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Gerard Butler: I Heart You!

Gerard Butler: I Heart You!

Gerard Butler and Katherine Heigl get cute with hearts in this new poster for their upcoming rom-com The Ugly Truth, out in July.

Plot details: A romantically challenged morning-show producer (Heigl) is reluctantly embroiled in a series of outrageous tests by her male chauvinist correspondent (Butler) to prove his theories on relationships and allow her to find love. His clever ploys, however lead to an unexpected result.

Check out pics of Gerry and Kat filming here and here.

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298 Comments

# 1

can’t wait to see it !!!!!!!!

# 2

Another stupid romcom. I’ll wait until it hits cable and there is absolutely nothing else on tv to watch.

Love you Gerry but you need to stick with the drama/action genre.

# 3

Unexpected result?? Riiiight

# 4

Love Gerard, love Katherine - I think I’m going to love this movie too!

# 5

Gerard is holding his “heart” over his crotch !

# 6

I think this will be too cute and I can’t wait to see it. Gerry is great in whatever he is in!!!

# 7

Funny. Look at the pic. She’s holding her heart near her brain and he’s holding his near his…..

# 8

The poster reminds me of the Mr and Mrs. Smith poster.. Funny…

I never go to the theater to see Rom Coms. I always wait for them on DVD.. I like to go to the movies to see Dramas. Action, and Sci Fi Stuff.
Fair or not they all seem to be the same story on a different day. I like Gerard but other then 300 I have not seen a film of his that I can say WOW about. Katherine; Jennifer, Kate, Katie, Cameron, Reese, Sandra, (pretty much the same.. You could but any of them in a film switch with any of the others and the film would be the same) Nothing really special about any of them. Very generic. Very Average.

I wish these women would do something to stand out more. They are all in the running for the same old roles.

Kind of boring.. Now Gerard is in competition with Matthew M. Same old roles.

# 9
remember the truth @ 04/13/2009 at 12:03 pm

OHHHHHHHH give me a break with that poster!
The woman has the heart on her head, and the guy has the heart on his croch!
Funny how WOMEN all demand respect and scream bloody murder when they’re being disrespected but it’s A-OK to stomp all over guys?

I also find it so black & white IGNORANT for such a stupid poster to do nothing but INFORCE the idea that all men are like that — and all women are about the brains and no sex.

Last time I checked, most pornstars are WOMEN. Most of the controversial ***** in the entertainment bizz are WOMEN. Most of the time it takes TWO to tango. So who the **** are men hoeing around with if there arn’t any women interested in sex?

Women, just as much as guys, love to F*#%!.
Any women who doesn’t isn’t a real women to begin with.
Love yourself, love your body, love the beast within, ppl.
It’s a beautiful thing to be a human being.

Didn’t Hugh Jackman and Ashley Judd make this movie already? is this the ONLY type of movie women want to watch? The poster looks similar to Sandra Bullocks movie with an equally stupid plot.

LOL. May not be true for all men, but it sure is true for this one. His heart and his brain are in his pants.

BTW - love the dress. Very pretty.

Gerard Butler is booooooring! Why is JJ posting pics from last year? Someone mentioned his honker of a nose, did we ever actually think this guy was attractive??

I want absolutely watch this film!! I love romcom!

Hey “faker” Swannie is at it again LOL. I don’t know why you don’t just post as @Gerry_Butler

In all fairness @ 04/13/2009 at 12:56 pm

Ashley and Jack made this. Matthew and Kate did this. She’s even done this (didn’t she play a “seemingly-reluctant-to-fall-in-love-with-this-type-of-guy” producer or something-to-the-like for E! in Knocked Up?). EVEVRYONE has done this.

She’s probably filming this same kind of movie with Ashton right now.

I bring this up bcuz didn’t she complain about Grey’s writers and their limited writing skills stunting her blossoming into a deep, brooding actress? But she’s playing the same role in the same movie, so…

#16 Katherine Heigl is a mediocre actress at best. She and Gerard Buttplug will make a wonderful couple.
Gerry will no doubt have that stupid “so in love’ look on his face ie he will look constipated and about to ****.

that’s a nice coincidence: I HATE YOU TWO EITHER!!

Have you noticed those meaty thighs? His pants look like they’r about to burst! LOSE SOME WEIGHT YOU FAT *******!!

The posts by Swansong are amazing. FYI…Swansong used to love and be obsessed with Gerard Butler and post her undying love for him at all of the fansites. She obviously turned on him, perhaps when she realized he would never be hers and when photos of him with all sorts of women became more frequent. I suspect Swansong is a very fat, old and lonely woman with disturbing fantasies and delusions which once fueled by lust for this man have now turned to hate. I’d say that judging by the obsessed fans of Gerard Butler’s who along with Swansong fit this profile he really should get a few bodyguards which as of now he doesn’t seem to have.

UM this plot sounds *****VERY****** similar to “someone like you” with ashley judd & the wolverine guy

Didn’t Hugh Jackman and Ashley Judd make this movie already? is this the ONLY type of movie women want to watch? The poster looks similar to Sandra Bullocks movie with an equally stupid plot.

——
lol i should have just responded to this comment. ^^^^someone like you is the name of that movie. i have it lol

Yawnnnnnnnnnnn………

Blah. The plot is similar to Someone Like You.

Hey Anita @ 04/13/2009 at 4:02 pm

It’s a phoney Swansong posting the nasty comments. The real Swannie is as devoted as ever. It’s a dastardly case of screen identity theft!

I love Gerry and I always will!!!

is the unexpected result that they fall in love?! i mean cuz thats totally unexpected tbh =p
lol @ 9, i totally agree, not all guys and women r the same
cute posters tho, i dont really like her but she has a sexy dress =]

i’m so exctied to see this :)

This movie sounds an awful lot like “Someone Like You”. It starred Ashley Judd and Hugh Jackman, a good film, worth checking out.

Katherine Heigl is gorgeous.

The unexpected result is that, despite seeming to be the ultimate ladies man, he turns out to be gay.

The unexpected result is that, despite seeming to be the ultimate ladies man, he turns out to be gay.

jerseycow @ 04/13/2009 at 9:19 pm

re: swansong #17. good one.
if it wasn’t for his accent would we still watch his movies?
north americans are pushovers for british/irish/scot/aussie/nz accents. …in actual fact!!!!
just asking.

#32
No surprise…
The man himself said one day:” I’m not gay, I’m not straight, I am what I am…
What’s your point?
We love him no matter what!!

brazilian woman @ 04/13/2009 at 10:04 pm

Swansong,
I´m so tired of people like you…Always bitter, always mean, like a snake full of poison all the time. Insignificant people …looking for attention with only bad things to say . You must be so frustrated, so unhappy…Poor ones….

Gerard Butler has it all: talent, charm,. charisma, intelligence, great looks. He brings each and every one of his characters to life and believability. He is so convincing that the characters seem to live after the movie. I can’t believe all of the jealously that is felt for this man.
What ever happened to praise where praise is due? Don’t hate him just because he is gorgeous and every woman loves him. You see,
besides all of the obvious attributes, he also has a kind spirit. Go Gerry. Keep bringing us anything you want to grace us with. If he is in it, I’ll buy a ticket, or two, or three. Then I’ll buy the DVD. Yes, he IS that good.

#35 If you want to know how I really feel about Gerry Butler, visit any of the Gerry Butler fansites and read my posts. The person making negative comments under the name Swansong is not me.

http://www.gerardbutlergals.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=17604&st=0&start=0

Gerard Butler is a gross teenfucker. I can’t believe he still has fans.

Tina, do tell!

Studio voice @ 04/14/2009 at 5:55 am

Early screenings are buzzing with positive reviews. This is going to be a huge hit for Butler! His positive rating was over 94%. Her rating was also high (can’t remember), but Butler hit it out of the park and apparently his comedic timing is dead on. For those of you not in the know, having any rating over 83% from screenings is EXCELLENT. Hitting a 94% is almost unheard of. Between this and his new action flick coming out in the fall with the guys who directed and wrote crank, this is going to be a huge year at the box office for this guy. With that it’s so interesting to see his fanbase change. His regulars seem to be turning, but he is getting alot more less intense fans. He is trading quality fans for quanitity of fans. Not his doing really, it’s the natural progression of success in this business.

StinkyLouise @ 04/14/2009 at 9:37 am

For this morning’s reading pleasure: The phillyblogger has posted a wrap-up of Gerry’s stay in Philly. Hilarious! It will make your day.
The website is phillychitchat.com.

Morning Louise and all… Too bad the fangurls won’t believe anything that the blogger has said. As always…

BTW, some new photos have surfaced from the threesome last week that JJ didn’t post. Apparently he was actually out and about with the blonde woman and they accidentally bumped into the brunette. When they saw the paps GB put on his best act, kissing and hugging the brunette goodbye (did anyone notice he didn’t say goodbye to the blonde in the TMZ video), all too willingly telling the paps that the brunette was an old assistant thus distracting the paps’ attention from the blonde one. I bet as soon as he got the paps off his tail he hooked up with the blonde one again on the next corner.

StinkyLouise @ 04/14/2009 at 12:11 pm

But, but, but …….Gerry ONLY dates exotic brunettes.EVERYBODY says so.LOLO!
As for the blogger, I think this is one last hurrah for him. He’s going to squeeze out as many hits as possible from the incensed fangurls, rushing to defend Gerry’s virginity.LOLO!

Right, how could I forget… He’d never date a blonde, LOL. And surely the blonde Philly woman with the groceries completely misunderstood his intentions, LOL.

Too bad this was the last blog entry from Philly, I’m sure the blogger has many more juicy stories that not even he dared to tell because he now knows the wrath of the fangurls, LOL.

StinkyLouise @ 04/14/2009 at 12:52 pm

Did you read the comments? HughE just posted. Interesting read.
That said, the entire blog is second or third-hand “stories”,and seems to have a somewhat vindictive and nasty undertone. It’s a fun read but as for it’s credibility,well…………..

Well, after what happened following the club story I’m not surprised the entry is kind of vindictive. And yes, surely it’s second or third hand stories, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re not true. Probably embellished. And certainly everyone has a different perception of the things that happened. But I mean, if your close friends tell you stories, you usually believe them to be true and not call them lies just because you didn’t experience them first hand. Of course anything can be said on the internet but that also rings true for your everday life. Friends tell you things, people at work tell you things. Just because something is said on the net doesn’t mean it’s automatically a lie. You just can’t know for sure as there are also trolls and other jerks. I’m sure in between all the BS that is posted there are also lots of true things that just nobody believes, LOL.

StinkyLouise @ 04/14/2009 at 1:27 pm

Oh I definitely agree. But with the backpedaling and inconsistencies
in his two previous blogs I’m leaning more towards the “embellished” version of events. LOLO!
I also think HughE should get his eyes checked. He mentions that the woman with whom he left the Justin T. fashion show is the same one in these new NYC photos. Ummm……don’t think so.

Yes, as I said, I think there has been lots of speculation (”embellishment”) in the previous entries that have been changed and replaced by “updated” versions after he had consulted friends who gave him some more (accurate???) information.

The woman in NYC last weekend was not the woman from the fashion show. Just like the woman in the club wasn’t Kristi as it turned out. I wonder is she was really ever in Philly, LOL. Seems the people who reported him to be with a local girl were right. Although if you can believe the blog she also was’t exclusive. Maybe she found out the day at the restaurant when he had the “intense” conversation with a woman, LOL.

StinkyLouise @ 04/14/2009 at 1:51 pm

I always wondered if someone was getting “dumped” during the alleged restaurant convo!LOLO.
I think Kristi and the local girl are both history. Maybe the blonde in NYC is now blowing on his bagpipes?
Did you see the bit about Cheryl Burke and some of the DWTS crew in town? Gerry was conveniently out of Philly at the time.He probably got an advance warning she was coming.

Yes, it was hilarious that Cheryl Burke came to town when he was just out of town. Was that the week of the NYC fashion shows?

I assume the blonde in NYC is another FWB for the time he is being there, LOL.

StinkyLouise @ 04/14/2009 at 2:10 pm

The blog says it was a weekend, but doesn’t specify which one.
Interesting that there seems to be very little hysteria in the comment section. I think there is a skull and crossbone warning on this blog, and the fangirls are staying away. At the moment.

no.44 huh; Could you please tell me the story about the blonde philly woman with the groceries? Haven’t heard about that one. :)

brazilian woman @ 04/14/2009 at 9:59 pm

#37
To the real Swansong…
I’m really sorry for that. But, anyway my words definitively weren’t for you, my dear… Now I remember you… so lovely, so dedicated to Gerry… Please forgive me…
I will leave a message for you at my favorite site:
Gals!
See ya…

#42huh- he did hug/ kiss the blonde. it was on the funny version of the tmz video but i can’t find it now for you. i think it was up just yesterday.

where are the new pictures of gb and the blonde that have surfaced?

# 54, no worries. I just wanted to clear things up. Take care,

Swannie

Not to drive you back to my blog, but I just wanted to clear up a few things, but didn’t want to put them here on Jared’s blog. I guess I do need my eyesight fixed, all those brunette’s look alike. You are right I can’t tell everything, but I did tell alot. I should be less judgmental, who is it hurting for the Gerry girls to obsess over Gerry, It’s really Gerry’s place to tell them to leave him alone, I didn’t see him do that. The backpedaling stuff was just that I felt I was too harsh. I stand by everything I reported. I’m so over Gerry, I hope I never have to take his photo again.

Does Gerry try to sleep with everything in sight? That philly blogger quoted an email from a friend of his -I think it’s the Aly girl- saying she and GB hung out, had fun and he tried to go home with her. I don’t give a sh*t what people say, it’s not normal for a guy his age to be pushy with a girl on the first date. Gerry’s stuck in frat boy mode. The girl decided not to use him as a dildo and they stayed friends. What’s up with taking a picture of himself wearing a sock on his d*ck and showing it to her? One last try for her?
How strange of him to invite himself twice into the “life” of the “grocery” woman, first at her home and then when she was out with friends. He really is a manwh*re attentionwh*re. Very needy, freaky guy!!!

#58: The blogger never said that this e-mail came from his friend Aly. Could be another friend. That’s how rumors start…

The thing with the sock on the d*ck is very common when you have to film sex scenes in movies. However, why on earth did he take a picture of himself that way with his cell phone to show to people? I think that’s gross and extremey immature. You would expect that from a 16 year old boy, but not from a 39 year old man.

#57: Thanks for having the guts to write your blog. The hypocrisy that’s surrounding Butler is appalling. Finally someone said it like it is.

#59- i think hanging out with all those kids has kept him immature. he needs a woman to give him a good hard slap. and he needs to not have women friends who accept his weird behavior just because he behaves “better” with them than the one nighters.

58} I got the impression that it might be Aly too, but as 59 says it could just start a rumour.

Popcorn, anyone? @ 04/15/2009 at 6:15 am

For what it’s worth…
Two words: Wayne Carey
Gerard’s narcissistic treatment of women may **** me, but at least he pales in comparison to this guy.

I like the poster, but I don’t see the attraction with them. I would like to see Gerard Butler as the next James Bond or something. He’s totally a man’s man.

StinkyLouise @ 04/15/2009 at 9:22 am

Philly Chit Chat: A friendly piece of advice ,if you’re going to write a “schlock blog”, whether it involves GB or another celeb: Post and then let the sh*t hit the fan. Don’t backpedal. Don’t edit. Don’t change your story. Don’t delete comments. Don’t go to other sites to justify or defend what you’ve written.

Just heard that Gerard is going ahead with a film with Jennifer Aniston.
So Gerry, this is the graveyard of your honest endeavors at a career….hummmm……??? But wait, maybe ol’ Jen will have a box office smash with the BASTER movie she is now filming (about a 40 year old chick who does the Turkey Baster thing…high comedy to be sure) and you can bask in the reflected glory of her success. Surely some of that glory will rub off on you…of course if it goes south…then what? Woops. Oh well, no worries, Hollywood is just the place for a turkey baster movie to be a smash. Word Gerry - get paid up front for your bounty hunter movie.

#55: Thanks for letting me know, I only saw the video that’s on the net. The additional pictures are on the Gals site if I remember correctly.

#51: Yes, the comments are pretty tame this time. As for the fangurls, they wouldn’t believe the truth even if it was rubbed in their faces…

StinkyLouise @ 04/15/2009 at 1:37 pm

#65- Forget the film. We know it’s going to be a steaming pile. However , there is a silver lining. You know that Aniston’s toadies are going to try linking them romantically. Gerry will probably go into manwh*re overdrive. Dating and being photographed with every female possible,except Aniston. If we’re really lucky, he may take a little stroll(with a TMZ cameraman of course), and publicly announce that he doesn’t date pathetic 40-yearld fame-whores.Think of the number of ways that he can publicly humiliate the stupid cow. It might be worth it.

Well #67 I have to agree that it will be a steaming pile, sorry to say.
I mean let’s get serious - if you do a TURKEY BASTER movie what
is left after that? Oh yeah - duh - Gerry Butler the great Scottish Actor - let’s line him up to follow the turkey baster movie - good one Ger !

PCC#63- I think it would be more accurate to say GB is a boys boy not a mans man. Thanks for your blog. Sounds like he’s as crazy as some of his fans. He gets what he deserves.

who knows @ 04/15/2009 at 8:36 pm

Wow, you guys are mean natured.

jerseycow @ 04/15/2009 at 8:55 pm

i thought he is the turkey baster…

# 58 said: Does Gerry try to sleep with everything in sight?

Yes, he does. I hope and pray that he leaves Lolita alone.

Lolita left him long ago. She got tired of waking up to morning wood.

#72- I think we now know for sure why he named his dog Lolita. Freaky guy indeed.

OMG anony, that’s true! He really is so fcking creepy!
After one of the Tonight Show tapings, when he was signing autographs and meeting fans, he was totally flirting with a 16 year old girl from San Diego. He even kissed her on the mouth! There are pics of them on the internet. I also remember watching a video of when he kissed her. This guy is so gross. I can’t believe his fans thought that was acceptable.

#70-of coarse we’re mean to Gerry, he’s a wh*re and treats women, even the ones who are friends, as objects either for sex or for attention to feed his narcissism. I think the smart ones get away quick or stay away altogether. I like what anon #60 said about Gerry needing a woman to give him a “good hard slap” lol! I think he’d actually like it if someone didn’t let him get away with this sh*t.

Linger – 16 year old?! Yikes, call the cops!

I agree there’s been too much placating of a guy who DOESN’T have a normal, healthy sex drive but perhaps something much worse. Too many people have made excuses for it, which means they passively support it.

who knows @ 04/16/2009 at 1:16 am

It sounds like you all are on a witch hunt. It’s very strange what you all are imagining.

Acanadian @ 04/16/2009 at 1:18 am

You people are a bunch of mean-spirited *******. What is your problem? How can you be so vile towards someone that you literally don’t know? What did he ever do to you to cause you such hatred? I know this is a gossip site, but you don’t have to be cruel. I wouldn’t believe what that person Philly Chit Chat whatever has to say. He/she is lying to get people’s attention. Blogging is not journalism and is mostly lies. I’m Canadian, so I know you are all going to lay into me and my country now. Go ahead. I know it will make you feel better since you all have great lives. Let the hating begin because I know you’re going to say what you want to say. I guess that’s what you do, anybody who even remotely takes his side, gets a good trashing-put in their place. I’ve said my peace. I don’t care what you have to say.

#77 - I didn’t mention anything about the LOVE of a good woman. Just her wrath. Then she should leave. But it will take even more than that. The whole enabling circle needs to be broken.

Swan~ I knew it wasn’t you. That’s why I used the # not the name to respond. Try reporting it as abuse.

oh really now @ 04/16/2009 at 2:08 am

80 I like Canada and Canadians! MOST of us here wouldn’t beat on you for that or for anything you post, within reason. We all have opinions and should be allowed to express them. I might ask you - what did we do to YOU that you should be cruel to us? Thanks for your post anyway.

# 78, here is Gerry with that 16 year old girl I was talking about
http://img187.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=65879_leno_122_796lo.jpg

I’m sure there are more pics of them together at gerardbutler.net. And there should be a videoclip too.

who knows @ 04/16/2009 at 2:21 am

So what! He has his arm around her. Oh my!

Gerry kissed a lot of his fans that day…younger and older! There are pics of those hugs and kisses too, but you’re not making an issue out of the others…why not? Her mother was there with her, BTW.

who knows @ 04/16/2009 at 2:34 am

I don’t see the photo or the video of the kiss. Unless you see it, how can you make a judgement or an opinion?

anon annoy @ 04/16/2009 at 2:39 am

who knows- it ain’t just imagining. there are videos on TMZ and You Tube that confirm GB chases the young’ins.

That little girl is just Gerry’s type. Lucky for her that her mother was there to prevent things from going too far. Look at how he’s holding on to her and trying to get her away from her mother!

#90, I’ve filed an abuse report with the Admin

I remember that @ 04/16/2009 at 2:57 am

I remember that - and the fact that Gerry was concerned about it after he found out she was under 18. He knew it looked bad. She looked older than 16 but she still looked young. That is what happens when you flirt with and kiss young girls on the mouth. Kissing strangers on the mouth is just odd and gross, regardless of their age.

It’s not surprising though. He chases young tail. This time he just did it in front of a group of fans. The guy is creepy.

people please @ 04/16/2009 at 3:32 am

You guys take your comments and posts….WAYYY too seriously! You need to stop capitalizing on all the rumors and heresay..
Anyway..changing the subject.
I really like his taste in shoes…looks like he likes his shoes comfy and a little funky. Just like me. Butler…you should get some Keene shoes…I think they would look good on ya, and they’re WICKED comfy. If you like Puma’s, then you’ll like them. Just sayin….lol…
ok, people feel free to go off with the rumor mill again…
Just lookin out for that handsome man’s shoes/feet….I’d hate to be in them seeing all this speculation!!

anon annoy @ 04/16/2009 at 3:37 am

Forget the damn shoes! We’re on to somethin’ here.

Gerry was concerned about being linked to an under age girl? Wonder why? All these posts are beginning to add up. From the old poster SomeoneWKnows (legit or not, insightful) to the last thread about him going for and getting young girls in St Louis, to the obvious naming of his dog Lolita, Gerry really may have some problems. Ugh!!!!

it's true @ 04/16/2009 at 4:26 am

The 16 year old posted on the dot net forum. She confirmed the kiss on the mouth. There was also a video, but I’m not sure if it’s posted. over there. Regardless, many others commented and posted about seeing her and congratulating her. There were also comments about her age and his reaction. There were two other girls who also posted over there about their experiences at that same Leno gathering. They also were kissed on the mouth. One told him that she had never been kissed before and he told her she was a good kisser. The other one had never been kissed either. Gerry turned and asked her if she wanted one too and then proceeded to kiss her on the mouth. One of the girls stated in her post that his mouth was slightly open. Both were young and looked it.. They posted a link to their pictures. There are also numerous other fan posts about that event — many in which the posters wrote about being kissed on the mouth and many stating his mouth was slightly open and that the kiss was not a quick one. It isn’t heresay or speculation. They are first hand accounts, with withnesses and picutres validating those accounts. Go to http://www.gerardbutlerglobalfans.com/ and look under Fan Encounters and see for yourself.

i forgot to mention @ 04/16/2009 at 4:48 am

I forgot to mention how Gerry found out about that the girl was only 16 years old. After he had been flirting with her and kissed her on the mouth, he said something about wanting to take her old home with him. Someone then said that she was only 16. And that is when he looked shocked and knew it looked bad.

A lot of young girls look much older than they are, so he can’t pretend just because they “looked” older he didn’t realise how young they actually were. That’s BS. It’s quite obvious he simply doesn’t care.

#96: The Fan Encounters are protected so you must be a member to read them. I’m not surprised about that if what you say is true.

Ok, I am not saying that what he does with underaged girls is right. On the contrary, I really don’t approve it. But there is something I’d like to point out here. Just because they are 16 years old, it doesn’t mean in the slightest these girl don’t know what they are doing. C’mon, people. You can’t regard them as poor little innocent girls who have been eaten by the big bad wolf. They are not that innocent! In fact, things nowadays are so messed up that I am quite sure that these young girls are way much more experienced than many 30 year-old women… I just say that because I am a teacher and I work with adolescents… if you only knew the things some of them do… :-) You would never believe it. Besides, where are these girls’ parents? Are young girls in America aloud to go wherever they want without supervision?
I say it again: I really don’t think it is right. But on the other hand you have to remember that it takes two to tango. And as far as I am concerned he hasn’t raped any of the girls he was rumored to be seen with.

Oh, and one more thing: I am a fan, I love him… and I´ll definitely see the film. :-)

I’m sure these girls are no innocent little things, but he’s the one who’d get into severe legal trouble (not to mention the damage to his career) if he ever did anything more than “just” kiss them. He is a lawyer, he should know better. Asking a 16 year old to come home with him isn’t acceptable as a “joke”. It looks like he doesn’t ask the girls’ ages before he makes a pass at them, and that could backfire very badly one day.

cubedweller @ 04/16/2009 at 10:13 am

It is NOT ok for a nearly 40-year old man to kiss teenaged girls on the mouth. It is NOT ok for mothers to allow this just because he is a movie actor and they are fans. It is NOT ok to diminish his responsibility for this behavior by saying that the girls are probably more sexually experienced than 30-year olds - that is just gross speculation and puts the responsibility on them rather than on him. An adult is responsible for his behavior and for what he does to whom. Are the phangurls so blinded by adoration that no one stepped up on that occasion and said, “Hey, bud, this is inappropriate - keep your lips to yourself and go hit on someone your own age!” I’ll repeat a comment I made 3 threads ago - bleeeccchhh!

Maybe he should take something to calm his hormones down. I don’t know what the answer is. He could just be an overly friendly guy. I am not convinced about his motives. He is a tough one to figure out. That’s for sure.

If DMI is a teacher maybe she should learn the difference between aloud and allowed. She should also learn the difference between doing stuff with a boy your own age (experimentation) and doing stuff with a man 21 years older (illegal!!).
If he likes them so young maybe he should get an assistant to check their id’s before they get mauled by him.

Okay, I read the comments about the fans meeting Gerry after the Leno show. I have to clear something up here. Gerry actually flirted with TWO very young girls that day. He probably flirted with more than two but those were the ones I saw lol!
It was not the 16 years old that he said he wanted to take home with him, that was a 13 year old girl. Yes, a 13 year old!!!! It is so disgusting I can’t believe that more people didn’t react at the time.

So there were TWO different young girls. I have to go now but I promise I’ll tell you more later.

who knows @ 04/16/2009 at 2:01 pm

Secret, If you were there, why didn’t you react?

No, that girl was 16. There were two other young girls (don’t know their ages) that wrote in a posted pictures of their experiences too. Both had never been kissed before and he kissed themboth on the mouth and talked about it with them - and made the comment about one being a good kisser. Others commented on it as well. Regardless, the man was kissing everyone — on the mouth. Young and old. Strangers. Kind of gross….and a good way to get a cold sore etc.

# 104, the girl he said he wanted to take home with him was 13. I was there. I heard it. Maybe he said it to the 16 year old as well, I don’t know, but he DEFINITELY said it to the 13 year old. She was (is??) a member at the gerardbutler.net forum, and so is her mother, and I remember that she actually wanted to change her screen name to “take me home tart” or something like that.

To who knows; I DID react at the time but a lot of the other fans, the ones I was talking to, got almost angry with me and defended Gerry like he was their brother or something, saying I overreacted and so on. You don’t understand what it was like then, the tarts (gb fans) ADORED Gerry and he could do no wrong in their eyes. It was crazy.

The 13 year old girl, I think she was a redhead, was there with her mom who was also a huge Gerry fan. I remember her very well, there are pictures of her on gb.net and I can post them if I find them.
Anyway, Gerry was busy taking photos with other fans and signing autographs but we could all se how he was checking her out.
When it was her turn he said “wow, you look like a young Britney Spears! I think I’m gonna take you home!” Yes, maybe he was joking but he MUST have seen how very young she was and to say such a thing to a girl her age and when he himself was 36 years old, it was disturbing to say the least.
There was a lot of talk about it afterwards and some fans actually accused the girl for dressing “******” and making herself look older. Granted, she DID look older than 13 but she still looked incredibly young and definitely NOT someone Gerry’s age should be talking to in that manner.

anon annoy @ 04/16/2009 at 5:39 pm

One word - LOLITA!!!!!

Oh these damn women who blame the girl. She wore sl*tty clothes so she asked for it. What does that sound like? Is this 1950? Evolve people!

# 97 - “it takes two to tango, ya, but the MAN leads and is responsible for the “frame” (circumstance) of the dance.lol sadly

A girl doesn’t have to be labeled innocent or victim to get protection from a situation that might not benefit her. Kids aren’t good at setting boundaries because youth is a time to break rules/boundaries. That’s why kids (boys and girls) are more easily taken advantage of by people even other young people.

I think he is gross and probably has some sort of sexual addiction or similar problem, but not because of this story. He was probably just trying to make her day. I am sure it was pretty obvious to him that she was there because of a crush on him, just like all the rest of the girls and ladies. I would take it with a grain of salt.

“damn women” is right. talk about enablers. posters have been calling for gerry to be slapped, how about kicked in the nuts instead. the women need the slap.

107 I might, I say might, agree with you if there weren’t so many other incidences of Gerry being pushy with young/teenage girls. And really, is it right to feed into a young girls fantasies in such an overt away? No matter how you want to interpret the story, he’s not right.

Just read the blog via phillychitchat.com, and there was one paragraph that stood out and didnt really make sense (referencing “the man” and then out and out naming Gerry). It is regards to the lady who went grocery shopping and had problems with her bags…. then the next paragraph she is at some business…….

It said “the man” helped her etc etc and wanted to go up with her and worked in the movie with Jamie Foxx…….ok….fine but any man can say/do that. IF it was Gerry why didnt she go to the movie officials, like F. Gary Gray and complain? ( AND if it was Gerry say so, his name was brought up in the next paragraph so if was him who helped her why not say so instead of saying “the man” in the beginning and then “Gerry” the next?) Then, afterwards, a black SUV appears where she was at it, a window is rolled down it is Gerry who says hello…..invites himself, the lady declines…..again, if this bothered the lady why didnt she say something? Not calling anyone a liar and like HughE said, the source was reliable and they are a Attorney then this source should know if you are going to point a finger have proof…..”the man” in any sense of the word can like I sad be anyone…..

Sorry, JMO. It just seems weird….one minute “the man” the next Gerry in a SUV saying hi?????? Hope Ive made sense, know what Im wanting to say just trying to put it in words.

Peace.

LW

Meggie-

AMEN to that.

Here is the excerpt from the 4-14 Its a wrap blog via phillychitchat.com:

Rouge is on lovely Rittenhouse Square, the tony section of Philadelphia. Many of the A - list people hang out the restaurants along 18th Street and enjoy the view of the park. On the other side of the park are the luxury hotels and apartment and condo buildings. Recently someone told me of a woman that was walking home from the local grocery store. She lived in one of the more expensive buildings with a doorman and car service. As she was reaching nearing her building her grocery bag broke. A man came up behind her and asked if she needed help. He assisted her the rest of the way to where the doorman was able to grab the bags for her. As she turned to thank the man she mentioned to him that he looked familiar. He said his name and that he was filming a movie in town with Jamie Foxx. He invited himself up (maybe longing for a home cooked meal), and she turned him down saying the nanny was upstairs with her baby and she needed to tend to her. The friend who told me the story also mentioned the woman stated she was married. (The person who told me was a prominent attorney in Philly, so I am going to have to believe this story happened)
A few days later the woman was sitting outside of a coffee house Rittenhouse Square, when a black SUV pulled up. The window rolled down and Gerry said hello. He invited himself to join them, she turned him down. (She wasn’t even his type, she was blond)

True or not his public persona is becoming one of leecher and predator. His reputation with women is bad. Typically, where there is smoke there is fire.

I think Swansong (chansondelange) is getting a raw deal. I don’t support all she says, but I think when one puts their tag on their comments it is really rotten to take that tag and subvert their opinions. So feckless. Man up and own what you say - you get to use a sig name for god sake.

seems clear to me @ 04/16/2009 at 6:42 pm

Lonewolf, it seems clear to me. The woman didn’t know who he was and thought he looked familair. He then told her how she might know him. She then saw him again. I’m sure she was sure about his identity after he introduced himself (he said what he was doing in Philly to give context to who he was) or after seeing all the coverage of LAC on the local news and in the media in Philly during the duration of the shoot. A lawyer friend passed on the story to the blogger. They were talking about Gerry in both instances. I think you are seeing inconsistencies that aren’t there. Maybe it’s just poorly written….

Why would the woman make a complaint to the director or anyone else? He didn’t assault her. He helped her with her groceries and said hello to her a few days later. She did what most women do when they are hit on by people they are not interested in — she declined and left it at that.

Wolfy- the philly blogger isn’t a writer so he made many grammar errors. I wouldn’t read too much into these “mistakes”. To the question of why she didn’t report it to anyone is likely because Gerry wasn’t frightening, just annoying and of coarse he did help her with her groceries so why turn on him. And lets face it, women who are really abused - certainly this is not the case here- don’t report it to the powers that be. This woman would have just let it slide since nothing really bad happened. Gerry’s seems really forward or pushy, I guess in a charming way. Freak!

115 and 116-thanks for the input. True, she didnt have to complain due to fact nothing done, but I know some women who would have “run for help” because of a high fear thinking that all men are out to hurt them though most have offered help. But, many do let it slide. I would have.

And yes, the writing was confusing, I went back several time as a matter of fact…..trying t figure out what all was trying to be said. This is why I posted it here. As I often have said, dont belive what I hear/read, so I get clarification espically when I am reading something that I find in a sense confusing.

Again, thanks to the both of you for making more sense of the entry than what it came across as being.

Peace.

LW

Wow, he sounds too scary now! He does have a thing for young girls..just check out TMZ Gerard Butler PYT. Well, I guess him and Mel went to the same school of morals. Too bad, I thought the movie looked really cute, but I don’t want to spend my HARD earned money on making someone who is immoral; rich and in demand. I know call me old fashioned…but if you stand for nothing you’ll fall for anything.

Gerard once told a teenage fan that she had nice tits/breasts/boobs can’t remember which word he used. She was wearing a dress that was showing a lot of cleavage and he just looked down at her boobs and made the comment. She wrote about the meeting on the Internet movie database Gerard Butler message board and even showed a picture. Weird but I guess she was kinda proud of it.

Oh I forgot to say that I think the girl was around 15 or 16.

@Swansong: Ok Mr./ Mrs. Swansong. I do know the difference between aloud and allowed. I was simply not in the mood to send another message just to correct one single word. I am sorry if your English is so impeccable and you have to bear those poor ordinary people who eventually make a mistake. But you know what? Who cares? And where did you learn to be SO polite? Too bad I didn’t express myself properly. Next time I’ll read twice what I type to avoid misspelling words and also to make sure I convey the right idea. :-) I said I don’t agree with his behavior. I never meant to say that he is not responsible for his attitude. On the contrary, not only is it illegal (as you said) but ridiculous and disgusting. Furthermore, even if the girl was 18 or 20, what sort of interest would they possibly have in common? What would they talk about, her grades at school? Of course not… he is not exactly interested in talking, is he? Can you imagine how pathetic he might have looked when kissing those girls? And concerning the point where you mention something about experimentation… just let me tell you this: Nowadays many teens start experimenting “things” at a very early age (unfortunately). By the time they turn 16/17, you have no idea what they have experimented. Believe me they don’t do things like that out of pure curiosity anymore (not at that age). That’s why I brought that up. I believe that those teenagers are not entirely unaware of what they are getting themselves into. But one thing is to say that those girls are not innocent. Something completely different is to contend that he is less guilty. Because he is not! He should be the second one to tell them to go home and do their homework! And I just say second because their parents are (or should be) the first ones to be there for them. That’s actually the reason why I questioned about these girls’ parents. Shouldn’t they be with them? And please, it is not necessary to be rude. I may not have expressed myself properly but I didn’t offend anybody.
Oh, yes, if you find any other mistake, let me know. I’ll be more than happy for having someone so dedicated to improving my English. :-) Thanks a lot!

One word about the Gerry flirting with teens deal: AWKWARD! Is he a vampire searching for new blood? The fan encounter stories on GB.net were/are quite funny. Some were so enamoured by the man they needed to take the rose colored glasses of to realize he was insulting them. Didn’t he say that people wouldn’t like him if they really got to know him? He has the word ‘ASS’ stamped on his forehead.

Kimberley @ 04/17/2009 at 1:15 am

Gerry to some fans at the Leno gathering:
‘So how long have you been here?’

Fans:
‘We’ve been here since 3 a m.’

Gerry:
‘Really? I was having sex at 3 a m.’

Yep. True story.

who knows @ 04/17/2009 at 1:23 am

You all act like you are the moral police. Just keep your girls away from him or warn them, then you won’t have to worry about him kissing them. What’s the big deal? He’s not that scary. So you believe he is a bit of a perve. He won’t be the first or the last.

DMI-
There’s a big difference between sexually experienced and SOCIALLY experienced. SOME of these girls may know what there getting into sexually with a man ~ may even enjoy it~ but not the added social/emotional consequences, especially if Gerry strings girls along. Considering an older man is likely to have more money, resources and in this case fame than a boy, he could really mess with her head. {I would guess this is the same for gay boys dating older men.} Many kids are still experimenting (sexually and socially) at 16-17 and even into their twenties. In this case it would be experimenting with an older, famous man. Forget all this sh*t about the girl being innocent or not; it shouldn’t even be part of the conversation.

anon annoy @ 04/17/2009 at 2:43 am

who knows- People should always call out the bad behavior of a perv/freak. Gerry needs the morality police with him at all times.lol We’re happy to do our part here.

He’s not the first or the last perv, so we should hide away and say nothing. Not my style. Aim low girls, aim low!

who knows @ 04/17/2009 at 2:54 am

Did I say hide away and say nothing?

#122-123 I’ve also noticed how unaware Gerry’s fans are about some of the awful things he’s said right in front of them. I thought I was the only one to see it. Glad to hear from you two. Some people/fans are obviously seriously bewitched and he’s quite happy to take advantage of their delusions.

anon annoy @ 04/17/2009 at 3:58 am

who knows- I didn’t put quote marks around my words as if they were yours. It was just my response.

#126 Annoy
Like the idea of morality police for GB. They could keep his crazy fans away and keep his ass in line. Problem solved!

I haven’t been around back then so this is the first time I’ve heard about the Leno incidents. What I really don’t get is, if these stories are true and even out on the fansites, how can anyone still gush about the beauty of his soul and BS like that??? Or dismiss all the other rumors as mean-spirited lies when they in fact are quite in accordance with the events at Leno??? This hypocrisy of the fans is making me puke. If any other man behaved like that, they’d certainly tear him to shreds.

THE SAD AND UGLY TRUTH IS ... @ 04/17/2009 at 8:39 am

The sad and very ugly truth is that Gerard Butler’s fans are mostly fans of the characters he plays in his films, who are more serious and heroic that he could ever be in person. GB seems never to have kicked any of the serious and sad addicition problems he has had since a teenager - maybe now it is a sex addiction instead of drink etc etc. Additionally, he is readily given access to any excess and is induldged by his management, studios and production companies who all make a great deal of money off his back Each time Just Jared or TMZ etc feature him, dollars in the bank in terms of free publicity. So, q.e.d, while the dollars keep on rolling in, they will protect him, and ridicule and supress any discent of his personal life as any publicity keeps his name in the frame. Even these comments add fuel to the fire and his team read and know that he is being discussed. One presumes that whilst his star is said to be in the ascendant, that nothing will change Unless he gets caught out big time! Sad to see, but remember that both GB, his manager and his team will be laughing all the way to the bank. I for one, don’t intend to spend a single dollar on a ticket for any movie with GB.

@Kimberley: # 123 Incredible! Someone should warn him that in moments you have nothing really good or even decent to say, the silence is the best answer. Just nod your head and that’s all :-)

While I’m one of GB’s loyal fans, I will say that he has a big mouth and no filter as to what comes out of it. I really believe that most of what Gerry says is hot air aiming to be amusing and playing to what he thinks his audience wants to hear. That’s probably how a lot of the womanizing stories got started in the first place. While I believe he’s no angel, I think is bark is a lot worse than his bite. Maybe he should just shut up…to his own advantage!! Oh well, he makes me smile and not much does.

When I met him, what he said kind of caught me off guard. But I agree with pafan, he doesn’t filter what he says. He is a hard one to figure out. I think this makes him interesting. Everybody is so politically correct these days. Afraid we might step on someone’s toes. It gets old and boring. Lighten up! He could be like every other actor and ignore everyone. He is not a snob. But you all are going to try and shut him up. Too bad.

from a couple of gerry fans.. @ 04/17/2009 at 1:48 pm

Well, I think we can do with out you and all thouse sick minded people that have posted here..
Don`t you realice that we think you are the scum of the earth.. If you think with all your comments will make us think bad about Gerry..well you are more stupid that the police allowes..
Gerry are who he are and just because he is only 39 he shouldn`t go out, are you nuts, that is when life starts..are we not allowed to have fun.. we migth be a little slower and stiff, but belive it, we have know how to have fun..we only get wiser with age…
He makes fantastic movies, and you know what ,we don`t care what so ever what you think , I and many others like them and that is what counts
There is no real proof that any of this has happened, no word of mouth can be taken as gospel truth. Everyone seems so readily to accept the worst in this man instead of giving the benefit of the doubt. You keep rehashing all the same old things, at some point you have to give this a rest and move on to another target. Gerry blatently denies he is gay and yet you accuse him of that. You have him going after young girls and that hasn’t been prooved either. The 16 year old was with her mother and it was her Birthday and Gerry was her first kiss… first innocent kiss.
At some point you people have to get a conscience and quite with the malace. Look at yourself in the mirror and see what others could make up about you and see how you like it. You have even taking on the identity of a loyal Gerry fan and make it look like she is ripping him apart. what is wrong with you all!
We are fans of Gerry , yesteday, today and tomorrow…and you know what.. we accept him as he is,

#136 It doesn’t really help anybody or Gerry by calling people names.

cubedweller @ 04/17/2009 at 2:24 pm

Clearly in some cases age does not bring wisdom, spell check or correct grammatical usage.

Clearly some people on this site are out to slam and place negative vibes on someone who they do not know?. Pointing fingers and coming to conclusions over things they have read. Who among you is without sin..cast the first stone?..

I’m not here to say Gerry is an angel but he is single. What he does on his off time is HIS business. From observing him afar..I see he is great with his fans and he has succeeded in doing what he loves…acting.

As for that imposter impersonating someone else on here…and you know who you are…How coward are you to hide behind someone else’s indentity?..

That’s all I have to say..Carry on with your mockery and insults if it makes you feel any better..

from a couple of gerry fans.. @ 04/17/2009 at 3:10 pm

Well, it is not all of us that has english as our 1 language..so I am doing my best…
well I meant what I wrote , just be glad I was so nice.. Gerry can`t be so busy with woman as there is plenty he had said no to or ignored , we can suddenly see that here..
The thing is, you don`t know the man, you have no idea who and how he thinks, it is all guessing..
I don`t know him and never will, but it is nobody business here to jugde him.. Gerry can`t be here , but well I can ..
So you are saying it is ok for others to call him names because he is a celebrity and probably deserves it. Tell me what does that make for the rest of you? He can be called every name under the sun and it is ok but if someone calls you one, you cry foul? Sorry doesn’t work that way in life people. You reap what you sow.

In this country, people are usually innocent until proven guilty. You have all slandered this man based on gossip site posts and blogs You are basically accusing him of having sex with minors, and it is all based on rumors and half-truths.

First he was gay… then he was back on the booze, then he was a manwhore, and now you are calling him a pervert.

It amazes me that people can be this vindictive and hateful to someone they do not even know.

Swannie

#140 If you read all my entries, I am a fan. Try reading the info given before you start directing your anger to the wrong people. Get your facts straight. To me you are just as annoying as the critics. And Swansong have you been living under a rock? There are always going to be people that don’t like him. None of these posts accuse him of what you say in yours. But now you have said it. I don’t think that helps Gerry at all. You sit on your high horse as if you are the end all of a Gerry fan. I am tired of hearing your song.

They have absolutely accused him of exactly what I said in my above post. If the haters, non-fans and anti-fans have a right to post here, then so do the fans.

Swannie

from a couple of gerry fans.. @ 04/17/2009 at 3:40 pm

142…well as far as I know I have not said anything direct to you, but to those who have written as they have.. I have read your post, but why take you anger out on me… why do you feel I am talking to you..
My fact , my goodness..
I don`t jugde Gerry as I don`t know him, do you.. do you have the fact from the horses mouth.. I am just tired of all the stupid post..

Gerry is innocent of everything he has been accused of! He is a wonderful wonderful man and has only slept with two women in his life. He loves children and that was why he was nice to the 13 year old and gave her her first kiss.
He is the Phantom of the Opera and I am his Christine. You will all see when he comes and sweeps me off my feet and takes me to his dungeon lair and makes sweet sweet love to me. Then you will really hear my song!
Swannie

what did he say to you that caught you off guard? Just curious. :)

from a couple of gerry fans.. @ 04/17/2009 at 5:16 pm

Hellooooo fakie…
get you own name.

#45
I see you’ve changed your tactics. Nice. I’ve flagged your post.

who knows @ 04/17/2009 at 5:47 pm

Who’s asking?

from a couple of gerry fans.. @ 04/17/2009 at 5:57 pm

149.. it is to the fake swansong…it is the fake one.

Oprah winfrey's thighs @ 04/17/2009 at 7:49 pm

Dear #136:

The reason why the issue of Gerry’s sexuality keeps coming up is because of the FACTS. There are no accusations. The FACT is that the man has not had one girlfriend of record. Not one! Everything about him and the opposite sex has been reported in various blogs, message boards and gossip sites told from a third person account. Does anyone bother to stop and ask themselves why at this man’s age (and level of fame) is there so much inconsistent information about his dating life? Why is it all just rumor? A vague mention there. A non-detailed blurb there. He’s so private but yet “gets his Mack on” in full view of the paparazzi’s cameras outside Hyde and at the Santa Monica Pier. He’s linked to black girls, Latinas, Asian girls, blondes, redheads, and teenagers…..He’s pulling supermodels AND green lighter chick?! Sorry not buying it.
Before you fans get defensive of your fantasy man aka daily dose of escapism….think about it. Sometimes things are just what they are.
Yes, there are incredbly sexy, ruggedly handsome gay men in the world. And Butler is one of them. Deal with it.

Just wanna know @ 04/17/2009 at 8:24 pm

@Kimberley:
Kimberley, was it at the same Leno event that Gerry talked to his fans about….erm…having sex with himself? Just curious. ;)

Just wanna know @ 04/17/2009 at 8:33 pm

By the way, does anyone know the truth about Gerry and “adult film” star Tabitha Stevens (you’re apparently not allowed to write the word that starts with a p on this site)?
I heard they were dating (not now, a couple of years ago). I wonder if it was really true. If it was, f&%cking gross! :(

To #151
IS that any of our business?..He could be with several women in one evening..so?…I am a lover of movies etc..I watch for what happens movie wise..I couldn’t care less about their personal lives..Most celebrities have no morals any way..I go to the theater to be entertained..End of story. Some of you here ought to look in the mirror..at your own personal relationships..The man is no angel but neither is the rest of the world..

Just wondering @ 04/17/2009 at 11:08 pm

Hasn’t Gerry been quoted as saying he is a bad boy with a good heart?

Yes, the Leno event was the same one.
When the show ended he walked up the stairs and talked to some fans. He took one woman’s hand and asked her ” What time did you get here?” She said “We got here at 3:00 o’clock this morning.” Still holding her hand he says “3:00 o’clock in the morning, I was having sex at 3:00 o’clock this morning…..No not really, well yeah I was, I was just by myself.” Nice. True story. The woman wrote about it and others commented on hearing it. It is well known over at the fansites and they comment on “3AM” all the time. They find the story adorable.
If I was that woman, I would have been grossed out that I was shaking the hand that he pleasured himself with earlier that morning….

@Oprah winfrey’s thighs:
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“Does anyone bother to stop and ask themselves why at this man’s age (and level of fame) is there so much inconsistent information about his dating life?”
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Well, I’ve wondered, yes, but no, I haven’t “stopped to ask myself” as if it is something I must find the answer to. LOL. I don’t care that much to dwell on it. But it seems you do.
His dating life is his own business. It has no affect on my life. Why does it matter so much to you that you have to announce to the world your verdict on his sexuality? You really should take a breath and ask yourself that question.

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“Why is it all just rumor? A vague mention there. A non-detailed blurb there.
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Because a rumor is unsubstantiated. Gerry’s sexual orientation has never been substantiated toward either preference, therefore it’s rumor not fact. So you pronouncing him as gay is just as ridiculous as those who pronounce him straight. None of you have anything substantive or factual to back up your assumptions. But one thing they have that you don’t. His own words out of his own mouth on the subject. Maybe not much to you, but it’s more substantive than anything you’ve got.
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“He’s linked to black girls, Latinas, Asian girls, blondes, redheads, and teenagers…..He’s pulling supermodels AND green lighter chick?! Sorry not buying it.”
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Well, we get that message loud and clear. But…..

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“Before you fans get defensive of your fantasy man aka daily dose of escapism….think about it. Sometimes things are just what they are.
Yes, there are incredbly sexy, ruggedly handsome gay men in the world. And Butler is one of them. Deal with it.”
———————————————————————————————–

The real question again is why are you investing so much emotion in proclaiming his sexual orientation and then more emotion in fighting with his fans about how right you are? Seems like a rather unhealthy obsession you have going on there.

KatieJ

@to #152:
“If I was that woman, I would have been grossed out that I was shaking the hand that he pleasured himself with earlier that morning….”

LOL!!!! Yes, me too, but the fans probably thought it was sexy as hell. Oh jeez….

@KatieJ: Why is 151 so emotional in HIS belief if Gerry’s gayness? Because 151 want to be gay for obvious reasons. This has happened to other stars like Richard Gere. It’s passionate and vicious.

I ment to say -151 wants GB to be gay…

@Anita:
These posts by Swansong are NOT really swansong. Someone with a poor sense of humor and a mean streak is poking fun at both her and Gerry and it is really really sad. And this is probably someone who has nothing but disgust for those on fan sites. Again I say its very very sad.
Swan still has nothing but admiration for Gerry.

Wow it is interesting that so many people think that they know all about Gerard’s dating life and love life. You would think that they have personal knowledge. How can anyone but Gerard know what happens behind closed doors? Maybe you have a hidden camera. When a person becomes well-known speculation runs rampant. In my opinion, I think it is not anyone’s business. Yes, Gerard needs to be more discerning in his behavior with young fans. I do not condone his past behavior. But what about the fan at TIFF that pinched his face? As for Philly chat blog-he sure was using Gerry for his own benefit a few weeks ago.
As for the poser posting as Swansong-get a life and your own user name. Those people who know the real swansong are on to your stupid tricks!

@anon:

anon, 151 is not a he. I know very well she is not. I have a pretty good idea who she is, and like her and get along with her pretty well, but she does go off on these irrational rants at Gerryfans that just make me scratch my head and wonder at her motivation and her emotional investment.
I also have a pretty good idea who the Swansong imposter is also. She and I, however, have no love lost between us.

KatieJ

I remember that one of the girls on gerry’s imdb board said she would’ve LICKED his palm. Yeah, there sure were some crazy fans around then. *shakes head*

Katie J- I believe you when you say he (151) is a she but why would a woman want GB to be gay? Does the thought of him with a woman threaten her some how?

@anon:

anon, I don’t have any idea. I don’t for a minute think she WANTS him to be gay. I think she is just convinced of it and maybe hates him for it, and other imagined behaviors, because of her religious beliefs. I really don’t understand what motivates her. If it’s even her. I could be wrong about her identity. But I don’t think I am.

KatieJ

from a couple of gerry fans.. @ 04/18/2009 at 3:50 am

You know, Oprah winfrey’s thighs, If he was gay, wich is something I don`t belive he is, but t it is really some his own business…
It is none of my . He is who he is and that is what I like about him..
He can date who so ever he likes , he is singel, so who cares. Just because we get older, life really don`t stop… ( no comments from my friends here…hahah) Please leave Gerrys life to Gerry..

Most men like to think they are bad boys.. I have 4 sons who think they are, but really ..they are not…so let them belive they are …

So now he is being blamed that he is alone in the nigth… you know what .I`ll shake his hand anytime…

the brooooom @ 04/18/2009 at 4:06 am

What a bunch of screwey, scarrrrry broads! If I were bro i’d seriously consider being gay.

@the brooooom:

“What a bunch of screwey, scarrrrry broads! If I were bro i’d seriously consider being gay.”

LOLOLOL! And you, my friend, get the award for best post on this thread! LMAO!

KatieJ

What I read here on this site frankly is sad. It really does amaze me how easily people jump on the bandwagon to bash Gerry. You don’t even have to have proof of anything to accuse him of things.

I have been watching his career for 5 years now, not out of some crazy obsession or believing that he is one of his characters. I see him as Gerry, just a guy who happens to act for a living. His kindness and generousity is what earns him loyalty, something that many of you don’t know they meaning of or have forgotten along the way or never learned.

I am not on any high horse here, but what I have seen here on this site over the last months is really very sad and now that someone is impersonating a wonderful woman that I KNOW… shame on you! Talk about no class. You didn’t fool anyone that knows her.

I wish I could say that I hope you all that have abused you “freedom for speech” feel the same wrath that you have bestowed upon Gerry, but I won’t. I do pity you for your hatred that you feel for a complete stranger and i do hope that one day that will change. I hope that you can look in the mirror and chose that today you are going to try to find the good in people instead of the hatred that you are right now. Life is just too short.

As far as the gay rumor… in a very recent interview he came right out and said he is NOT gay and NEVER was gay. Never had interest in it EVER!

I think even if Gerry marrigths and have kids, there will be people that wil still belive it,
You know thanks to Gerry I have now got the most fantastic friends. I am really greatful for that…Friends you know who you are and I bow to you all..

I thought I was just going to say thanks for the cute poster and news of the new movie with Katherine Heigl and Gerard Butler. But after reading through all of these comments I have to say Mr. Butler sure has a lot of unwarranted irrational haters.

So, I just want to say to Mr. Butler, I am a fan and I am looking forward to seeing The Ugly Truth.

Lisa #170

Well said!!! Agree 100%.

#171 - It happens all the time dear. Don’t be so naive

#170 - He couldn’t very well say “Well, yes I am gay, thanks for asking” Come on…..bye bye career.

Love GB. Can’t wait to see TUT, Game and Lawabiding Citizen. And, I’m looking forward to Bounty Hunter and Burns as well. He sure is keeping busy. (Oh, and I forgot, he’s a voice on the upcoming animated feature How To Train Your Dragon.)

To the FAKE Swansong:

Anyone who would go to the lengths you have done to impersonate one of Gerry’s fans on a message board speaks of unhealthy obsession and possible mental instability.

Quit stalking Gerry’s fans and go find yourself a healthy hobby. There’s a world outside waiting to be explored.

To Oprah's thighs @ 04/18/2009 at 11:17 am

Dear #136:

I have to agree with you on some of your points…Like this one…” He’s so private but yet “gets his Mack on” in full view of the paparazzi’s cameras outside Hyde and at the Santa Monica Pier. ” and this one too.
“Yes, there are incredbly sexy, ruggedly handsome gay men in the world. And Butler is one of them. Deal with it.”
And gay men even get married and have kiddies too.

174….hahaah naive. well is it because he said no to you that he just has to be gay…wake up,
1 of the most fantastic and a very loved man I know , is gay, he is a actor and so loved by many woman…He is who he is and we love him for that.. it is NOT Gerry …
What is you problem.. the world is not like that anymore…and for thouse that think that way.. shame on you..
Yes I think the world of Gerry and am a big fan.
What are you doing reading here anyway if you don`t like Gerry, you are just here to make trouble..

you are naive. lol. The world is like that…especially when you have a career as an actor and are in rom-coms. wake up.

you must be a die hard phangurl. hehehe

hahhahhaha … no my dear ..you couldn`t be more wrong…

katiekares @ 04/18/2009 at 1:38 pm

I think Butler stinks to high heaven!

my name is katiej from Imdb.

katiej from Imdb you stink! Gerard Butler is fine oh fine.

curious ahole @ 04/18/2009 at 1:47 pm

i stalk Butler. i am Butler. everyone loves me and wants to be me. i am obsessed with myself. everyone is obsessed with me. i am an inmate of the loony tunes brigade.
gerry butler loves me.

It’s one thing to come on here slagging off Gerry but to use a screen name of a long time fan that has only ever admired Gerry is not even funny. Anybody that knows her would know if her feelings for Gerry ever changed she would walk away from his fandom not rip the guy to shreds.

what interview? @ 04/18/2009 at 5:07 pm

@Lisa:

Link to the interview where he said he wasn’t gay and never was gay. Butler has never addressed that issue directly, which is just another reason some question it. Good grief, quit making s/hit up to defend your obsession!

In any event, it appears that people have turned to stalking and impersonating his fans because the man himself is becoming a boring cliche. That is just sad.

You know what 181…I am glad I live in a country were an actor are accepted for their work and for who they are..NO I am not naive.. I just accept people for who they are and I don`t jugde them…
Hate to disappoint you , no I am not a ..what was it you called it phangurl…just a fan..
I have never meet Gerry and never will and never stalk anybody..

Anyone who’se invested in Gerry being gay is just showing that they are not fans and don’t follow him. So you’re not a fan - fine and dandy, but I will say that I’ve read every interview that Gerry has given in print, on vid mags, fan sites, and all the razzi vids of him back for years. This will come as a shock to not one of his fans: Gerry always, always, always addresses the question of his sexuality when directly asked and the answer is always the same ” not gay, I’m straight ” so that is where he’s coming from. He has never once dodged it or avoided it - and why should he…. he’s always been open about his sexuality on that particular topic. So what’s all the fuss here on this thread ? Don’t know, but it’s always made entertaining reading to me.
I’m not bothering to search and drag the references here - any fan reading this can support me… and the ones asking to be spoon fed a source - fuggetabout it - get off your arses and do some research. When the obvious facts are revealed to you, will you have the courage, the honesty to come back here and say that you see that Gerry has always answered the question and what the answer always is? Courage and honesty - that’s all it takes….can you do it?

This movie is not my favorite film genre. I prefer historical dramas (love the Tudors!) but I always find something to enjoy in Gerry’s films, so I’ll see TUT at least once. I think it looks promising, and he’s proving himself to have good comedic timing.
As to Gerry being gay, he has flat out denied it in an on camera interview, where he was asked if being in 300 around half naked guys made him feel gay; to which he answered, “No, because I’m not.” Even if he were gay (which I don’t believe), so what?

Swannie

link to one @ 04/18/2009 at 8:20 pm

@amen:

Well, I am a fan and have never heard him say that in any interview, let alone MANY. Perhaps you won’t to link to one interview because you can’t.

I personally doubt he is gay and don’t really care, but I have never heard him address the subject. He doesn’t like to talk about his personal life. I think defending him and making untrue statements in the name of being a “fan” is just as pathetic as claiming he is gay based on lies. They are just opposite sides of the same coin. Too bad you can’t see the hypocrisy of it. This is why his “fandom” has a bad name and hurts anyone who is a fan with a normal, objective interest.

@amen:

You can’t be a fan if you think he is gay?? What a homophobic statement!

The interview was in San Fran, either Comic Con or Wonder Con. Can’t remember which. It was when he was promoting 300, and the interviewer was a female who asked the ditziest questions.

Swannie

Hey Swansong @ 04/18/2009 at 8:37 pm

and I mean the REAL one. Don’t get your knickers in a twist over that imposter - anyone who has spent any time at all in Gerryland knows you are a loyal fan. You are always supportive and never have an unkind word, even for the snarkers. I may not share all your opinions, but I do respect your writing and any one who can read can distinguish between you and faux swan. So carry on!

Cubedweller

Well, I’ve heard the same interview as Swannie and several others in which he said flat out he is straight. I’m sure if you dig through enough old interviews on YouTube you who doubt will run across one or two of those interviews. But even an answer from the horse’s mouth likely won’t satisfy you.
Why the fascination with his sexual orientation anyway? What’s it to you?
It makes me chuckle all the different views on GB. He’s either a saint, a womanizer or gay according to posts on here.
For me, I’ll go with straight and a player, but whatever, he’s one fine looking man.

Thanks Cubedweller! The other Swansong hasn’t posted in a while, so maybe he/she got bored and is doing something constructive. Hope so. #192, do you know how many interviews and articles there have been about this man over the years? LOL! That was just one of a bunch he did for 300’s press. Maybe somebody has got it saved to their pooter, but I sure don’t!

Swannie

All the mommies are out in force.
So what if he’s gay or not?
The guy is sleazy and gross. My opinion, but I’m sure you are going to try to ram your opinion down my throat. Give it up and go knit.

i buttocks @ 04/18/2009 at 10:30 pm

butler is gay. i am gay.

brazilian woman @ 04/18/2009 at 11:34 pm

I have the interviews, etc.. here in ‘my videos’ (almost 60 …all with Gerry).
There’s one (300) where he says “If I were gay, which I’m not….”…
and another time when he says to Venice (the interviewer): “But I assure you that I’m completely heterosexual”.
In my opinion Gerry loves women a lot!
But I love him , no matter whether his bisexual, straight or whatever…
He’s adorable and I will never forget the day he kissed me (300 premiere) and all his kindness. Yes… Gerry is kind, nice, adorable..
I hope that he’ll be back again…

ok, so he’s hitting on teenagers, young’ uns at that.
So now he think he he’s a rockstar?

anon annoy @ 04/19/2009 at 1:40 am

I wonder how this perfectly darling thread (lol) about Gerry’s freaky behavior with teens turned into a “he’s gay” -”no he’s not gay” thread. Diverting tactic? Here we go again.

People have told me he has video-tapes of the conquests of the past, just to see how he performs, and then plays them back to his buddies. I wonder if he still does that? And it wasn’t just one-to-one, but group stuff, mixed. This has been mainly in LA. Wearing his Phantom mask at times. Those tapes would be priceless now!!

Don’t worry, I think the two fame-whor*es are about to get it together, and Aniston will be keen to make little fame-whor*e babies. Now that would be funny!! Ahhhhhhh, Gerry might have his first (we assume) contraception failure. ‘Daddy Gerry’. Can you imagine the babies they would have? Big chins and fat fingers! That would be an extreme way of promoting a film, instead of them just ‘dating’. Wait….can you hear them grinding away now??????

Popcorn, anyone? @ 04/19/2009 at 3:51 am

@Timeless: Well I hope that he has good security. He wouldn’t want to get burgled. LOL. The mask thing is kinky. I wonder if he also wears his red spartan cape and brown leather budgie smugglers during foreplay sometimes.

Too right! @ 04/19/2009 at 3:52 am

I think Maniston is extremely wiley enough to catch him too!!!! Age is not an issue…don’t forget, he’s just interested in ‘dippin’ them, not necessaily ‘DATING’ OR MARRYING’ them. The peen must be satisfied, and that’s how she will catch him!

Hey, popcorn. I hear he has a picture of himself in the full ‘300′ costume in a frame beside his bed. Now, is THAT narcisstic. A little kiss before bed-time! Mmmmmm…I wonder if he has mirrors on the ceiling of his pad in New York. I can see in the recent pictures of his place, they did not show any of his bedroom, just the spare-room.

Popcorn, anyone? @ 04/19/2009 at 4:06 am

@tugger: On second thoughts, maybe he skips the leather budgie smugglers altogether - the muffin-top may make him feel too self-conscious. I can picture it now - the white mask, spartan cape … …and a sock.

@mommies:
Your opinion, what are you doing here if you dislike him so much..I will not try to ram anything down you troath… ahah go knitt well that is not really something I am good at.. to bad as I really wish I could…now if you have said sewing …
You know , no one can like eveybody, but I think just because there are some one I don`t really care for, that don`t give me the rigth to trass the person.. I will just stay away …But it don`t make the person a bad one.. who known maby one day , you don`t know the future.
My english is not good enougth to answerd you in the way I like, and it don`t mean I will saw anything bad..I am not really such a person..

Well what so ever his home looks like, what is it to you.
You much like yourself as much as I reconice your names and you post about the same things…
I do hope I haven`t spelled to much wrong

@Lis:

You obviously haven’t noticed yet that this is a public gossip board and not a Gerard Butler gushing fan board where any critical remarks are immediately censored. Anyone has the right to be here and state their opinion, whether you like it or not.

@anon:

Ohh belive me I know….so I have the rigth to give mine… without being nasty…I just don`t get you.. I really don`t…you know I don`t really care what you all thinking I am .. a naive mommie …hahahah but wow hahah you would really be surprice.

@Lis:
If you really didn’t care you wouldn’t go on and on about how you don’t care. It’s obvioius you care very much. Please continue to post, because all you’ll achieve with this is fueling the fire. I really don’t get YOU. The best way to silence haters is not to react to their comments at all for they’d soon get bored if nobody reacted. But what you and the other fangurls do here is just plain dumb. No wonder his fans have an even worse reputation than he has.

StinkyLouise @ 04/19/2009 at 8:10 am

@Too right- Maniston is wiley enough to land GB? I doubt it. She couldn’t hold onto a douchebag like Mayer so I don’t see her having much or any success with Butler. As for him? Why would he want a 40-year old cow when he has 20-somethings willing to spread their legs for him.And there are acres of them on his doorstep in NYC.LOLO!

To the people making a big deal about real vs fake swansong screen name:

This is an anonymous message board. Not a reality board. No one on here knows you in real life (unless you (swansong) and your friends are apart of his fanclub and are apart of gerry’s fansite and go to various gerry events where you recognize each other). Have you patent this name? If not, quit making a big deal about it. Geez! My sign on used to be GoodGrief on various sites. I see where others post using that sign on. I’m not upset by it. I don’t own the rights to it. Again, who cares.Too much drama over an actor who, probably, doesn’t know you personally. It had to be said.

To JJ:

You should bound these posts into a book and seek a publisher. The book should be titled ‘What to do and not do once you become a fan of a B list actor’. I’m sure it would be a best seller.

If Swansong and her GerardButlerGals want to hear what they want to hear, they should probably stay away. Gals controls what everyone can and can’t say, so stay at your safe haven. You say you have the right to post, but then you want to control everyone’s views. It’s not going to happen. Justjared doesn’t censor like Gals. I believe in freedom of speech even though it might sometimes offend.

@Whoknows:

I am not on GerardButlerGals…sorry..I am just a fan of Gerry.

@Timeless: “video-tapes of the conquests of the past, just to see how he performs, and then plays them back to his buddies” he really is the narcissist people have been calling him. He’s so insecure that he needs to grade his own performance and get his buddies to approve/enjoy? A MAN would know he’s a good performer by how much the woman purrs. lol.
If this is true, he needs some serious help!!!

anon annoy @ 04/19/2009 at 7:21 pm

Oh god, this gets worse.
Taping his performance to show his buddies…where’s my gun!
What’s next, bestiality?

Any more stories from the crib?(hah) Alright, that was bad.

puhleeeze @ 04/19/2009 at 7:47 pm

Well Anne, if you ever want to know what is true and credible about someone, a celebrity gossip thread is always the last word in content and veracity.

Yeah right - p*rn king, gay womanizer, child molester….yep, this is the place to spice up your dull life - right here in the good old Gerry Butler threads.

i heard that too @ 04/19/2009 at 8:01 pm

I heard the same thing about the framed picture of himself in 300. I think it was in an article or interview. Does anyone recall? I forgot about it until someone else just mentioned it. I think it was in this bedroom! Kind of odd to have it there. I can understand maybe having some framed pics from your various movies as momentos in your home, but that particular one on your nightstand….seriously odd.

Diana_guminski @ 04/19/2009 at 8:07 pm

I am the fake Swannie. It was me all along. I can’t stand the thought of anyone else getting inside his Dutch oven besides me. I am MobeeWonKenobi and Noxeeeeema at IMDB and I don’t care who knows it.

Sue me Swannie, just ******* sue me

oh seriously @ 04/19/2009 at 9:32 pm

What the hell is going on here! People stealing other peoples names, outing people. Stop! This is a thread about the crazy sh*t Butler does.

Back on topic. If frat boy has a pic of himself in the bedroom he must really be f*cked up. Maybe that’s the only way he can get it up OR maybe that’s the only way to turn the girls on and keep them interested once the party gets started. {Hey girls, don’t forget this is how I CAN look when I bathe and take care of myself. lol}

Annoy- bestiality? well there was that movie with the camel.

Well, it is o-fficial Gerry fans!!!!! He is now dating and in a relationship with Jennifer Aniston…….compliments of whosdatedwho.com……
**rolls eyes and sighs”

anon annoy @ 04/20/2009 at 12:37 am

Oh, that poor girl! Run, Jen, Run. Or put a body condom on him!!

I really doubt this is true, for now. She’s too “old” for him. She’d probably scare him with all her experience. lol. Gerry, go back to the kids you can handle.

Popcorn, anyone? @ 04/20/2009 at 12:59 am

@LoneWolf: This whole Jennifer Aniston saga is boring me to tears. However I can’t wait to watch the bloodfest between the motherly “she is not worthy” Tart army and Team “Twue Wuv” Aniston.

Please, the Aniston thing is a total PR stunt from her people. They’ve done it a million times before. But it’s good for Butler too as it distracts from all the other rumors of which some might actually be substantial.

StinkyLouise @ 04/20/2009 at 8:28 am

So how long before GB “breaks poor Jen’s heart”LOLO? This is all hilarious. Her toadies making up fake boyfriends in order to sell her films. Even they know she can’t act.

@StinkyLouise:
Exactly. Her people need to keep her in the tabloids as neither her movies nor her non-existing acting would ever make any headlines. I think this is actually not early PR for this bounty hounter movie but instead for her new movie that’s coming out in May I believe. She needs a new fake boyfriend for every movie. It would be a hoot though if her PR people even managed to talk Gerard into walking the red carpet with her, LOL. The media and fangurl frenzy would be hilarious.

StinkyLouise @ 04/20/2009 at 9:14 am

@ me.Yep, this is PR for Management. Apparently they had a hard time finding a distributor for the film.
As for Gerry co-operating and actually being seen with her publicly?
Don’t see it, unless they pay him big bucks.LOLO!

@StinkyLouise:

I really wouldn’t be surprised if they did. And he could probably use some extra cash for the financing of Burns.

Mommy dearest @ 04/20/2009 at 10:10 am

I just hope Gerry’s mother never comes to this site, she’d be shocked and very sadden by some of the things written here about her boy and as many of you have said, alot of it is rumour and speculation. Sure go ahead and vent, express, admire, confess, whatever, but some of the language and inference here is disgusting, I feel like I’m listening to bunch of crewd blokes. Ladies/gents please don’t stoop to that level, remember whatever bad thing you say about someone else, there could be someone else saying a bad thing about you, how would you all feel if stuff was said about you this way, you’re fat, you’re ugly, you got no personality, it can’t even bring myself to get really nasty, I’m not trying to be the moral police here, in short all I wanted to say was…..just be kind.

@Diana_gumski @ 04/20/2009 at 10:33 am

The funniest thread on the board! Thanks for the laugh on Monday morning..LOL.

Are you kidding me? Maybe his mother should listen how her son talks!

You are probably wasting your breath Mommy dearest. A lot of people on here don’t know what the word means. Gerard may use bad words, but he is a kind soul.

#225 and 226-PC and me: It is bad enough that Gerry has this cr** hanging over his head. Now, it is the Jennifer thing coming back…… his/her PR people sure know how to add to ones misery……bring on the popcorn and hold back the tears……..this is going to be something to watch for!!!

Also, BTW speaking of JA, I noticed Marley and Me had some great ratings….but wasnt Owen Wilson in it as well???? I was told by those who saw it (I havent had time) said HE not JA made the movie. Which, he is a fav of mine plus he is a great actor….and with her in her past pics and not the turkey one (Bastor-LOL) it shows me (IMO) that Marley was really put out there because of his acting not hers!!!!!!! So, with this Bounty Hunter (which wasnt she the one who had the brain far*-oops sorry-storm to come up with this one!!!!) any idea how this is going to go? Like PSILY, he was with Hillary (Swank) dont member how that one reviewed….

As I said, the guy needs to take a breeze and try to remember who he was…he has forgotten that…..til he does who knows what is going to happen next!!!!! He has alot going for him but with what he is doing now-espically in the “dating” aspect….. “crash and burn” arent gonna be the words…itll be more like “going to hit bottom” if he doesnt ease up!!!!

To the real Swannie-Dont sweat the small stuff, g/f. Someone is using your “site” name cause they like and admire ya!!! Why else would they use it? OR! You wee-wee’d in someones wheaties……..

Peace.

LW

MobeeOnecanobi @ 04/20/2009 at 1:29 pm

@Diana_guminski:

AHAHAAH. You wish, you pathetically ugly excuse for a human being.

Oh, btw, I screwed your wife.

someone has multiple personalities.

1. Gerard Butler is not Gay.

2. The man hasn’t been in a relationship, because he hasn’t found the “ONE” he’s suppose to be with!!!! It’s hard for Gerard to find someone who loves him for who he really is. Not the actor. Not the fame. Not the money. Who loves him for him. — In Hollywood there’s alot of superficiality. Where in the hell is he going to meet this woman of his dreams. Literally the one in his dreams.

3. Gerard Butler has a soulmate! She’s one hell of an amazing woman. He should go see a pyschic or call a psychic and find out where the hell she is and get to her fast so he can be healed and not feel broken anymore.

4. Best advice to give Gerard Butler is to find his soul mate so he can be happy because he deserves all the happiness.

2cents-I am in full agreement with you. Ask JJ to give you my email and I can explain why. Your 2-3 and 4 are right on the mark.

jerseycow @ 04/20/2009 at 8:14 pm

why are other celebrities crucified for …um, having a bad hair, wearing heinous jeans, gaining weight, substance exposure…etc. which isn’t a crime -but his activities are buried.

sad to say that one of these days, something is going to happen and his handlers won’t be able to stop the tsunami of info- it’s only a matter of time before some female collarboration of the disastrous kind will erupt and they won’t “go away”.
Hmm, based on his conquests, he may have a new “300″ war on his hands, of his own making….

To LONEWOLF: I don’t know JJ, but here’s my email address
liveinthemoment007@yahoo.com

The meaning of celebrity should be redefined. I agree everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Come on people it’s 2000 ******* NINE. Grow up. I’m sure we all agree that some gossip is good and after a while when gossip gets manipulated to the point of putting down an individual and doesn’t sound anything close to the truth, all that bullshit has got to stop.

We all should be focusing on our own lives instead of the lives of these celebrities who clearly love the fan support but would appreciate their private life. The life that you and me have. Privacy. The mind your own business life.

Try putting yourself in there shoes. Would you like to hear comments about you if you were a celeb?

This is a public message board, not a fansite. Lecturing others about their opinions or point of view is the same thing as stating that yours is superior and should be the only one allowed. Why not focus on YOUR OWN LIFE and quite lecturing others. You are a hypocrite.
BTW, Butler is a joke of his own making.

#238-
The only reason GB hasn’t found THE ONE is because he doesn’t want just one.

If he doesn’t want to be loved just for his fame, he should stop using it to get girls! When he matures, whomever he’s dating at that time will be the one, not because she’s any better than the rest but because he’s finally better than his “old” frat boy self. I think it might happen when he’s about 50!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don’t hold your breath on this one!

He said himself he believes in having many soul mates at once. Joke or not, there’s some truth in it.

TO:#243 It’s not lecturing. I came on “THIS PUBLIC MESSAGE BOARD” to give me opinion. Ignorance is bliss.

people please @ 04/21/2009 at 12:05 am

To all those who are going on here commenting if he’s gay, with Aniston….bla bla..or with 16 yr olds…you are all homely and stupid….get a life…had to be said!!! This is especially true if you are a wife and your husband is in the next room…work on that instead.

@people please: you too, sweetie. get a life!!!
don’t come here if you don’t want to read all this.

Gerard Butler is a douchebag. M’kay?

Popcorn, anyone? @ 04/21/2009 at 9:48 am

I will repost what I just posted on Ted C’s site and also on Jen’s page - with corrected grammar. Because Huvane is sh*tting me to tears again and I need an outlet:

This whole Aniston/Butler crap is BORING. Huvane, BORING. Show some originality already. Please.

I refuse to pay money to go and see this proposed Bounty Hunter tripe because I am JUST SO OVER IT already.

What WILL encourage me to see an Aniston movie is if she stars as a post-op transexual who find’s out that she’s a lesbian and falls in love with a former nun who wants to become a man.
Now THAT would draw an audience. Sounds sick, I know, but it would would make for a refreshing change from all the recycled Rachel Green-type characters.

Don’t get me wrong, I adored her in ‘Along Came Polly’ but the woman needs to take a break from the PR machine and relationships; live her life, take up a hobby, learn to love herself and get some inner healing & CLOSURE. She and Gerry can root each other’s brains out for all I care, but she really does seem co-dependent and ALWAYS on the rebound.

“He said himself he believes in having many soul mates at once. Joke or not, there’s some truth in it.”

He never said more than one soul mates at once. He said more than one soul mate in ones life. Big difference.

StinkyLouise @ 04/21/2009 at 3:35 pm

Psssst! According to one of the gossip sites, Gerard Butler is now Jennifer Aniston’s “boy toy”. Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!

@StinkyLouise: “BOY”, is right!

too much competition? @ 04/21/2009 at 5:28 pm

@people please:
Why don’t you mind your own business.

Isn’t his new movie “P.S. I love your man ass”
The GB fangurls have nothing on the homo sites. I tell you those boys love GB morethanthis. I don’t know which team has the bigger following, but the boys do make for the better reading that’s for sure.

people please @ 04/21/2009 at 11:16 pm

lol…don’t get your panties all up in a bunch # 247 & 253! I just think some of the people are just a little too obsessive in regards to his love life! It’s not necessary. And # 253…wtf is “too much competition”? lol..mind my own business? Ok, I’m going home now and bringing my toys with me…lol…too funny! Thanks for proving my point.

#250 you are wrong. He did say “at the same time” in the interview. Go rewatch it. He definitely sounded like he didn’t think there would be one soul mate for him. People need to get a clue. Everyone in Hollywood jokes about him being a player. His friends joke about him being player. The only people who can’t handle it are the Phantom fans who think he’s alone in a hotel room, clutching a bible and crying from loneliness every night. That’s definitely not happening and as well it shouldn’t.

I just read an article about this awful film TUT that’s coming out. Gerry is quoted as saying he IS this character and that he thinks he’s an “alpha” male, which in itself is funny because alpha males only hang out with alpha females. His kitty litter doesn’t count, LOL, especially if his buddies and his fame are helping him get girls.

too much competition? @ 04/22/2009 at 11:37 am

@people please:
Okay what’s the point? Worry about yourself, not everyone else.

#256 - “The only people who can’t handle it are the Phantom fans who think he’s alone in a hotel room, clutching a bible and crying from loneliness every night. ”

it takes one to know one. LOL!

btw - he is GAY - can’t you people pick up on his need to convince everyone what a womanizer he supposedly is.

to skeeter @ 04/22/2009 at 12:40 pm

what sites are they? I could use a laugh.

be smart guys - if Gerry were gay we all know that in this environment he would have been OUTED years ago. So why hasn’t he been? And, why has he always answered the question of his sexual orientation with a clear statement that “I’m not gay, I’m straight?” This isn’t rocket science folks.
I don’t think the fantasies of the fangurls are any less fantastical than the phony Gay stuff…. it’s all wishful thinking on someone’s part….and it’s pure fantasy. And what’s wrong with it? Absolutely nothing - just an observation. :-)

amen amen amen @ 04/22/2009 at 4:41 pm

How long do you think his career would last if he said he was gay or bi? It’s common knowledge at least half of Hollywood is gay. …also that it’s common knowledge in London he swings both ways. You’re the one that sounds in denial and I’m not talkin’ the river in Egypt.

Ohhhhh I get it - half of Hollywood is gay and everyone knows it (me as well) but if Gerard Butler is gay then that’s a career breaker huh?
Gee, I see a bit of cognitive dissonance in your argument.
So he alone is the guy who has to stay in the closet or lose his career…not the other half…right? I doubt Hollywood gives a flip about it…and why should they?

phangurl. hehehehe

It sounds like it would make a difference to you if he was gay. You are determined to have him be straight!

It’s Gerry that says he’s straight and not gay. I’m just taking him at his word. If he’s gay, one thing is for sure, he’s not owning it.

people please @ 04/23/2009 at 3:59 am

lol, take your own advice # 258..omg I’m cracking up….that was my point! People should worry about themselves instead of speculating on what a movie star is doing….who gives a damn! I read these posts because they are entertaining, I never thought people would get this crazy over someone who couldn’t give two craps about them!! Thanks again…

anon annoy @ 04/23/2009 at 4:23 am

If you still think he’s gay go to the earlier thread 4-10. He likes to lick girl’s fingers!!! And dances for chocolates. Someone help this crazy man!

“hink he’s gay go to the earlier thread 4-10. ”

Not sure what 4-10 means

4-10 means the date of the other thread. It’s the one about him in NYC.

thanks 270 - do you know what #

he’s licking fingers - so what does that prove?

Looks like the Gerard Butler IMDb crowd has moved over here.

Good grief, I’d rather him be gay than have any of the disturbing rumors that surround him be true. Being gay is the least of his problems.

to#260: for starters, towleroad.
#262: spot on.
#263: read “Hollywood Interrupted” published a few years ago.
#267: with all due respect, in this day and age, this is all we do is worry about ourselves, our families, our jobs, our futures…speculating is a diversion.

cubedweller, where is jilleroo, victoria and mistress?

Hi Skeeter @ 04/23/2009 at 11:19 pm

No idea what happened to jilleroo or the others - hellooooo are you out there?

Maybe they got busy with RL.

I agree with you, Skeeter - I’d rather hang out with you peeps than worry about everything else.

cubedweller

Right you are. GB is a fun diversion from real life woes (and a mighty fine diversion at that.)

I hope this isn’t some kind of sign that this beautiful man thinks only with his ***** =(

@ Skeeter @ 04/24/2009 at 3:17 pm

Hollywood Interrupted? It sounds like fun reading. LOL! did you ever read “You’ll never eat lunch in this town again”?

#280- Funny you shud mention…someone lent me the book years ago- i’ve not read it, but i will now. You gotta read Hollywood Interrrupted, it is fun reading and it sure does explain alot.
Hey cube, thx for your msge.Cheers.

Let me know what you think of the book. I’ll look for HI today!

#282- i will. and will stay in touch on these threads.

doesn'tmatter @ 04/27/2009 at 11:46 pm

Impossible to read so much **** so I’ve jumped from page to page reading at random.
You people are ******* crazy, those who think he’s a perverted sex maniac and those who think he’s a perfect saint. He’s neither; he’s a ******* contradiction. Sometimes he’s the most spiritual and sensitive person and others he’s just a silly man acting like a teenager, he can be called many things and some he certainly is. He’s immature at times, unable to commit and unstable; serious and profound and intelligent and extremely insecure. He cannot believe what’s happening to him and he’s taking advantage of every minute while it lasts, cos he knows it’s not gonna last forever. So yes, he is a mix of contradictions but one thing he is not is a bad person. He is the best friend you can hope for and would give his life for those he cares for.
It is very sad to see how people make up some stories and assume things without even knowing him, again, he’s far from being perfect but he is not a bad man.

@doesn’tmatter: “He is the best friend you can hope for and would give his life for those he cares for” You act like you know him, I doubt it. If you do know him give specifics of his good deeds that can’t be found on the web.
Is he a bad man?….Yes, with women. That’s becoming quite clear.
Where there’s smoke there’s fire. Not all these stories about his gaming can be made up.

who knows @ 04/28/2009 at 1:52 am

@doesn’tmatter: At least he is living his life how he wants and not how all these critical people want him to live. I admire him for having the courage to be who he wants to be. How many can say that on this comment board? Not many I believe. Most of you are just jealous.

@who knows: You admire someone who has the “courage” to be a hedonistic sl*t. That’s the easy way out. Self control and self awareness are what take courage.

@anon: You obviously don’t know anything about him. You are a gossipmonger. Yes, I do admire him.

go over the the NY JJ - even more entertaining.LOL!

#284: I don’t know Gerry personally, but having read interviews and following his career for the past few years, I’ve come to the same conclusion as you. He is a dichotomy, who is at heart, a good person.

Swannie

who knows @ 04/28/2009 at 2:58 pm

@Swansong: Wow, you don’t even know him and you have come to a conclusion. Aren’t you special.

who knows @ 04/28/2009 at 4:49 pm

@Swansong: How would you feel if people(who don’t know you personally or maybe if they do know you) made conclusions on what sort of person you are. How rude and insensitive!

@stinkyL: where are you sister?

StinkyLouise @ 04/29/2009 at 9:30 pm

LOL! In the wrong thread. I thought this one died.

@stinkyL: these threads will never die..lol.
the other gossip sites don’t have the same salacious content as jj’s here.
ontd isn’t too bad- it’s funny for sure.
but perez hilton posters re: gb and ja are pretty lame; posters have no clue; makes for boring reading. yawn. i think i’ll stay over here at jj.

StinkyLouise @ 04/30/2009 at 11:18 pm

OOOOH! I love ONTD.Funny and witty.You’re right about the other gossip sites tho. If you want to get a first-hand look at one of G’s loonier fangirls in action, pop into the NYC is Neat thread. Holy sh*t.

aaaaaaaaaw it is taking so looooooooooooooooooooooooooong ! aggggggg i want to see it soooooo baaaaaaaad!

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