroom” treatment at the club.
#223: I guess you’re not that far from the truth, LOL. No, seriously it seems at the club they asked the girls if they wanted to meet a movie star, apparently they even had to explain to many of them who he was. Now think a few years back before 300 came out, even less people knew him then, maybe it isn’t so far fetched to think he might have used assistants or handlers to “get” him girls.
It took courage for you to bring this into the open and it’s a good thing. There has been so much mystery around Gerry Butler and he has used it well to his advantage. It’s really sad - it can’t be very fun, beneath the surface, to be him. If you need to hire people to pimp for you, what does that say about your self-esteem. And it must be awfully hollow to be one of his hook-ups, as well.
#215 - I think where the victim thing comes in is he acts like poor Mr. LonelyHearts in interviews because it gets sympathy, attention and more cooing from the fangirls who want to take care of him. He gets something from that.
Hi #159! :)
or Someone Who knows.
Thanks again for coming forward. I see exactly what you are saying..then once the relationship falters..he’s playing the “victim’ game…You can never change that kind of man..
#206-you were talking about stories that “werent that flattering” it is in a recent GB/JJ thread, poster posts “hes uncut” NOW THAT! is unflattering….
#210-espically his most recent one-he has never spoke of anygirlfriends….and sad…there is alot of speculation…for example…say Philly…5 is it? or do we include the herd.
200/206-I agree with you 2. It is a reality thing, but it seems that Gerry knows all he has to do is say he didnt do or whatever the his “fangurls” are tearing these women apart. But, god lord his actions, the vids should bring some sense of truth!!!!! Dont remember the thread/site, its been a while but men who hung out with Gerry said the same thing as the women did…..approached by handlers and so on……BUT!!!! none of these so called “fans” want to hear how he really is! His true fans are dwindling because they dont like to see him like this…plus they have common sense…..a wrong is a wrong espically when the comments/posts are saying the exact same thing (”wind bloing in the same direction) and what if he wasnt an actor but average dude?
It will catch up with him if it hasnt already! Hopefully, he will take a time out and remember who he really is… because right now he has forgotten who he is (if you read of how he was when he first started out to now there is a big difference…..ie using handlers for one)
200/206-Stand firm in your beliefs. Like I said he needs fans to stand firm and not to back down then maybe he will get the message he needs to think about things as they were and as they are now. Keeping him in this “fantasy bubble” isnt helpin. Keep the faith, I am with ya. Bring on the bashers-cause I can rip a**holes with the best of them-but I dont and wont run and have no fear…….
Peace.
LW
A lot of people have relationship issues. He is just milking it for everything he can.
So what! It’s called dating. Maybe he needs to have a few dates before he figures out if he likes them or not. Does he have to marry or have a serious relationship with everyone he dates? I don’t think so. I am sure all of his fans can take care of themselves. They don’t need anybody’s advise on who they can like.
Yeah..Who Knows #239..it is called dating..one or two or three dates with the same person or with several different people..but when you are steadily seeing that same person for months it eventually evolves into some form of a “relationship”..whether it be serious or “just seeing each other”..Eventually if one of them plays the victim game..the other gets hurt ….unless they know going in that this isn’t going to last…
Also, it’s a known fact..men hate to be the ones getting “dumped”
I don’t know..it seems to be bad flair to be seeing someone..if it’s exclusive but still playing the field..That’s just me..
If this guy is ******** around as much as reported he must have a slew of rug rats all over the place!
I wonder if the handlers that supposedly rounded up the girls in Philly did it without Gerry’s knowledge. If they are yes men they would do most anything to make Gerry think he well known and adored by all those fans he thinks he has. It wouldn’t be the first time yes men surrounded a celebrity.
#242
I’m also wondering if it was actually Strongbox management that did the herding. Just by reading the promotional statements from of that place the owner sounds like a douche/shallow c*nt.
It would be funny if he wasn’t even there.
Me again. I’m still here and will try to add to and answer questions on this thread. Your support is truly appreciated.
I was first compelled to write because of the philly chit chat blog. Hughe (the blogger) seemed genuine to me but had no clue what he was in for. In my opinion he didn’t change his story but simply expanded on it when people asked more questions. As the story got darker, the threads got crazy, causing a lot of confusion. I believe that’s because the posters, in particular, gave little CONTEXT to their assertions. I hoped I could provide that needed context here.
I chose Just Jared because it is not specifically a Gerry fan site, unlike Gals, .net, IMDb where I would have been kicked off immediately. I do hope some of the people at those sites visit JJ and gain some perspective.
In response to…
#206 and those with questions about “handlers” ~The Vancouver blogger may well have been legitimate. I know only what YOU posted. She was a student which means young; fits Gerry’s pattern. That she was approached by his “handlers” is also his style. Gerry is a strange mix of shy/ insecure and aggressive/forward (narcissist). He likes to make sure the girl(s) is interested in him, or at least his fame, first. His people are told to approach someone in particular but most of the time they pick the ones they think Gerry will like. This is the “herding” stage. ~ please don’t think this is the same thing as one guy getting another guy a girl’s number; it’s much more conniving and calculating then that. And you all guessed it; it’s not just one girl, its many girls being approached in the same short time span, i.e. in a club or on and round a set. Once they meet and he feels secure with the “pick” then the flattery comes on strong and overwhelming. It’s also time to turn on the charm and sad stories, AGAIN.
#201 Amazed ~ Good question about why these stories never come out. Others have explained it in the above posts. Girls get ripped apart. But to add to this, Gerry does make up various reasons that keep these girls quiet. For awhile it was “you’re much younger so please keep this between us for the sake my career”. Sure Gerry whatever YOU want. Now, he warns “the fans and media will be at you” so for YOUR sake don’t tell. Also, if someone thinks they’re in his circle, they seem to naturally want to keep things quiet so they can stay in the clique.
Finally, HE’S NOT GAY! He does have gay friends he mingles with, that’s LA style. Also these guys and his women friends help get the “herd” for him; they’re less threatening then straight men. They all support his behavior and help out if things get sticky with a girl.
PS I don’t love him
someone who knows - don’t know if you are legit or not, but my gut says you are. This guy is really fucked up. I have suspected that all along. Not quite at the level you are reporting, but he always seemed off to me.
though the post is long i get the feeling SOMEONE # 245 knows more then she’s saying. keep it coming, sista. we won’t kick you out.
I will also add that he sounds like a complete ***** - having his handlers approach the girls for him so he knows they are interested before he puts in any effort. It is good thing for him that he is a movie star. He may never get laid otherwise.
#245: Thanks for your comments! What you said actually totally backs up the few tellings from girls that have been out on the net (sometimes only for a short while like the Vancouver blog). I remember one story where he told the girl that she shouldn’t tell anyone because she was so much younger (early 20s I believe) and that this would damage his reputation if it came out. I believe that was during the filming of 300 so I guess since then he has moved on to his new warning about the fans and media now that he’s better known.
What’s really appalling is that you say even his female friends help him “get” and apparently even “dispose” of girls when he’s tired of them. Is that right? How can a woman support such behavior? That really gives me shivers.
BTW, do you know anything about this Kristi story? What puzzles me is that she’s about 30, so she should see through his scheming. And if she wasn’t with him, why doesn’t she have anyone come to these boards and say so? I surely wouldn’t like to be connected to him and dragged through the mud if it wasn’t even true.
#206: The unflattering stories were things like that he does sleep around and dumps the girls when he’s had enough of them. Nothing about being uncut but that’s no secret anyway, you just need to watch Mrs Brown to know. He’s European after all.
I’m late to this thread but I’d like to add my 2 cents. Someone mentioned that the girl at the bar (with the birthday party) and the club could have been a Kristi “look alike”. I think that’s very probable. It might have actually been Danielle Audain. She basically looks like an identical twin of this Kristi chick. I wouldn’t be surprised if the blogger confused them.
Hmmm. This thread has become very interesting. I was,’t familiar with the Vancouver blog.But if the poor blogger was ripped to shreds, then no woman will dare come forward with her story.
With all this Shanna business , I don’t think any woman would want to be linked to him.
your all full of ****, hate,envy and jealously.Nothing to do on Friday and Saturday nights.Get a life and worry about how fat and ugly you look.
A bad case of tall poppy syndrome and guess what Butler doesn’t give a flying ****.
Gerard kepp doin’ what your doin’ I wish I had the will power.
I’ve heard he swings both ways.
#245 - Were you a victim of his?
You know what they say…What goes around comes around.
#253: With a supporter you like he’d even be better off with all his enemies, LOL
#251 - DA is also from Philly.
#251: That was me. Isn’t Danielle the one from Star Magazine? I’ve never seen her.
#257: One blog mentioned he had something going on with a local Philly girl. Seems some things are starting to add up.
#245: It’s great you’ve been sticking around. I see the bashing has begun. Now does anybody still wonder why the girls usually keep quiet? Please don’t let morons like #253 discourage you to speak up. I wonder if any other actor has such pathetic fans…
#245 - Thanks for your courage - you have given great insight into a lot of things. I agree that it is chilling that his friends help round up the herd for him and cover his ass when things go wrong - what a bunch of enablers. Also, that he actually uses his fan’s devotion as a threat to keep his conquests quiet. I find it particularly despicable that he preys on such young people - they simply can’t and don’t have the level of experience to sense the trouble ahead. He’s pathetic - I hope he stays in the U.K. But poor them - keep an eye on your daughters, Mums!
I used to think it was cute that he named his dog Lolita - now it has a much darker connotation.
His male friends must be the same way. Bet he is into trannies too. He’s a hedonist.
If this is really his MO, I can’t believe there aren’t one or two women out there that can’t be “bought off” with sweet talk and not say anything.
I sure would.
I am not trying to attack you as your posts read as if they are genuine, however that fact that you apparently have followed the discussions about gerry on the philly blog makes me question your validity. That is an obscure blog that is not known outside of philly and hardcore gerry fandom.
If you are someone who went through this with him, then I would assume you would not be a fan and would have no purpose in keeping up with him on that site. Unless you developed some sort of obsession with him due to the encounter, which in and of itself would raise credibility issues.
If you were not someone who went through this, the that too raises obvious credibility issues.
Not trying to hurt your feelings here and quite frankly am not at all suprised by what you have said (I have long suspected as much), but I can’t help but question your comments now that you have said you have followed the blogs about him leading up to your posts.
Unless, of course, you are personally being discussed in the philly blog . . . then you would have a reason for reading it that does not call into question your bias when it comes to him.
Sorry - just calling it like I see it.
#159, #200, #245
I lift my hat to you and feel like giving you a big warm bear hug.
#262
It doesn’t matter who’s posting.
The only “evidence” we saw is of him kissing Kristi. Get over it people he IS with her. And she seems like an intelligent woman not part of a herd at all. Stop hating
someone who knows - Thank you for your input into this discussion and for your bravery to speak up. What you have said makes sense and explains a good deal.
#262~ Your comments are fair so I will respond simple…
~I am not an obsessed fan
~ I only very recently went to the Gerry fan sites with the purpose of deciding where and if I should post at all. JJ seemed like the best place for me. I hope I’m right.
~ The reason I found the Philly blog (not as obscure as you might think) had nothing to do with Gerry Butler. It was just one of those random moments in life; while looking for one thing, you find something else. In this case- looking up info about Philly from a common, not official, view point. I was very surprised to see Gerry’s name there and chose to read the blog and posts (maybe I shouldn’t have).
~ I am not in that blog, thank god!
As I said before, I was only hoping to provide some clarity and perspective to some of the confusion that blog (and all the chatter in LA) has cause. I might have written there but the blogger shut down the blog before I made up my mind to speak.
It took me an hour after writing my first post before I was brave enough to hit the submit button. It’s still hard to do. I know there is no way for me to prove what I say is true or how I know it’s true. But if it has helped give a frame work to what’s said in the biz and apparently on the web about Gerry, then I think I’ve done the right thing.
#263 popcorn~ you brought me back. I accept your hug! Thanks also to Spring.
I meant to write… so I will respond simply… not simple. Nothing has been simple about any of this for me.
I am not sure what happened to you (I can only assume you fell for the BS you have told us about), but it obviously bothers you to post about this, so thanks for doing so. What is the chatter in LA? Is it along the lines of what you have told us? I always heard his reputation in LA was good, although that may have been working rep, not social rep.
About gerry, do you really think he does all this with malice as you mentioned originally? I am one of the ones who has always suspected that he is really messed up in his relationship with women, but he does not seem like the type to be purposefully hurtful. I just think he is really screwed up, which obviously can cause hurt even if not the intent from the get go.
But what do I know? Just my impression of him.
I am with #247, #245. With all that has been said, done and has happened your words make sense. To bad there are those who cant see the same way as you do-realistic and not through rose colored glasses. Keep the faith.
Peace.
LW
forgot to add…#268 also has a valid point….and that is he is screwed up, hurting but not intending to…..regardless he needs to take a time out and do some serious soul-searching because not only is he hurting but he is hurting others and this is wrong no matter what.
LW
#264. The “evidence” is 5 months old. Gerry has been a very busy boy since then. Miami, Washington D.C., N.Y. Fashion week, London, clubs, after-parties, models, herds……………. LOL!
To someone who knows
I’m curious as to how you know all this, forgive me for asking, but I haven’t read all the posts, maybe you have already explained, but I ‘d like to know. Did you date Gerry yourself, was it a friend who got hurt, did you work with him. You speak as if you know him well, so that takes time, if it was a brief encounter you won’t have the knowledge you have about his narcissist personality etc. I believe you are genuine, but just curious about how you know.
I’m curious too to know how she knows all this stuff. I’m aware there is a privacy issue, but can’t you just give us a general idea? Like gf, friend, collegue etc?
By the way people, Kristi is on facebook. Someone should just directly ask the poor girl lol
AND her in the facebook pic, she’s even prettier, lucky gerard!
Thanks to “Someone who knows” for your posts. very interesting reading. i think we all wondering what your connection is; i think he must be really screwed up to conduct himself in this manner. Must be truly delusional to think that people actually respect? him (if they ever did) personally and professionally. He may think he’s discrete, but then some Emperors thought they too wore clothes .
And it’s sad that the women that do come forward and say it like it is like the vancouver blogger et al, get skewered.
He probably counts on the fact that such a tactic can be used as leverage in his favor. He was trained as a lawyer after all…how convenient.
However, as long as he has some movies or whatever in the pipeline so to say, and can continue to pay these people or handlers to do the “herding” for him- game is in his court. For now…
Someone Who Knows is someone who trolls.
Visit Gerard Butler sites, ruffles fangurls feathers, brings doe eyed believers into her web.
Be careful with this one…
Haters, you can’t live wihout Gerry anymore…kkkk…
The more you post things about him, the more I see that you know nothing about him and the more I admire him!
Gerry rules…
error… without…
doing my best here…
sorry… without…
i think Rupaul is one of gerrys disappointed gay fans. if Someone is a troll shes a h*ll of an insightful one. trolls post lots of messages in my experience. tweek, tweek, tweek. she’s only posted about 4 times out of almost 300. who or what ever you are Someone keep posting if you want
She says what you want to hear, doesn’t she? You’re hanging on her every word…LOL.
Mark my words…
How I wonder what Gerry are…Up above the the world so high are you really a diamond in the sky. Looks like Gerry’s star don’t shine so bright. I try to put myself in people’s shoes, its hard because even then, the shoe don’t fit. I think it would be so hard to be a star and try to a find a genuine relationship, do they like you because of your fame, do they want some recognition themselves, their name and photos in a magazine or a website etc. One night stands, herding etc have been done by thousands of guys and for centuries, the kings and pharoahs of the ancient world used to have all the young virgins rounded-up for either becoming their wives or their concubines. I don’t agree with this behaviour and in my eyes no one is a victim, both parties know what they are doing, unless someone is blind drunk or drugged. So fans, you never know, your brother, your son, your partner may be a herder or help with the herding and you don’t even know it, its because Gerry is famous that his antics and actions are seen and reported on for all the world to see and read. That’s why stars are millions of miles away. if they were closer we’d burn.
Twinkle, are you saying we should look the other way because this has been done by others in history? The Romans used to pick off Christians. Should we start doing that too because it was done by thousands in history? By that standard we should ignore all unsavory behavior because it’s been done before.
It’s no surprise that women get treated like objects when their own gender makes excuses for men to treat them that way, and mothers line their own daughters up for selection. Haven’t people heard of STD’s?
Plenty of celebrities find genuine relationships. Denzel Washington, Tom Hanks, Will Smith, Steven Spielberg are some. Ever heard of them? They’re bigger stars than Gerry and they managed. It’s not that hard to do if you make an effort. Getting rich and famous is harder to do, yet he pulled that off.
If Gerry wanted to find “the one” he would. He’s having more fun using and tossing away the masses of co-eds and models he’s getting to shag. He’s living every man’s fantasy to the hilt. There’s no deep psychological excuse for it. It’s how he’s chosen to live his life. He seems very happy with his choice. Shouldn’t everyone be happy that Gerry’s happy to be shagging to his heart’s content? He doesn’t seem to have any regrets other than the media spilling the beans on occasion.
Spielberg cheated on his first wife with his second. Now there’s a a class act. I think he realized it’s cheaper to keep her after said first wife took him to the cleaners.
Why does who a single man choose to date/sleep with get you folks so upset.
Frustrated much?
You do know that Speilberg cheated on his first wife with his current wife, very class act. Will Smith was also caught cheating while married to his first wife. Your examples of genuine relationships include men who betrayed their marriage vows.
Gerry is single, correct? So why do his dating/sexual activities upset you so.
Frustrated much.
Duh, all I’m saying is that the world hasn’t changed much, romans may not pick of christains now, but christians have been killing christians and the rest in wars for years, I don’t want to make this political or get into a heated debatesamesamewithrelationshipshaven’t changed much, how men and women chase, pursue, capture, herd, whatever each other, its surprising to me, that people act amazed, stunned, disappointed, find it hard to believe, that Gerry could be like this or do this or that, I’m not excusing ot at all, its just the reality of it all.
Duh, all I’m saying is that the world hasn’t changed much, romans may not pick of christains now, but christians have been killing christians and the rest in wars for years, I don’t want to make this political or get into a heated debatesamesamewithrelationshipshaven’t changed much, how men and women chase, pursue, capture, herd, whatever each other, its surprising to me, that people act amazed, stunned, disappointed, find it hard to believe, that Gerry could be like this or do this or that, I’m not excusing ot at all, its just the reality of it all.
I hang on every word StinkyLouise writes. I guess she’s a troll too. lol. She says what I like to hear ~humor.
everyone here is a troll. quit changing the subject
Ru, Someone is saying what YOU DON”T want to hear. Let the battle begin.
Does anyone know if he attended the wrap party for LAC? Since it’s his first movie as a producer wouldn’t it be sort of rude if he skipped the party? Apparently Foxx has already been back in LA for a couple of days. I wonder if any of them showed.
@someone who knows.Thank you for taking the step and tell youre side of the story here.I have always believed that there was something very odd about this guy,he is/was an enigma.And yet this enigma around him makes him attractive..well it worked for me.I totally believe your story!I always thought that it was strange that this guy could not get a long term relationship,just because he was acting and traveling so much.Wondered if he might have been gay.There are men out there in the world who work overseas for 6 months or longer and yet they manage to hold a family lifestyle.It makes me upset that he is lying this much to his fans.He has a huge fanbase, call them crazy or overprotective but they have suported him for a very long time.And all he does is LIE..some call it acting but in my book he is NOT that good of an actor.Playing the sad,emotional ,lonely actor who wants children and a long term relationship….SUCH BS!!!Why not be honest and just say it out open that you do NOT want a relationship.That what makes you a good and HONEST person.Now he is what papz say he is..a manwhore.Sure we can call the ladies/women all kinds of names who have fallen for his charmes and slept with him,but nobody really knows what is said to them,we only see/read/hear his side of the story or are willing to believe him.I do not fall for the he lost his father on a young age..I have never seen mine and yet I am mature and honest towards others.He atleast had a father figure around.Him becoming an actor is just a way for him to get attention and laid.I have always believed that he is a huge attention seeker.A famewhore.Charming, but also a weird guy…and now someone tells it like it is…thank you for that.
Just a question for you….is he really that immature and insecure as many have claimed he is, or is that all an act aswell???
#289: A TROLL? MEEEEE?LOL. Well ,maybe. But Gerry gets credit for the humour. If he had decided to become an actor instead of a celebrity, we wouldn’t be here. Now he’s a great source of amusement and entertainment. And he does manage to occasionally toss out a semi-decent film.
#294: ITA! It’s not our fault that his private life is much more entertaining than his recent movies… LOL
#273,274,275 - what is your problem!? LOL
Why would she want to be with someone who is a cheater? She can’t be very bright.
BTW - He isn’t exclusively dating anyone.
#294 ” And he does manage to occasionally toss out a semi-decent film”
You’re kidding right…cause I’m laughing! OK maybe one lately…RNR
#297: Well, I did say semi-decent and occasionally.LOL!
you might want to tell your friend Kristi to check for STD’s! She must be just as ****** as he is.
Well said, Manuela - the hypocrisy is what p*sses me off. All the blather in interviews about no time for a real relationship - poor poor pitiful me. All the while banging anything that has a pulse. No respect for others or himself. Makes you wonder if HE even knows where the BS leaves off and the truth begins.
Women everywhere - value yourselves, love yourselves, respect yourselves. To this type of man, you are nothing but a receptacle.
Be cautious, Someone Who Knows. Don’t be coaxed into revealing too much of your own story. We all know rabid Gerry fans are ace detectives, with hi-speed and too much time on their hands. You’ve been courageous to tell it like it is - wish you well.
Has he ever exclusively dated anyone? LOL
#298: Spot on! RNR was OK although he didn’t have that much screen time. Good thing Mark Strong and Tom Wilkinson were also in it. I don’t understand why he keeps playing second and third fiddle or making crap movies altogether, doesn’t he get better offers or does he just make lousy choices?
Danielle Audain not Kristi Korizec
I have read all of someone who knows comments. It seems like speculation to me. You all are gullable and naive listening to someone who you don’t even know. I don’t see any proof at all.
#301 - I think he takes what he can get. He is too busy clubbing and having his picture taken.It seems he just wants the perks and doesn’t want to really work at being an actor (not that being an actor is real work anyway. pfffffttt.)
Whoknows, I agree, it is all speculation. As if anyone who actually knows Gerard Butler would post about it on JJ. Come on! A message board is nothing more than people giving opinions. I also doubt women are frightened off of dating him for fear of being trashed on the internet…because it’s just opinions based on nothing.
#305 - I agree with you about women not being frightened off dating him for fear of being trashed. They don’t have to read any of it. They should be more frighted of catching an STD from him. I do believe he is a man ***** though.
When Sarah Larson dated George Clooney. She was trashed all over the place! It didn’t scare her off.
The behavior exhibited is cyclical. If he cannot personally modify it
poor lost soul. If it is contrived then it is not t very intelligent -at best.
But his life is HIS OWN and how he choose to live it is his. choice.
As for his roles he has yet to prove that He can deliver boxoffice gold.
He is not immediately recognizable –name or countenance. Hence usually paired with an “A” LISTER. Although he certainly does have an
avid fan base. They are not nearly enough to affect the results that
Hollywood producers are looking for.
Prediction he will be out of sight for a few weeks and will resurface
going into some club.
Take advantge of this down time and get some rest . Speculation is of no benfit.
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Peace to him and all of you
#302–you keep bring up Danielle Audain and why are you? Maybe this young lady doesn’t want her name on JJ. Who is she anyway? Was she one of the ones that was ‘herded’ right into Gerry’s arms? Are you Danielle?
#308 - if you feel that way, why did you just mention her name? twice. duh.
#306: I think Clooney dumped her. His last film bombed,and his PR people thought his reputation was taking a hit because of Sarah. So he got rid of her.
311 posts - is that a record?
#305 you’re kidding yourself if you think people who know gerry don’t come to these sites. and there are PLENTY of women who don’t want to be linked to celebs for fear of being trashed on the web, which leads of web tabloids like TMZ hounding you. Only the starf**kers want there names out there
312, why? Because they say they know him. Oh, I forgot. This is the internet. Honesty is mandatory.
Let me make a suggestion. When someon comes on this site saying they know Gerry and eager to share their knowledge, don’t send them your money.
U can thank me later.
#312 is exhibiting signs of hostility here. Honestly ! lol
Spielberg and Irving were already on the outs when he met Kate. Will Smith’s first wife fooled around on him with a pro athlete. Do you’re wrong there. Regardless, they have found a relationship that works for them and they’ve stayed in. Your precious idol isn’t making that effort. So the point is that it IS possible for famous people to pull off. If they had fooled around in previous relationships, then it shows a leopard can change its spots. Your “proof” still doesn’t provide an excuse for Butler’s whoring. I don’t see why you want to make an excuse. He whores because he can and he likes it. Why is that so hard for you to accept that that you have to make up excuses for why he isn’t settling down? He’s made it clear that he’s not interested in settling down anytime soon. He’s a ***** . He likes being a *****. He’s going to keep living that way as long as he wants and can get away with it. Get over it.
296, what proof do you have that he is a cheater? hmm? And how do you know he is not exclusively dating anyone????
315, I have no idols. I am way over it, you should take your own advice. You seem plenty frustrated about the guy’s dalliances. Hope you find some peace with that.
Is this the longest thread ever on JJ? Can anyone remember now what the h*ll we originally posted about? No cheating and looking back!
his life has eclipsed his “art”
317 - It sounds like you have idols. #315 was pretty clear that Gerry’s whoring is his business. They seem “at peace,” but fans like you obviously aren’t since you’re so eager to defend a man you do not know personally. I agree with 317 that he doesn’t have to make excuses for his behavior. It’s his life. If he wants to sleep with everything that moves, or settle down, it’s up to him.
316 - There are plenty of reports that Butler isn’t a “one woman man.” The Phila. blogger saw him kising two women who were with him at the same time. He was with Kristi when he had Jasmine on the East Coast and had been telling magazines he was “dating a nice woman from NYC.” He fooled around on Bianca. He has admitted in interviews that he has trouble with relationships because he is with someone and then sees someone else and wants them. He’s a man who is enjoying the spoils of his fame and money. It’s his life and his business. The only people who are angry are fans who wanted to believe he was Prince Charming but now realize he’s just a man who is taking advantage of all the pleasures his life is offering him.
No you don’t make sense…where am I defending anyone? I’m saying the argument has no validity. I don’t care what he does because I don’t know him.
You’re the one who brought your evidence to ‘court’. Your post reads like Dear Diary…today Gerard…
Clearly, it means a LOT to you. LOL.
Sorry, hope you get over it too.
I’m dying to see that Philly blog everyone is talking about? Two women at the same time? Lol!
i don’t think people are that upset that gerry messes around, it’s the way he goes about “gaming” that bothers them. oh, and the hypocrisy. “i’m not a womanizer” BS!
First let me say that I like his movies. Gerry has admitted that he has “demons” and has abused himself with alcohol….hence the bloated face sometimes and premature aged look around his eyes. Whoring around is classic behavior for someone like him. He probably isn’t even aware of it. He says he wants a relationship but he really doesn’t even know how to have one. Since his dad wasn’t around he has nothing to go by. He has $$$, fame and all of these women throwing themselves at him. Consequently he has to put out zero effort. He’s like a kid in a candy store. Why should he stick with just one when he hasn’t yet found that “perfect” one…which doesn’t exist. Any shrink will tell you that someone who abused/abuses alcohol has never matured emotionally past the age of 15. This will all continue as long as he has fame and $$$. When he reaches 50 or so, has no kids or wife and his looks have faded he will wake up one day and realize how lonely he is and see about making some changes ie… therapy. Until then ….let the good times roll…..
Signed,
Someone who’s been there done that
I don’t think he’s very happy now. He’s even admitted he would be happier with a wife and kids. 324, you’re probably right, he doesn’t even know how to go about getting and staying in a relationship. I don’t think girls throw themselves at him as much as he pursues them through his “gaming” thing. Which means he does put some effort into it, but then runs if it gets serious. wimp!!!
#324
Wise comment… The best comment ever…
I respect you ’cause you’ve been there…
He used to be interesting. Now, he is just a sad cliché.
There are a lot of maybes and what ifs. Who knows?
It’s hard to believe that he’s with a different woman a night and tosses them aside when he’s finished and not one has come forward and said he’s a douche. Not one?
When I said “no effort” I meant he probably doesn’t take the time to find out about a woman’s wants, needs, family, childhood, goals in life, etc. He doesn’t have to go out and meet women relying on his personality, charm, etc. if his “people” are doing it for him. It’s all very superficial. And there is always another one just a little prettier standing in the background. So he finds “flaws” in the one he’s with so he can move on. He probably doesn’t know how to be really “intimate” with a woman…..sex ain’t all there is to it!
After reading a lot of these posts, I think it is you people that have the issues. A lot of you seem to have trust issues. Try to give him the benefit of the doubt. He does not need “people” to herd women for him. And also I imagine all of you have perfect relationships without any problems.
CB - you are wise and compassionate in your observations. Well done.
It’s really a shame he has all these people who enable him -if true- he won’t ever grow up. He needs something to give him a jolt of reality. Perhaps, as cb said, it will only come with age. Until then girly girls be aware.
#305
people in the entertainment biz, including celebs themselves, do check out fan/gossip sites. its part of the management teams job to keep up with the stuff, good or bad, that’s being said about their clients. the team will post positive, sometimes provocative/distracting but never negative, comments when they think it’s necessary. the “bigger” the site the more they keep tabs on it. think TMZ, You Tube etc. JJ is getting more attention lately. these “smaller” sites can often lead fans/attention to the bigger sites. everything’s connected now.
#333 hope you’re right. maybe they should read this thread! that might give gerry that needed jolt.lol
maybe he read the philly blog before he went to the empire awards, that’s why he looks so miserable in the photos above.lol
I am so happy to be a fan of Gerry and his work, he is a amasing actor.
I don`t care how he lives his life, it has nothing to do with me.
And belive me I know many of his fans that feel the same way..
It is you that has a problem with him, sure there can be fans that are like you say, but belive me there are plenty that feels like me.
I have deep respeckt for him, he has earned that..How he lives his life is really his buisness….no one is perfect,
Good luck with your next movie Gerry. I am so looking forward to you movie as Robert Burns, whom I think is fantastic.. His poems and his music, even his life..Hahaha … and to see more of Scotlands historie..We are a very big group of friends who are fans of both you and Scotland, some even scottish… So Gerry.. Thanks for the work you have done and for the work you will be doing..Our surport will always be there..
333, I can accept a celeb’s management reading the sites. But not sharing personal and private information. about the celeb on the sites.
#337: They don’t. Management/PR people actually do the exact opposite. They try to ridicule/discredit people who accidentally or knowingly hit the nail on the head with their posts. They’d never share any true personal information on the celeb. However, there are people on these sites that do, but these are usually people I call “wannabe friends”. People who came to know the celeb, happened to stumble across some insider info and now think they belong to their circle. And then there’s the trolls who actually don’t know anything but behave as if they did. Unless you personally know the celeb in question it’s almost impossible to tell which of the posts are the truth and which are just B.S. That’s the problem with these gossip sites. But the truth is out there somewhere.
Please don’t believe things that he suppose to have said in an interview. .”.the East Coast and had been telling magazines he was “dating a nice woman from NYC.” ………This is such a joke. I have to be the one to tell you, but I bet he never even said this. Trust me.
No matter which side of this debate you fall on, you all sound insane.
including you.
There are a lot of people who grew up without fathers, who are capable of still having relationships. And there are some who did have fathers around who can’t maintain a relationship. So the theory that he didn’t have a father around is bullshit.
I hear his body double for his n_de scene has a really fantastic body.
I hear his body double for his n_de scene has a really fantastic body.
A Gerry sighting! He’s in Glasgow and was photographed in……..wait for it……..a NIGHTCLUB! I’m shocked I tell you, shocked!LOLOLO.The link is on the IMDB board.
Let the herding begin.
Well, it looks like he’s already got three.
Makes -Someone W.K- posts all the more credible
is this d*nm thread ever going to end? hope not! haha
This guy needs his own show! He must be the only one on JustJared who gets over 2-300 comments everytime there is a pic posted!! What’s up with that??!! What is it??!!
StinkyLouise- you work for GB’s PR team, don’t you?! Come on, admit it. Love ya, SL
StinkyLouise- you work for GB’s PR team, don’t you?! Come on, admit it. Love ya, SL
oops! double post.
A job with GB’s PR team might not be a bad idea. Decent pay for very little work.
I disagree with you there Louise. I think working on Gerry’s PR team would be exhausting.
The pictures from Glasgow are great. He looks amazing. A little sleep does him wonders.
Hope he’s doing some work getting ready for Burns later this year.
Has anyone noticed the sideburns in the pictures? Maybe he’s filming Burns sooner than we thought.
#355 - I agree - he seems VERY high maintenance and probably is exhausting to be around after awhile.
I think PR may be separate from handling/herding.I’m thinking specifically of film PR. You know he doesn’t shoot that many films and there are the occasional dry spells. That shouldn’t be too tiring.
#359 - let’s hope he wouldn’t be your only client. You wouldn’t make any money.
Well they aint all young bit things at that club. Most of the people in the various pics look Gerry’s age or older. They do have an under 18 night so maybe he was hanging around for thatLOL
#337Celeb management teams will give out or deny “personal” info at big sites, E.T, Access, TMZ, and paps, saying where and when a celeb will be, if s/he does or doesn’t do something, hints at who’s dating who. It’s a racket of info control. Everybody in LA knows it and plays along. On sites like JJ they’d just redirect or attack the negative posts. It may have happened here.
I like GB’s movies but he does have a smutty rep in LA. I’ve seen him and his buddies in clubs-don’t be jealous he looks bad and out of place there, too old. Does like ‘em young, ‘special brunettes. Don’t know him personally but know people who do. It’s one degree of separation around here. GB is more the “wannabe friend” to everybody and is good at keeping long term friendships going via texting, email. I wouldn’t doubt if people who know him well post here whether it’s positive or negative.
West-End Nightclub Glasgow
2008 SLTN NIGHTCLUB OF THE YEAR
Scottish Nightlclub of the Year
“Nesting in the leafy suburb of Partick in Glasgow’s throbbing west end a little jewel of a nightclub has become a regular haunt for the young and not so young since its birth in August last year.
It’s more of a late night bar with louder music rather than a full on club, more cosmopolitan than your typical modern club space.
You can pop in with your mates, play some pool, puff away on the smoking terrace or have aunty Val cook up one of her delicious chicken Tikka wraps.
Or head down to the dance floor and take in some tunes. The lime room offers the more discerning customer a fantastic range of champagne, wines and cocktails from its well stocked bar.
All in all Boho is a wee beauty shining like a new pin and we intend to keep it that way.
Come try us, you are sure to enjoy”……
That’s the place where Gerry was spending some time. A beautiful place.. with beautiful people… delicious food …and by the photos he was very normal e enjoying himself.
#345 What’s wrong with that? Live and let live…
regular haunt for the…” not so young”. that would be right! lol
Bless him! He has won the Clubber of the Week award! Mummy must be proud.
Sorry if my English is bad…YES, he looks tired, worried and older than 39 and when he was 23 he looked 34, and so what????
I think there is something odd in him and trying to find out what it is, it’s a hard job. I love his Scottish accent. For God’s sake, he is Scottish!!! How do you expect him to speak????. Gerard Butler is an amazing actor. He’s shown himself to be very able to play such different roles all along his peculiar career. Maybe his problem lies in the wrong choices he has made or maybe it’s just what he has been offered. His real potential hasn’t been discovered yet. I hope he’ll achieve his purposes (Burns) now that he is not only acting but also producing. This will give him the chance to make enough money to choose or write a good script. “You write the ending” could be his first step to get to Burns with total financial independence. It’s a beautiful story and the role of Liam Wallace is made for him. So go for it, Gerry.
#362 - You’re not writing anything new here. And like you said you don’t even know him. But I do believe that he is a wannabe.
#362 - “…….. and is good at keeping long term friendships going via texting, email.”
What??? Who doesn’t?
I think he is kind of a *****, but no different than a lot of other people in LA or NY or London.
he is gay. Sorry, but I do.
pa…Humm..Thanks for your insights..I believe you hit the nail on it;s head. and
Some Who Knows..Thanks for yours too. I believe what you say is true and I’ve suspected the very same myself..:)
# 368 i guess i should have put friendships in quote marks“ ” for you. fwb.
Do you all want everyone to be a clone and think the same? People are different. That’s what makes things interesting.
StinkyLouise where are you? I look forward to your posts, you troll you.
Hey, someone misses me. I’m touched.I see a fangirl(#363) has made a requisite appearance.Love the little ad for the club,”in Glasgow’s THROBBING west end…….”Perfect. He must have felt right at home!LOL
I loved the “throbbing” part too (pun intentional). Keep trollin baby!
i noticed that the last thread about gerry took a month to get over 300. it took us less then 10 days to get to nearly 400. we may really be CRAZY. lol
love
What are we waiting for lets make it 400…..I think Gerry has low self-esteem issues, the way you all been talking about how he gets his women etc, shows me he suffers with low self-esteem. Why would a handsome man with charm and charisma, a great sense of humour and the rest, go about doing what he does, if he had it all together and was confident and self assured. A friend once told to me “you’re better off going for a guy who has an ego and then you can knock him down a few pegs than to go for someone with low self-esteem cause all they do is bring you down with them”.
300 but 400 -brilliantly said. Go for the alpha or at least the beta male. They can actually take direction better because they’re confindent in who they are.
#366: What are you talking about with this “You write the ending” and Liam Wallace? I’ve never heard that he was supposed to be attached so such a project.
#371 - you sound like one of his victims. Or a wannabe fwb. lol. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
#377 - …. “you’re better off going for a guy who has an ego and then you can knock him down a few pegs than to go for someone with low self-esteem cause all they do is bring you down with them”. YOU ALSO ALWAYS HAVE TO BOOST THEIR EGO ALL THE TIME. IT GETS EXHAUSTING!
#377 Well said!!! and I agree with you
Being a Gerry watcher and fan for a number of years now, I’ll have to say I’ve never seen any hint that GB’s ego is anything but huge. Stuck on himself or not, I’m still his fan.
I think it’s more a false ego. One that tries too hard. Always having to prove something. Didn’t he say he was insecure in some interview? Then again it might just be for sympathy.
Can’t wait to see some gerry pics with kristi
Just saw the latest trailer for ‘The Ugly Truth’ on Myspace for the new Gerard Butler Comedy set to be premiered this summer! - Whilst I am sure that this will be a huge box office success for both Mr B and Katherine Heigl (who is the star and Exec producer) and I am sure be money earners for them both, it seems that, on sight of this new trailer, it might be that the ‘Ugly Truth’ of the film will be the real unveiling of the LA version of Gerard Butler in person! By the look of it, ‘No Acting Required’ was the rule of the day for the movie on:
The trailer is on (anyway in the My Space Trailer Park!) : http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=55500632
#385: When will you get it in your head, Kristi is history!
#387 - zICO is sICKO…..they are delusional to think kk is still around - lol.
if she ever was around at all.
He needs his scruff back!
He is with her and let tell I am the one who will be having the last laugh here.
#390: How do you know he is with her? Why don’t you give some more details or even better, some picture proof?
#390 - Put up or shut up with the pictures already. On second thought just shut up…you’re really obnoxious.
Is back again…..
GB is at all these places yet not one pic of you beloved Kristi with him.
LOL!
Ignore her/him - she/he is a troll who likes to stir the pot because she/he have nothing else to do.
Yeah sure, I’m a troll, that’s why I always use the same username.
#396: You’re either a troll or an idiot. Pick one!
LOL! @ #395
This place is mad!
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Ignition!
Lift off…we hit 400 post.LMAO
And all about an actor who is an ENIGMA.
Geez peeps, can’t you give the slagging Gerry comments a break? It’s Easter, for cryin’ out loud. LOL Go eat some chocolate and you’ll feel better!
People still talkin about SWKnows #395? I’ll say one thing, s/he or it kept this thread going way past its expiration date.
But I agree with you all. He used to be so attractive and now he’s gotten so old and UGG! Too much hard living Gerry.
He so uglee he puts me off my chocolate. LOL
Swannie
is a cutie….cuter than gerry
WHAT ONE DOES WHEN FAME IS ACHIEVED IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS WHAT IS DONE TO ACHIEVE FAME IN THE FIST PLACE !!!
GB - EVIL TWINS
FINALLY - FANTASY MEETS REALITY !!!
@me:
Yes he was at the bar…he arrived alone…and left alone…how do I know?..
i was THERE.