Gerard Butler: I Heart You!

If DMI is a teacher maybe she should learn the difference between aloud and allowed. She should also learn the difference between doing stuff with a boy your own age (experimentation) and doing stuff with a man 21 years older (illegal!!).
If he likes them so young maybe he should get an assistant to check their id’s before they get mauled by him.

Secret, If you were there, why didn’t you react?

# 104, the girl he said he wanted to take home with him was 13. I was there. I heard it. Maybe he said it to the 16 year old as well, I don’t know, but he DEFINITELY said it to the 13 year old. She was (is??) a member at the gerardbutler.net forum, and so is her mother, and I remember that she actually wanted to change her screen name to “take me home tart” or something like that.

To who knows; I DID react at the time but a lot of the other fans, the ones I was talking to, got almost angry with me and defended Gerry like he was their brother or something, saying I overreacted and so on. You don’t understand what it was like then, the tarts (gb fans) ADORED Gerry and he could do no wrong in their eyes. It was crazy.

The 13 year old girl, I think she was a redhead, was there with her mom who was also a huge Gerry fan. I remember her very well, there are pictures of her on gb.net and I can post them if I find them.
Anyway, Gerry was busy taking photos with other fans and signing autographs but we could all se how he was checking her out.
When it was her turn he said “wow, you look like a young Britney Spears! I think I’m gonna take you home!” Yes, maybe he was joking but he MUST have seen how very young she was and to say such a thing to a girl her age and when he himself was 36 years old, it was disturbing to say the least.
There was a lot of talk about it afterwards and some fans actually accused the girl for dressing “******” and making herself look older. Granted, she DID look older than 13 but she still looked incredibly young and definitely NOT someone Gerry’s age should be talking to in that manner.

I think he is gross and probably has some sort of sexual addiction or similar problem, but not because of this story. He was probably just trying to make her day. I am sure it was pretty obvious to him that she was there because of a crush on him, just like all the rest of the girls and ladies. I would take it with a grain of salt.

107 I might, I say might, agree with you if there weren’t so many other incidences of Gerry being pushy with young/teenage girls. And really, is it right to feed into a young girls fantasies in such an overt away? No matter how you want to interpret the story, he’s not right.

Meggie-

AMEN to that.

True or not his public persona is becoming one of leecher and predator. His reputation with women is bad. Typically, where there is smoke there is fire.

Lonewolf, it seems clear to me. The woman didn’t know who he was and thought he looked familair. He then told her how she might know him. She then saw him again. I’m sure she was sure about his identity after he introduced himself (he said what he was doing in Philly to give context to who he was) or after seeing all the coverage of LAC on the local news and in the media in Philly during the duration of the shoot. A lawyer friend passed on the story to the blogger. They were talking about Gerry in both instances. I think you are seeing inconsistencies that aren’t there. Maybe it’s just poorly written….

Why would the woman make a complaint to the director or anyone else? He didn’t assault her. He helped her with her groceries and said hello to her a few days later. She did what most women do when they are hit on by people they are not interested in — she declined and left it at that.

115 and 116-thanks for the input. True, she didnt have to complain due to fact nothing done, but I know some women who would have “run for help” because of a high fear thinking that all men are out to hurt them though most have offered help. But, many do let it slide. I would have.

And yes, the writing was confusing, I went back several time as a matter of fact…..trying t figure out what all was trying to be said. This is why I posted it here. As I often have said, dont belive what I hear/read, so I get clarification espically when I am reading something that I find in a sense confusing.

Again, thanks to the both of you for making more sense of the entry than what it came across as being.

Peace.

LW

Gerard once told a teenage fan that she had nice tits/breasts/boobs can’t remember which word he used. She was wearing a dress that was showing a lot of cleavage and he just looked down at her boobs and made the comment. She wrote about the meeting on the Internet movie database Gerard Butler message board and even showed a picture. Weird but I guess she was kinda proud of it.

@Swansong: Ok Mr./ Mrs. Swansong. I do know the difference between aloud and allowed. I was simply not in the mood to send another message just to correct one single word. I am sorry if your English is so impeccable and you have to bear those poor ordinary people who eventually make a mistake. But you know what? Who cares? And where did you learn to be SO polite? Too bad I didn’t express myself properly. Next time I’ll read twice what I type to avoid misspelling words and also to make sure I convey the right idea. :-) I said I don’t agree with his behavior. I never meant to say that he is not responsible for his attitude. On the contrary, not only is it illegal (as you said) but ridiculous and disgusting. Furthermore, even if the girl was 18 or 20, what sort of interest would they possibly have in common? What would they talk about, her grades at school? Of course not… he is not exactly interested in talking, is he? Can you imagine how pathetic he might have looked when kissing those girls? And concerning the point where you mention something about experimentation… just let me tell you this: Nowadays many teens start experimenting “things” at a very early age (unfortunately). By the time they turn 16/17, you have no idea what they have experimented. Believe me they don’t do things like that out of pure curiosity anymore (not at that age). That’s why I brought that up. I believe that those teenagers are not entirely unaware of what they are getting themselves into. But one thing is to say that those girls are not innocent. Something completely different is to contend that he is less guilty. Because he is not! He should be the second one to tell them to go home and do their homework! And I just say second because their parents are (or should be) the first ones to be there for them. That’s actually the reason why I questioned about these girls’ parents. Shouldn’t they be with them? And please, it is not necessary to be rude. I may not have expressed myself properly but I didn’t offend anybody.
Oh, yes, if you find any other mistake, let me know. I’ll be more than happy for having someone so dedicated to improving my English. :-) Thanks a lot!

Gerry to some fans at the Leno gathering:
‘So how long have you been here?’

Fans:
‘We’ve been here since 3 a m.’

Gerry:
‘Really? I was having sex at 3 a m.’

Yep. True story.

DMI-
There’s a big difference between sexually experienced and SOCIALLY experienced. SOME of these girls may know what there getting into sexually with a man ~ may even enjoy it~ but not the added social/emotional consequences, especially if Gerry strings girls along. Considering an older man is likely to have more money, resources and in this case fame than a boy, he could really mess with her head. {I would guess this is the same for gay boys dating older men.} Many kids are still experimenting (sexually and socially) at 16-17 and even into their twenties. In this case it would be experimenting with an older, famous man. Forget all this sh*t about the girl being innocent or not; it shouldn’t even be part of the conversation.