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Cher’s Daughter Undergoing Gender Reassignment Process

Cher’s Daughter Undergoing Gender Reassignment Process

Chastity Bono, daughter of Cher and the late Sonny Bono, is in the process of transitioning from a female to a male.

“Yes, it’s true — Chaz, after many years of consideration, has made the courageous decision to honor his true identity,” publicist Howard Bragman told TMZ of the gender reassignment surgery. “He is proud of his decision and grateful for the support and respect that has already been shown by his loved ones. It is Chaz’s hope that his choice to transition will open the hearts and minds of the public regarding this issue, just as his ‘coming out’ did nearly 20 years ago. We ask that the media respect Chaz’s privacy during this long process as he will not be doing any interviews at this time.”

Chastity started the process sometime in March following his 40th birthday.

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120 Comments

# 1

how terrifying, in this day and age to have to tell the whole world. kudos for being so brave :)

# 2
F u g F a c e M a n ! s t o n @ 06/11/2009 at 5:18 pm

get the fcuk outta here! ew.. damn, they’re some sick fcuks out there. celebrity kids stay fcuked up in the head.
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chastity to chaz?! hahahaha.. this is like a bad tv show.

# 3
anonymous @ 06/11/2009 at 5:19 pm

Ick. Just ick!!!

# 4

Since HER brother Elijah Blue is also gay, I wonder if HE will get the opposite surgery to become a girl ? At least then, Cher will still have a son AND a daughter.

# 5

And Elijah Blue can donate his unwanted p e n i s to his new brother to be !

# 6

I don’t think good ole “chaz” will have to worry about being asked for an interview. No one would touch this “story” with a ten foot clown pole.

# 7

Really? Elijah Blue is also gay? Guess that’s what hapens when your mom’s a gay icon.

# 9

I think it’s really courageous. Good Luck!!!!!!!!

snip snip…..off with the floppy cans……slop… fill in the sink hole…… stitch stitch.. on with pump-up wang……massive doses of testosterone…. done

WOW! Talk about haters. Good for her! At least she is doing something that will make her more comfortable. Who are all of you to judge?

Daahhh Timmah @ 06/11/2009 at 5:40 pm

Is the surgery being performed pro-Bono?…… dahh

interviews? that’s silly.

Chasity is still a SHE and even afterwards…is still a SHE. No medical changes, etc,…can change the fact.

Does this mean she will get a p e n i s, grow hair all over, voice changing…..etc….???

Even if she does….it’s still a SHE. DNA does not change

The pregnant man now has two kids. Once a woman, always a woman….it doesn’t matter how much you contort, distort and reassign. You are what you are. I cannot think of Chastity Bono as a man after so long. So stop with the his privacy and his courage. She is a woman!!

I know this will sound closed minded but I don’t care. I understand the gay thing but I really don’t get the whole sex change thing. Something is really wrong with people if they want to cut off their ***** or create a *****. I mean, why? Why can’t she just be a lesbian? Good for him if it makes him happy but I can’t help but wonder if he’s gonna regret it later. The pregnant man really trips me out.

I feel really bad for Cher and I’m sure Sonny wouldn’t even want to be around for this. Cher’s son is gay as well? Is that true? This is really beyond my understanding. on another site, they said Chasity wants to “educate” us about this, I don’t want to be “educated” . This whole “gay” agenda is getting more perverted by the minute.

interview “him” about what? this is just a grab for attention. seems being a decent citizen and just getting on with things is not enough for these media hungry sados.

I guess you can get a little confused when you grow up in a glass pyramid.

Saw her on one of the weight loss shows a couple of years back. She already is half way there, she has the build of a middle-aged male truck driver.

I’d pay good money to see her interviewed when she grows her first moustache and beard.

“”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"Once a woman, always a woman….it doesn’t matter how much you contort, distort and reassign. You are what you are. I cannot think of Chastity Bono as a man after so long. So stop with the his privacy and his courage. She is a woman!!”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”

I agree. God doesn’t make junk and God doesn’t make mistakes.

shaCHEER11 @ 06/11/2009 at 6:02 pm

you know i like respect gay rights and all that crap but this is just ick. i mean, once a woman always a women. you were made a women for a reason. im just really grossed out by this

I guess the tabs were obsessing on Brad/Angie and Jon/Kate.. they missed this big time. Funny the news is happening all around, yet the tabs keep printing the same old same old stories..

LMAO.. I am just speachless

Pardon my ignorance, but what exactly does gender reassignment mean? Is she going to have her breasts removed and a ***** graphed on or will she just identify as male?

She looks like a blonde Rosie O’Donnell.

Where do you buy one of those pump-up dickies ?

Liverwurst @ 06/11/2009 at 6:10 pm

As I understand it Chaz feels she/he isn’t gay but just the wrong gender.

the ghost of sonny @ 06/11/2009 at 6:13 pm

jeeez.,…… now this piece of news is enough to make a parent want to ski into a tree….

Another one bites the dust! @ 06/11/2009 at 6:14 pm

Just what we need in the world….another SHIM!

You go on a date nowadays and you literallly have to have a damn DNA test. You change your sexuality they change the birth certificate.

This is what troubles me about the gay community. If you are a woman and like women why dress and act like a man. If you are a man and like men why dress in drag and act feminine. Hypocrital lfestyle. This is why some people have a hard time embracing homosexuality. It seems more of a lifestyle choice than something you are born into. Makes no sense.

Sad thing is…I seriously doubt this gender assignment surgery will change her love life. If she lost about 200 pounds there may be hope.

@Liverwurst:

She has had only female lovers. That makes her a lesbian.

I don’t know why people are giving her props for wanting to become a frickin’ man! It’s PERPOSTEROUS! She’s on crack for wanting to do something so dramatic. I don’t condone it one bit!

i love you even more. I am praying for a quick recovery!

They seriously f*cked up those kids

Liza @ 06/11/2009 at 6:05 pm

Pardon my ignorance, but what exactly does gender reassignment mean? Is she going to have her breasts removed and a ***** graphed on or will she just identify as male?
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A psychiatrist evaluates the patient. If appropriate, the doctor prescribes male hormones. The hormones change the body makeup, which includes hair growth. The clitoris also grows larger. You start to look more like a man.

hen there is removal of b*reasts. most states will recognize the person as a male once this occurs. A hysterectomy can also be performed during this process.

This process can take several years, while the patient is taking hormones. Most people stop at this point.

if the patient goes forward, the surgeon often makes a small male member . I’ll spare you the details of THAT surgery. This information was found elsewhere on the internet.
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I’m not sure how this will work. Will he have a working piece or a rubber thing

i support gays and lesbians
but i refuse 2 support trannies
it’s just totally wrong imo
stick 2 what u were given

I think I just threw up a little in my mouth after reading this. THIS IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR PEOPLE!!!

wow just wow..not sure what to think about this…

sick lezbo @ 06/11/2009 at 7:31 pm

It seems more of a lifestyle choice than something you are born into.This is why the sick ass gay comunity is not accepted there perverse and sick ass holes. Youll allways be a women chaz your mom is sick she screws everything with pants on your brother sick too the whole family is possed.

…and people when want to act like I’m an a**hole when I say they need to take a sociology, gender/sexuality, or anthropology course.

shoe)freak @ 06/11/2009 at 7:40 pm

you are all f*cking twats you know that, why the hell should you care what she/he does it doesnt affect your life. i hope all you homophobic ass holes die soon.

Will she still have monthly periods? If so, she will remain a woman. Celeb kids are so screwed up.

CANDYWOMAN @ 06/11/2009 at 7:58 pm

OMG. HER TRUE IDENTITY IS FEMALE.

I can’t get past the “He is “, “He will” part to even consider the rest

TWISTED!!!!!!

Plain and simple………God and Nature are supreme Intelligences.

Chastity has some extreme mental problems.

She’s just looking for some attention.

arugularose @ 06/11/2009 at 8:06 pm

This is a very brave step. I am sending my best wishes that everything goes smoothly and that Chaz gets the support he needs.

She is seriously mentally ill!

Well, so instead of having a lesbian daughter she’s going to have a straight son! LOL I guess all those years of therapy over having a gay child were for naught. hehehehe!

Gay is not the issue. Chaz is not gay, he was just born the wrong sex. Talk about a mis diagnosis. hehehe

She’s just screwed up and nothing will make her happy.

God didn’t make a mistake…the girl has mental illness. Did Cher ever make her work a day in her life?

Or did she coddle her?

Most psychiatrists are as f*cked up as can be.

Hetero Female
v
Lesbian
v
Butch Lesbian
v
Transgender Lesbian
v
Transgender Hetero
v
next ?????? Bi-sexual Transgender ????
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wait,…. wasn’t this on Southpark?

wasn’t this on SouthPark ?

ignorance_is_your_biatch @ 06/11/2009 at 8:25 pm

OMG I am reading so many retarded comments I cannot even start to reply to all of them. America is full of double moralists and ignorants! Most of the people who worries about these people (who they don’t even know, by the way) are doing with THEIR lives probably have a lot of s**t to care about on theirs before starting to critisize. I hope you have a gay or lesbian child so you’ll have to go through it, if you consider it so wrong. Will you kill them? Send them to some kind of “rehab” camp for “sick” people? Your OWN children? Look inside yourselves, probably you’re more repressed than what you think. And I say this as an straigh woman. Equal rights for everyone, whatever they want to be. This woman doesn’t even want to dress like a man, or is a tomboy lesbian, she FEELS like a man. You have no idea about what you’re talking about.

I really hope that God you believe so much in doesn’t make a mistake with you all and send you to heaven because with those things that come out of your mouths you deserve to ************. At least these people are not hurting anyone with their lives, you and your close minds are making the humanity and the world a living hell.

ignorance_is_your_biatch @ 06/11/2009 at 8:28 pm

****** to b u r n i n h e l l ?? Really, Justjared? Like the most offesive thing being said here was that, wtf is wrong with this?

to ignorance………

You are a hypocrite! People can believe that is weird behavior. You want everyone to think like your twisted mind. You think you are open-minded and cool. Well you are just a perverted soul!

Sad. She thinks her life has been tough up until now. She has no idea how tough her life is going to be. I feel sorry for her.

–she can do as she pleases and I can too, and voice my opinion, and say —-bizarre,unnatural

Maybe gender re-assignment will become the next fad.

How about it all those in favor of what she’s doing.

Lining up anyone?

She’ll end up in a mental hospital or worse.

You Americans should stop worrying about other people and look after YOURSELVES…..thats why Americans are so fat.

Mind your business. Chaz doesn’t care what you commoners think…Chaz isn’t asking from accpetance from low-lives who spend their day reading about celebrities.

I hate to break it to some of you, but nobody cares what you think.

–she can do as she pleases and I can too, and voice my opinion, and say —-bizarre,unnatural

THERE ARE MANY THINGS THAT ARE “UNNATURAL”, *****. BUT IM SURE YOU HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THEM DO YOU?

This is the part I don’t get, so forgive me:
If a woman wants to be with another woman, why would that same woman want to be with a woman who is now considered a man?
What’s wrong with this picture?

No one said she can’t do what she wants…..just that it is WEIRD and PERVERTED!

Maybe her defenders are entertaining some gender reassignments. LOL!!!!!!!!!!

I love pissing off freaks bwahaaaaaaaaaaa

Freak Brigade to the rescue!!!! . I knew it was only a matter of time.

She can graft a Zebra wang onto her forehead for all I care. I don’t care about her or her washed up mommy. You supporters all ask why should people care? There, I don’t give a rats ****. Cut off your boobs, bury them right side up and next to each other and use them as a bike stand. See, don’t care.

@Denise:

Amen. It’s called free speech, and we are allowed to say and think whatever we want. I agree; it’s weird, it’s unnatural, and it doesn’t change anything. She’ll still be a woman, no matter what.

Seems like she’s always grandstanding for a cause. Like someone said above, she’s looking for attention. I’d have to agree. It could lie in her inability to even approach the fame of her parents. good luck ?

Could be nothing more than a publicity stunt ………or she may have struck out in the lesbian scene and with her past and lack of womanly qualities never have a chance in the heterosexual world.

I guess she should evoke our pity more than anything else.

I think she feels like a freak of nature and can’t find where she belongs.

I wish Chaz must happiness in his new life. He deserves it.
NOBODY makes a decision like this “just because they are sick”., you fools. This is righting a wrong.

Lillianne @ 06/11/2009 at 9:50 pm

I don’t understand transgender. But it’s such a drastic decision to make that there must be something to it that we can’t know unless we live it. Since it doesn’t affect my life in any way I would have to say good luck and God bless. I hope you will be happy.

Cher’s son isn’t gay. He was on the Howard Stern show in 2006 where he mentioned he slept with Paris Hilton and dated Nicole Richie.

As for Chaz, I wish him the best of luck in the future. None of you have spent a day in his shoes, so who are you to judge?

eekomeeter @ 06/11/2009 at 9:59 pm

someone on Twitter wrote “Chas is taking the ‘tity’ out of her name…brilliant!

whatever ….anything goes…but I’m not calling her, him

“It is Chaz’s hope that his choice to transition will open the hearts and minds of the public regarding this issue”
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It’s a free country. Live your life. Hope you’re happy. BUT DON”T force it down my throat. That is why this quote is bothersome, especially her personal choice as an “issue” . Oh Brother.. I see a future Transgender activist.

I’m confused. Does this mean she’ll still be a lesbian.

Cher’s son is not gay. The person who posted that was using that as an argument against gays. And all of you ignorant morons fell so easily to a lie, just cause C>B is doing something that you don’t understand. You don’t just go to adoc and request the op, you have to go through years of continual phycological tests etc. And I am also a straight female, just not so self-righteous as the rest of you and not
judgemental esp when I or any of you do not know this person.
Oh and grow up with the fat jokes, I think she knows she is overweight!!!!

ignorance_is_your_biatch @ 06/11/2009 at 10:32 pm

@jupi3

You can think whatever you want. You can consider it wrong, but you cannot be OFFENSIVE, which is what most of people it is. You might consider it unnatural, but it’s not a sickness, is a mental condition and it is there since birth! It was probably not her choice. What I don’t understand is why you people cannot understand that those things are not chosen, they just happen. I don’t think I’m open-minded and “cool”, I’m just trying to be emphatic. To be born in a body that doesn’t feel like yours… shouldn’t be cool. Why can’t she go for her happiness? Maybe she’s doing the worst mistake of her live but who are we to judge? You go for your happiness the way you want it, following your faith or whatever you do, she does it the way she wants it. And still, she’s not hurting anyone!!!!!!

And I don’t think I’m twist-minded and perverted, but if being tolerant is that, then I guess I am!!!!!!

Michael Jackson @ 06/11/2009 at 10:35 pm

I’m a child locked inside a white woman imprisoned within a black man. I understand Chaaaz.. Teehee !

I saw HER on that weight loss program (sorry, can’t remember the name) and she was the sweetest. Seemed more like she had self-esteem issues and being over-weight can give one a bad self image.

I really liked her, but if she doesn’t like herself, I don’t think changing her gender is going to help that much.

Having said that, I think most of us are at a loss on this subject. It just keeps getting more twisted.

I refuse to go along with this little pretend game, gays have going. That gay is NORMAL. Congratulating Wanda Sykes and her “wife” giving birth to “their” children. Calling Chasity Bono, him. I refuse, our kids will grow up so confused! what is the purpose of all this, to totally destroy the moral fabric of this nation? Is it an attack on God and religion, so they can “sue” our churches. I’m not sure where all this behavior is headed but I sure know its not good.

Ugh, this post was bound to bring out the hateful side in people. Why are people judging him so harshly? As long as it doesn’t harm anyone else, everyone deserves to be live in peace and be happy. I hope this process makes him happy.

F u g F a c e M a n ! s t o n @ 06/11/2009 at 11:12 pm

watch out, those brangelina kids are next.

After, Chastity has the surgery, and becomes Chaz, discussing his/her “split ends” will take on a whole new meaning!

Who are you to judge the life she wants to live? People make their OWN decisions. If she wants to be changed into a he then allow her to do it. Don’t make rude comments about how it’s sick and what not. It’s natural for a woman to feel out of place in her own body. Sometimes it seems we were suppose to be born in a different body. And don’t go saying “If God wanted her a man then he would have built her that way.” Well apparently he did, look at her. She does look manly, but she is still beautiful or handsome however you want to put it. Every human in this world is beautiful. Have any of you not learned anything from being in alive these days? At least she isn’t insecure to say she wants a sex change or she is gay. I think most of you commenting here is only saying these harsh things because your insecure yourself, so you have to down on everyone else just to make you feel better. I give her props on wanting to do this. It takes courage. Can’t wait to see the new Chaz :] Hope all goes well. Don’t let others bring you down.

You can chop off or add on any body part thru cosmetic surgery, but that does not change your sex or gender. So if a woman has breast cancer and has a double masectomy she is no longer a woman?

Years from now, gender re-assignment is going to be considered as brutal and barbaric as the castration of thousands of choir boys which was considered normal in the middle ages……

We should not be messing with nature.

Poor thing. Cher must have been quite the mother.

I’m a little shpcked and sickened that in 2009 people still say something like this is “crazy” or “sick”.. come the eff on! We have much bigger problems and people are people, let them be happy how they want to be happy. So long as a person isn’t hurting anyone else they should be allowed to live their life as they want to.

Imagine never feeling comfortable or right by simply being in your own skin? I can’t imagine it feels good.

Times are progressing and if there is a God I’m sure even he/she understands times have changed and that he.she is more open minded then some of you pea brains!

I hope this brings peace and happiness to Chastity :)

Very courageous. I wish Chaz and family all the best!

everyone on here seems so closed minded. Watch the movie “She’s a boy I knew” and understand some people are born the wrong gender.
Then they live their whole life in fear and in secreat. They end up getting married and misrepresenting their true self to the one they married.
Is it really fair and right for someone to live their life unhappy, unloved, and pretending to be someone they are not?

I am not surprised
having cher for a mother would screw up anybody!

she doesn’t need surgery, she needs a shrink

how is this going to change her sex life
who wants to be with a guy who was a woman before

I will never understand the attraction of same sex partners, however, I do believe that people can (and are) born with genes or hormones inside that may not be reflective of outside appearance. Since I am not professionally versed in this, I will just say that things can go wrong.
Look at the thousands of birth defects that we have every day. Look at the millions of children born with mental or physical disabilities. Look at the complexities of the body in that if ONE little thing goes wrong in the very complicated human computer in the body, it can throw off everything else —physically and emotionally.
I believe that in the majority of cases, homosexuals are born, not made, however, there are some who ‘choose’ to live that life style. Are gays mistakes? In MY OPINION, G-d made man and woman to be together, not woman and woman or man and man. However, with that said, I also believe that very odd things can happen with genes and hormones in the conception process and that some people may not be on the inside what they appear to be on the outside. Perhaps that is the case for Chastity.

i dont see why anyone comes on here and says all the nasty things you do in comments. its not up to you what these people do with their lives. if it makes them happy, who on earth are you to judge?

Good for her to come out in these days with such harsh people for a gender change. Good for you Chaz. Be happy..

Real men don’t have babies!! That was a woman that had babies not a man. Apparently she wasn’t so ready to become a ‘man’ or she wouldn’t have left her uterus.

Good Luck Chaz. Good Lord, by now you, your brother and your Mom know to tune this crap out, I hope. Surgeries at 40 can be rough, take care of yourself, I’ll pray that things go well for you and your family.

liverwurst @ 06/12/2009 at 8:47 am

@wrong: you’re stupid.

Poor Cher…. must be hard

The time is coming when parents will be notified of the “gay” gene, just as they are other disabilities. This problem will eliminate itself. How many parents are gonna want a gay kid, they will abort them right along with the other “mistakes” Now that’s KARMA! don’t mess with mother nature.

She’s making a big mistake and once she’s made it there will be no going back. I say, she should lose the weight and live her life as a happy lesbian just as Ellen, Jodie, Melissa and many many others.

Perez is reporting that Chasity is brilliant because she can have legally have her gender changed and marry her partner. Yea, all you fools out there: have your boobs cut off and change your ****** into a ***** and your brilliant self can get married.

homosexuality was once considered to be a mental disorder, it appears that the original thinking on this was probably the correct one.

While I’m sure in the new Obamacare plan, overweight people will not receive health care bacause they caused their own problems. However I’ll bet money anything to do with gays, aids, stds, gender reasignment will all be a “right” in the re-making of America as a homonation.

She seemed like a nice enough little kid back in the day. What happened? Too much hollyweirdness in her upbringing? Sigh.

I’M SORRY BUT THE WORLD HAS BECOME A BIT TOO FREE

I’M SHOCKED THAT DOCTORS EVEN PERFORM THIS KIND OF SURGERY

IF YOUR BORN A WOMEN, GOD INTENDED YOU TO BE A WOMEN

THE ONLY REASON I COULD JUSTIFY THIS KIND OF SURGERY IS FOR SOMEONE WHO WAS BORN WITH EITHER TWO GENITALS OR NONE, THUS ACTUALLY NEEDING THE SURGERY.

CHER DID A VERY BAD JOB RAISING HER CHILDREN

How sad! Chastity was born with very attractive features. She must be taking steroids. I think she’s made herself look hideously dykish.
She looks like an obese, dykish, extremely unattractive woman.
After the gender change, she’ll look even worse. In her picture from 10
years ago, she looks feminine and attractive. Why do gay people
make themselves look so ugly?

Robby rob rob @ 06/13/2009 at 5:27 am

The world has become very screwy…there is more wrong with our race than we (you) generally believe

WHAT A BUNCH OF SICKOS…I AM GLAD THEY DON’T LIVE IN MY STATE…..HOLLYWOOD PRODUCES SICKOS, DRUG TAKING IDIOTS AND MISFITS…THEN THEY GO ON TALK SHOWS LIKE ‘OPRAH’ AND WANT EVERYBODY TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM (BOO HOO)!!!!!

TO SHOEFREAK, CAN’T WAIT TILL YOU CROAK THEN WE ALL CAN SPIT ON YOUR GRAVE–YOU CANCER ON SOCIETY

people are in need of real health care, not to make them feel like they are in the right bodies (Most would’nt mind which body they are in) to stay alive. Treatable illness like childhood hodskings, that are not treated because of the lack of money. Diabetics who only take 1/2 so they always have some. Kids dieing while the self obsessed decide to spend a fortune pretending to be mommies or daddies. It’s just egoism run amoke. and money wasted while others die.

do u realize what a difficult decision this must have been for chastity? the pain and the years of surgeries? she obviously never felt comfortable in her own skin and wants to live her life the way she was meant to. stop judging others and have sympathy and respect.

do u realize what a difficult decision this must have been for chastity? the pain and the years of surgeries? she obviously never felt comfortable in her own skin and wants to live her life the way she was meant to. stop judging others and have sympathy and respect.

i don’t understand trangenderism; it boggles my brain. why would a woman want to change her outward appearance, to ‘look’ more like a man? (or vise versa) surely, being a butch **** would satisfy her INNER self, if she has a need to ‘look’ more like a man. why does she need to FUNCTION like a man? Do they have artificial peens attached? or do they just use strap-ons? and if they DO just use strap-ons, wouldn’t being a woman without boosoms be adequate enough for them to be able to act more like a man?…even ‘feel’ more like a man?

i admit it! i’m very niave. but i just CAN’T understand, for the life of me, why somebody who has been recognised as female since she was born , and who has LOOKED like a female (albeit, increasingly ‘dykie’, since she was a young adult) all her life, and is not ‘attracted’ to men - would want to BE one. i get the ‘mixed up hormones, since birth’ thing; i even accept that some lesbians prefer to be manlike dykes, but i don’t get THIS.

having said that, i must congratulate chaz on his brave decision to do SOMETHING about his quandry. a surgical and artificial change of gender is not to be sneezed at, it’s months, years of ’sex-changing’ drugs, culminating in the very complex surgery of ‘re-allignment’ of the sex organs. i wish somebody could explain the pschycology of it, because although chaz is finally going to become his ‘true’ self, and be more at peace with himself - there are going to be a host of many ‘ordinary’ people who are totally bamboozled and perplexedby this very public, inyaface ‘coming out’.

i must do some research on the subject. i would welcome a psychco-social explanation of this really interesting phenomenon. chaz could be a great spokesperson for the transgendered people of the world, he could explain the rough road of the ‘person in the wrong body’ syndrome to us very well., educate us about the special loneliness of being locked in the wrong body. (i can see a best seller coming out of this!) it’s said that ignorance breeds fear, but the publics fears can be allayed with some simple, but informative explanation.

i do wonder how cher, the gay icon, feels about this whole senario. did she unwittingly play a role in this dilemna of chaz? or is it, as they say, just another freak of nature? chastity was such a cutie pie of a young girl; i suspect that ‘chaz’ could tell a few hair raising tales about his walk through life, and his sadness and confusion must run very deep. but i suspect one thing, after reading all these comments re his decision! he will always be seen as a woman by a lot of ‘normal’, everyday people - regardless of all his ‘re-allignment’ and changed persona. but the best of luck to chaz - just because a lot of people don’t understand it, it’s not necessarily wrong. it’s possible, it’s been done before, and anyway, he’s not hurting a soul. well, maybe his mother and brother, but i think they”ll learn to live with it. they’ll have to!

This is disturbing on so many levels. You know that when you name your child Chastity its obviously going to end up all weird.

i think that rejecting her nature is only going to cause her more problems than the ones she already has. it’s true that we´re nobody to judge but we have to start recognising what’s wrong or right and this girl is making a mistake and the only thing we can do is to pray for her and her mom. Because one thing is loving you daughter and another one is letting her do what she thinks its right or good for her… sorry for my english i’m mexican

@Another one bites the dust!:
LOL. haters are amazinggggggggg. So these people on here who supposeably feel as though they “support gay right and cannot support his decision means ur a complete bullshitter. Hence- LGBT DO U NOT KNOW WHAT THE “T” STANDS FOR U NITWIT? GAY LESBIAN BISEXUAL AND TRANGENDER. if u say u agree with gay rights then please get your facts straight and know what your saying you agree with because chaz is transgender therefore, a part of the gay rights movement. Oh and by the way, i came out the same time as him. Chaz wasted a lot of years not being his true self and spent most of the time making a difference with the power he was given through his parents. Most likely a lot more positive changes in peoples lives through the WORLD than you have, and most likely ever will with your remarks. Shows your true colors and it’s not a good way to be when if one day a close loved one of yours goes through something similiar to what you see know chaz is going through and that would make you going through it right there with that person. Youd obviously be one of those people to put people who are trans to death. There you go, put someone you love to death and then live with it. I hope one day your put in the situation where you have to feel that. You need it.

The ignorance here is excusable, the idiocy, hatred and cruelty not.

Things you weren’t taught at school - there’s a thing called Intersex.

Meaning a body neither wholly male, nor wholly female. And technically, one person in 60 is Intersexed in one way or another, though it might take a lab test to show that.

Obvious Intersex conditions lead to obviously ambiguous bodies, where when the child is born the docs have no idea what sex to label the child.

Not-so-obvious ones like CAH or De La Chapelle syndrome result in men with the 46xx chromosomes normally only found in women. Or CAIS or Turner syndrome women with the 46xy chromosomes normally only found in men. Or men and (rarely) women with Kleinfelter syndrome, 47xxy chromosomes. Some of the men have fathered children. Some of the women have given birth.

There’s even people with 5ARD or 17BHDD syndromes, who look female at birth, but get a “natural sex change” and masculinise later in life. Quite normal in species such as Clownfish and Groupers, rare in humans though. But yes, it happens.

Chromosomes are not a reliable guide to sex, just a really good indicator, right most of the time. Not all. Nothing magical about them.

Until recently we didn’t know just how different male and female brains were. But autopsies show distinct differences, even at the cellular level. fMRI images show that there’s large differences in the way men and women think. Not news to those who have read “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, but now we have the proof, and even know why.

Transsexuality is a form of Intersex - though until quite recently, we weren’t sure of this, and (like stomach ulcers) was originally thought to be the result of a mental illness. Now we know the Helicobacter organism is responsible for ulcers, and that Transsexuality is a congenital anomaly, like having a cleft palate.

I’m over-simplifying, but it’s caused by something going slightly wrong in the womb. The brain develops along one line, say male, the rest of the body (to a greater or lesser degree) along another line, say female.

Chaz thinks, feels, smells and hears like a man. And that’s different from the way women think, feel, smell and hear. This isn’t a matter of opinion, it’s a matter of observable fact, determinable by experiment.

As was said in an article in ArtzeZeitung, the German Physician’s Journal : “Radiologists can now confirm what transsexuals report - that they feel “trapped in the wrong body” - on the basis of the activation of the brain when presented with erotic stimuli. There is obviously a biological correlation with the subjective feelings.”

We still are not completely sure why a male-pattern brain always leads to a male gender identity. We have some good theories, but apart from observing the fact that it always does, no exceptions, this is an area we don’t know much about.

What it means though is that Chaz is a man. And was a boy when he was young, no matter what he looked like. No matter what he looks like now.

Transsexuality is hideously uncomfortable. Imagine if you woke up with a body that looked like your boyfriend? About half suicide, yes it *does* feel that bad, perverse, awful, and terribly terribly *wrong*.

Trying to cure this with psychotherapy is like trying to cure a cleft palate through psychotherapy. You may be able to make the patient more comfortable with their condition, but that’s about it, and you won’t do anything about the underlying physical cause.

God may not make mistakes, but if not, he intends some babies to be born with no eyes, or malformed hearts, or cleft palates, or transsexuality.

Just as we can cure someone with a cleft palate by surgical reconstruction - even if it’s not perfect - we can change a transsexual person’s body to match their brain. Changing the brain is beyond us, like trying to mend a computer with a flint axe. There are also ethical problems, you’d be essentially killing the old person and making a new one from the remains, just to make other people feel more comfortable about the situation.

For women, hormones don’t do much,. but surgery works well. For men, hormones work brilliantly, but the surgery is imperfect. Many guys don’t like the $120,000 price and 30% success rate. They opt for breast reduction surgery (as do men with gynacamastea), and possibly a hysterectomy and metoidaplasty. Male hormones cause things to grow, you see. Maybe as big as your thumb. Some don’t see the need, and it’s a pretty private matter that others have no right to know.

This stuff isn’t taught in high school. It’s not even taught much in med school - I know, I’ve been called on to lecture to medical and psych students on the subject. Ignorance of it is understandable.

The bigotry, the hatred, the malice and spite, the insults and invective - less so. No matter what sex or gender or shape or colour you are, work on being decent human beings first and foremost, OK?

@James:

What God made is GOOD and no one has the right to alter…..
FREEDOM of choice is the renaming of SIN…

hbabe65@aol.com @ 10/31/2009 at 8:22 pm

from a pretty little girl to a fat ugly man…

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