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Chastity Bono & Jennifer Elia: Wellness Couple

Chastity Bono & Jennifer Elia: Wellness Couple

Chastity Bono, who is in the process of transitioning from a female to a male, is spotted out and about Los Angeles with girlfriend Jennifer Elia on Monday (June 15).

On Tuesday (June 16), the 40-year-old daughter of Cher, who wants to become Chaz Bono, was also spotted entering a personalized wellness center.

GLAAD recently released a statement “both for him personally and for all who are committed to advancing discussions about fairness and equality for transgender people.”

The news of Chaz’s gender reassignment process broke last week.

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83 Comments

# 1

“Wellness Center”…. let me save you the time. You’re not well

# 2

“Wellness Center”…let me save you the time. You’re not well.

# 3

she looks like a man already

# 4
F u g F a c e M a n ! s t o n @ 06/16/2009 at 3:49 pm

disgusting. these people are nuts

# 5

Bizarro!

Or maybe this will set off a new fad. Gender change………..sound good?

Maybe this will be the next “in” thing after the gay/lesbian fad.

What do ya think? Anybody else game?

Remember “ANYTHING GOES” is the modern day motto.

# 6

Sorry Chastity i know that Cher and Sono are your parents but you look like fat cow..

# 7

maybe it’s because she has no male role models in her life as of late. probably thinks it’s easier if her kid has a mom & daddy so she’s making the change. i find it hard to believe that she spent all those yrs as a woman and now wants to be a man. did she not know from a young age?

# 8

Does that make Jennifer a lesbian or is she straight since Chaz is becoming a guy????

# 9

Anybody else lining up for a gender change?

A credible surgeon would not do surgery at her weight unless it was emergency surgery.

Not being fully mean when I say it. 1St surgery should be gastric bypass (i had it). Bet she would see the entire world/transgender thing diff, cause you do.

I mean no harm.

@boo: You are a total idiot!!! This has nothing to do with not having a “male role model” whatever the heck that means!!

Yes, Chaz has known since a very young age that he was not a woman but it takes a lot of thought over a lot of time to decide to change your gender. I say, good for Chaz and I hope he and his girlfriend friend remain happy and healthy.

sassenach @ 06/16/2009 at 4:21 pm

Chaz needs to lose some damn weight! No surgeon should perform any kind of surgery until he/she loses about 50-60 pounds!!!

TRANSGENDER OR WHAT @ 06/16/2009 at 4:24 pm

So if she has a baby when she is half a man ..lower part can she legally be the second man to have a baby.. Why not if the pregnant
man is ‘LEGALLY A MAN BIRTH CERTIFICATE AND ALL’ WHY NOT
WHEN PREGNANT MAN WAS BORN A WOMAN.. CHANGING BIRTH
CERTIFICATES NOW IS THAT WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO
CHASITY.. CHANGE HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE FROM CHASITY BONO
FEMALE TO CHAZ BONO MALE

i don’t agree with what she is doing, but it is none of my business, she did not ask for my opinion and i won’t be mean because i have children and karma is horrible, i just think that she needs prayer. and i will pray for this entire world, that’s all.

Wow…lookin a little bull dykish Chaz

Dang. Theres some nasty trolls commenting here. Good for him! You should live as you please.

Chris Farley?

BTW Cher has a fantastic figure for her age. What happend to Chaz.

In my opinion, that is a sin. Not be happy with what the Lord wanted you to be since being conceived. God Bless this World!!!

Chaz, please lose some weight. It is unhealth to be your size. You’re 40 years old and it just gets harder and harder to shed the weight. Other than that, be happy. Best of luck.

Changing her gender won’t make her happy. She has a mental disturbance.

Someday, some lifetime she’ll get herself straightened out.

Anybody on here going in for the next big fad?

I hate to be so “uneducated” but this whole gay thing is getting quite confusing.

I liked Chasity from what I saw of her on the weight loss show, I thought she was a neat person. To bad, Chasity doesn’t like herself.

I wonder that took her/he so long to decided to do the transition.

#15,,,Why does people having differing opinions have to be a trolls. You are ridiculous.

In my opinion, that is a sin. Not be happy with what the Lord wanted you to be since being conceived. God Bless this World!!!”
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You stupid idiot, how about children who were born with holes in their hearts? How about people who were born mentally retarded? How about conjoined twins?

Isn’t that the way God created them too? So they shouldn’t fix their holed hearts, take medication/therapy for their autism? Surgically remove themselves from the conjoined twins?

Why are we “Christians” often times stupid and hypocritical? It seems as if some of us are of below average IQ. I am a Christian and I wish Bono the best of luck.

looks like a trucker coming out of a truck stop place

looks like a trucker coming out of a truck stop place

She might want to consider bypass surgery to go along w/ her ‘new’ body

You’re the Creator of your own Destiny, so haterz keep it on the down low. May God be watching over her head while on transformation. God bless you all, even the haters out there.

In my opinion, that is a sin. Not be happy with what the Lord wanted you to be since being conceived. God Bless this World!!!”
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There are many sins, but you probably ignore them because you’d be faced with the reality that you aren’t really a Christian and go against the bible..you just hide your stupidity behind religion.

For example; Pre-Marital Sex. (See: All of Hollywood)…Go on Zac and Vanessa’s posts and call them sinners…they have sex with one another.

Brad and Angelina having children out of wedlock. They are “sinners”. Why don’t you add your sinners comment on their thread?

moron.

@idiots: Whose the idiot? Theres a big difference between being born with a hole in your heart and chopping off your breast and having your ****** turned into a *****! Wouldn’t be commenting on anyone else’s IQ.

jjst

Unless you’re God (and it sounds like you think you are) you should hush up.

Are you going in for a gender change? It’s the next big fad after gay and lesbianism.

each there own but she is disgusting. u should be ashamed of your self getting that huge.

mslewis @ 06/16/2009 at 4:10 pm

@boo: You are a total idiot!!! This has nothing to do with not having a “male role model” whatever the heck that means!!

Yes, Chaz has known since a very young age that he was not a woman but it takes a lot of thought over a lot of time to decide to change your gender. I say, good for Chaz and I hope he and his girlfriend friend remain happy and healthy.
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Okie Dokie. So she’s known at a young age? Says who? Because she once mentioned on tv that she wanted to be a football player when she was a kid? Well heck , then all tomboys would be transgendered eh? NOT! If she KNEW at a young age why did she come out OVER 20 years ago as a LESBIAN? At no time did she mention she ‘felt like a man all her life’. Transgendered and lesbian are not even REMOTELY the same. Sounds like she’s one confused WOMAN.

On the other hand what does this make her partner? She claims she’s ok with Chasitity having the surgery and becoming a man. So now the OTHER Lesbian likes MEN? Just think of YOUR husband deciding that he wanted to be a woman; would YOUR relationship be the same? Would that be ok with YOU? What the heck is this?! Maybe she’s Bisexual and not Lesbian. Sound like BOTH of them are confused.

I agree with some others, Chasitity should be thinking more about her HEALTH. She is overweight and hormones will only add the pounds. She obviously has esteem issues, with Cher as a mother I wouldn’t be surprised if some of this has to do with her relationship with her mother. What were the chances of her getting a MALE date when she was a teenager that was interested in HER and not her mother? People are sometimes shaped by their environment. Smarter people than I am have said that.

In any event I guess the doctors who decided she was ready for sexual reassignment glossed out whatever deep-seated problems she might have. This is just a confusing evolution. It’s not like a woman who comes out the first time and says she has always felt like a male. This is a 40 year old woman who first said she was lesbian over 20 years ago. if she didn’t know what she was THEN , why should anyone believe that she knows what she is NOW? Anyway, it’s her life, messed up as it is.

some of you people…
just so ignorant. it’s really very, very sad.

best of luck on his transition.

I guess being 40, he is grown up enough to know who he is and what he wants to be..leave him alone and best of luck to him.

ahhahah…hollywood babylon at its finest.

Whatever happened nto the sweet,cutelittle blond girlSonny&Cherhad?She turned into a big ,ole ****.Now,she is going all the way and become a man. Yikes!!! Gay is one thing, but be a pretty gay girl. Transvestikes like in feamle imperonatotrsis ont thing.Gender reclassification,reallymcalled a sex change,mis just weird.The thought of having your boobs cut off, a double masectonmy,is weird. Christina Applegate wishes she would not have to have done that for medical reasons, precancer. I feel sorry for Cher.

she doesn’t needa ***** to prove that she’s a man.

What MD would perform this surgery until she looses at least 60 lbs?

–And I predict that Chaz will have his own daytime TV show because of this.

(Following “Ellen” perhaps???) Rock On, Chaz!

I could care less about this one. I feel for her mom though…No matter how much she smiles for the media you know there is some deep hurt going on with Cher.

I can’t identify so I won’t judge but the question is curious, if she identifies with being a man then does she not become hetero now? So she is no longer gay right? Anyway, all people should have rights including transgender people. I just can’t understand it but maybe that is my own ignorance. Good for you Chaz! Good luck.

Jennifer looks like Amy Fisher, the Long Island Lolita…am I the only one who sees this resemblance?

I don’t believe in castration and butchering your body just because and invading your body with dangerous hormones that deforms cells in your body.

She will alwyas be a she becasue you are what your dna and your chromosomes are. How you choose to present yourself to society is something else all together.

I agree with some that she/he/it should rather go thru bypass surgery first because I think her most important issue is her wieght before anything. Then touch up those dark roots.

Chastity was such a cute little girl on “the sonny and cher show”. What the hell happened to cause this?

She will alwyas be a she becasue you are what your dna and your chromosomes are.
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That’s true. That’s why the “man” was able to have a baby. He stopped taking the hormones

jupi3, you ***** I never claimed to be god.

I am saying that before you call anyone else a sinner rexamine YOURSELF. Chances are that you are a sinner yourself (like 99.99% of “Christians”), idiot.

OMG is all I can say……

schoenedame @ 06/16/2009 at 7:34 pm

She was ugly as a woman, and she’ll be equally ugly as a man. Ick. How is anyone attracted to THAT?

Right now I am ashamed to be a human being living in the same world as all of you haters. Live and let live. I wish hm all the best. It should be everyone’s goal to live a 100% AUTHENTIC life. And by AUTHENTIC I mean true to ourselves and not what the world thinks we should be/do.. It must be a very lonely world for all of you who struggle to stay the perfect weight and to try to always maintain “Gender specific perfection”. I feel sorry for all of you.

@idiots - Everyone is hypocritical, including me, the guy who lives next door to me, that person who lives 10000 miles away, and you.

So a person has an opinion - you have one too, so let them have theirs.

I am shocked and appalled by some of the IGNORANT and bigoted replies to this thread.

First and foremost unless you have walked a mile in a person’s shoes you have NO room to speak. For you so called Christians… let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Christians like to throw the phrase “what would Jesus do?” around when it comes to gays and lesbians…. Jesus befriended the lowly and the outcast. Look at Mary Magdalane, look at the leper…

As far as Chaz goes, coming out isn’t an easy process, I should know! Struggling with who you are as a person isn’t a fun feeling. And then to know there are people like the majority who posted. That is why people stay closeted. That is why people don’t out and out say if they feel “trapped” in their body. Because of the gay bashing mentality that people have shown in their statements on this thread. I didn’t come out til I was 26 because of religious zealots who condemned me to hell. Forget the fact that I prayed for people who were sick, and saw them healed, or prayed for salvation of friends and family, and saw them come to the Lord.

For you people who want to say Chaz is a sinner, we are ALL sinners. however, there is one thing a person must do to be saved “Accept the Lord and acknowledge that Jesus died on the cross for your sins.” There is also ONE unforgivable sin. Blasphemy. By definition blasphemy is saying “there is no God.” A person can still be a homosexual and believe in Jesus and have Him as their personal savior. You people don’t know what Chaz’s beliefs are. Chaz is homosexual…. got a sex change… Good for him!

As one other poster said, a decision like this doesn’t happen over time. No Chaz may not have expressed to the public his desire for this change, but who’s to say it wasn’t mentioned to Cher or Elijah Blue or even Jen long before his 40th birthday? Kudos to Chaz for being true to what was inside of him! Best of luck to Chaz and Jen in this time of transition!

wow what a bunch of ignorant people , I think its great Cher’s daughter came out a long time ago. Promise you there already born this way, Who the hell would want the world to know how you people sound.
Chaz & Jen wish you nothing but happiness.As a man and woman.
All you people know how to do is hate. You should be judging yourselves , I leave my life up to God. As they will.

anyone that thinks they are a christian and agrees with this doesnt know the Lord He already made HER female . in the bible it says He made them male and female He didnt make a mistake maybe her mother that paraded half dressed before the world for the love of fame and fortune made the mistake i would hate to be femmy to if that was my role model chasity yo wont find what youre looking for under the knife cuz your real problem is deeper.

i dont get it, she’s was a lesbian and her girlfriend is a lesbian too, but now she’s becoming a man, so that makes her girlfriend straight….?????

YOUR ANALOGY IS SILLY. @ 06/17/2009 at 9:43 am

@idiots:

Chastity was not born with a medical defect or anomoly. She is a healthy woman. She is not ugly either. She has gained a lot of weight but that is it. I disagree with surgeons preying on the insecurities and mental instability of people including women who want breast implants etc. Surgeons are making a lot of money altering people who are perfectly fine.

Also, I would investigage the parents of transgendered children a little closer for child abuse. How do we not know some crazy mother is whispering in their child’s ear, you are supposed to be a girl/or boy? How many of these kids are really victims of muncshausen by proxy???

I really don’t think all this “freak” stuff does the gay people any good at all. Just when older people or “Christians” try to be “educated” gays get freakier and Christians become more convinced this IS NOT NORMAL and these people are freaks and mental cases. Its not even about being “Christian” anymore its about being a freakshow.

@debi:

Debi Im not going to turn this thread into a religious debate. I am simply going to say yes the bible does say that God created man and woman first. His plan was to repopulate the earth. He did that! However, if you do more than just read your bible and do some RESEARCH on biblical origins. You will learn that King James was a HOMOSEXUAL, because of the time period he was living in it was considered unnatural and he was ashamed, he was the one that added many of the “clobber” passages into the bible.

If you look at word origins and study meanings you will see that God’s true heart boils down to the fact that what is really an abomination to Him is idolatry and promiscuity. Yes, gays and lesbians alike can be promiscuous, but ya know what… so can straight people! As I stated before there is ONE unforgivable sin in the bible that is blasphemy which by definition is denying god with your lips.

And science has proven that humans are not the only creatures created with homosexual tendencies.

This was all stuff that I needed confirmation about before my own decision to come out. I’ve heard the voice of God, I feel His presence around me in my everyday life. I have seen His Shekinah glory reign down before me. It was God who showed me the answers that I sought out,. God who spoke to me using Romans Romans 1:21-31. It was God that spoke to me telling me that for me what was “natural” for me was to be with a woman. And it is God who loves me no matter what! And it is God who I believe will welcome me into His kingdom saying “Well done good and faithful servant”. How do I know this? You ask… Because there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus, and God is not the author of confusion. The bible is right, scripture interprets scripture… It did in my case. Shock of all shocks, God even used a straight person to tell me that He saw my heart and that I needed to be true to myself and accept myself as He accepted me.

Thankfully I have a good body of believers who accept me for who I am, and don’t judge me because I am lesbian. Sad that not enough Christian’s are like that in this day and age.

Again, best of luck to Chaz and Jen in this time!

and he who leads the children astray will have piles of coal heaped upon his head.

LOOK LET IT GO IF ANYBODY DONT LIKETHE DEAL ABOUT CHAZ THEN WE GOT TWO WORDS FOR YA S*CK IT

@Rhonda:

Ignorance is bliss Rhonda! Normal for you isnt normal for me. Normal is something that cant be defined, because THERE IS NO SUCH THING! Thats what people don’t get. Case in point… The woman sunday school teacher who rapes and kills a little girl. The devout husband and father who has an affair and kills his wife and children while they sleep. Watch the news, its all around us. Normal does not exist.

And if you are referencing my being told by a straight person to be true to myself… At the time I went up for prayer, it was an unspoken prayer request. Meaning I didn’t mention anything about being a lesbian or having those feelings. That was done on purpose, because if I had faith that God was going to answer my questions in earnest and knows my heart, then it would be confirmed, and it was. It was after all the confirmations that I received and the searching and the answers that I was able to come out to my congregation. Yes, there were a few that chose not to accept me, but the majority said “Um, we already knew that, and it doesn’t change who you are nor does it change the fact that you are saved and that God loves you. He made you for a purpose, and He doesn’t make mistakes.” For the longest time I felt as though He did make a mistake placing these feelings in me.

I was never sexually molested, nor was I coddled by my mother as most would assume. If we were to use the word “normal” in reference to my childhood, yea I was a happy kid and it was your average childhood. Yes I was the product of a divorce, however. I was close equally to my dad and my step mom and my brothers and sisters as I am to my mom and my step dad. In fact, my mom and my parents and their spouses are all close. My dad and his family are Jehovah’s Witness, yet for Christmas and Thanksgiving they come over here to have dinner.

I have a job, I pay my taxes, I have a home I have my beliefs, and a relationship with the Lord. I have family and friends who love me and accept me no matter what. I have my health, and all in all I have no complaints. Except for narrow-minded intolerant, bigotry.

“For God so loved (agape or unconditional love) the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

When Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment was, He said, “YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.” (Matthew 22:37) He then added that the second most important law was “YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.” Jesus said that the entire law was dependent upon these two commandments.

For all you Christians who have faith and belief in God who want to condemn Chaz or any other person that you deem not “normal” Think about that… Think about Christ’s words and the word “Whosoever”… It’s always said in that last nanosecond a person who has led the worst lifestyle (Murderer, rapist, molester… Hell even someone like Hitler) can be saved if they accept Christ on their death bed, and will enter the kingdom of God and be forgiven for anything. I KNOW Im covered by Christs blood.

Think about it…

liverwurst @ 06/17/2009 at 5:41 pm

He@idiots: “Christians” aren’t the only ones who believe in God.

liverwurst @ 06/17/2009 at 5:43 pm

Well while there in there, the Doctors should do some lypo too.

Ugh she needs to do some ‘Wellness’ for that fat ass of hers!

DO PEOPLE JUST GET BORED AND DECIDE TO CHANGE THEIR GENDER?

WHO HAS ENOUGH TIME TO SIT AROUND AND DECIDED WHETHER OR NOT THEY WANT TO BE A MAN OR A WOMAN…BIZARRE.

Skiing into a tree doesn’t sound too bad after all.

wow, im surprised at how ignorant the majority of these comments sound, not to mention how judgemental.
i just wanna know who put these people in judges robes?

lAdramaturg @ 06/17/2009 at 11:50 pm

fOR A SENSITIVE CONSIDERATION OF THIS TRANSFORMATION SEE playwright larry myers’ “bigfoot dates cher.” pLAYWRIGHT lARRY mYERS HAS REFASHIONED HIS DRAMA TO INCLUDE THE cHASTITY CONTROVERSY-IT IS A COMPASSIONATE CONCOCTION OF ANTHROPOLOGY SEXUAL CHNAGE PROCEDURE & THE VARIOUS STAGES OF cHER’S CAREER. FROM EARTH TO bIGFOOT FOR THE MONSTER FROM 60′S HIPPY TO GLAMOUR PUSS FOR cHER AND FROM FEMALE TO MALE FOR cHASTITY
IT IS AN IMAGISTIC STAGE WROK OF EVERYONE’S MOST PECULIAR JOURNEY

FREESPIRITACTORla @ 06/17/2009 at 11:56 pm

i PARTICPATED IN A READING OF pLAYWRIGHT lARRY mYERS
PLAY “bIGFOOT dATES cHER” IN hOLLYWOOD & i HEAR NOW ITS GOINNA BE DONE IN SAN fRANCISCO..ALOT OF POLIUTICAL WOMEN MIGHT WANT TYO EXECUTE ALL THE ROLES. i HEAR MYERS WANTS AN ALL TRANS CAST
THIS IS UNEXPLORED STAGE MATERIAL & mYERS WITH HIS POP CULTURE & MYSTIC SENSIBILITY IS THE ONE TO DO IT WITH TASTE & KNOW HOW..HE WON AWARDS FOR PLAYS IN nyc sAN f & hOLLYWOOD & HE S JUST THE ONE TO PUSH THEBUTTON..TO ZERO IN ON EVENTS & HAPENINGS & TRANSMUTE THEM INTO STAGE HAPPENINGS! lOOK FOR THUS GUYS & GALS & ALMOST GUYS & PAST GALS & WHATEVERS

So, will Chastity keep wearing makeup and earrings after becoming a man? i saw a photo on People magazine with ‘him’ wearing lip gloss, earrings, eyeliner, and groomed eyebrows. Not so macho.

@idiots:

You cannot compare a mentally challenged child, a child with a heart condition to what Chastity Bono is doing.

She is perfectly healthy and not happy with the way God mad her. It is wrong in God’s eyes. No one is judging her but basically stating that is not what God wants from his children.

No one is stupid or hypocritical. It is what it is.

I find this kind of disturbing. You were born a woman for a reason.

Good Chaz go on. Unlike other people, I don’t see you as a defective girl, but rather, I understand you are a helpless boy in the wrong body. Avoid all these religious hardliners and live your life to the fullest.
God sometimes creates these mistakes deliberately to let people suffer, so it’s not your fault. Why should you suffer when other people enjoy their lives to the fullest:? Go ahead.

@koj:

I still don’t understand why people should judge gender based on a biological sex of a person. Doesn’t there exist something called brain? The brain can ofcourse have a sex that does not match with the body’s sex- it’s a God’s creation though a little uncommon, and it must be respected. There is no harm in rectifying this anomaly to make life better. Not all men want to be dominant macho type and not all girls want to be submissive femme type, neither should something like this be ever expected.

yes, it’s possible for a DEPRESSED WOMAN to also opt to live in the opposite gender role. Chez may not be a man, but still it’s her decision to opt for sex change as he/she feels that will make him/her happier. So, why shouldn’t that be allowed? Why should he/she sacrifice so much for the sake of social ire? It’s not necessary that a person born in certain sex will be happy in that sex- maybe due to ttransgenderism or due to social factors. But whatever it is, is a valid decision, if taken with confidence. The world must accept that. Otherwise, it would be akin to discrimination between rich and poor or the fair and dark-skinned.

I think the main reason why Chaz is going for transition has less to do with wanting male organs or body etc. It’s mroe to do to project the self as a macho person rather than the feminine persona and that’s simpky because there is always a social demand to project oneself of either gender for every person. So, young boys act tough to show them as macho guys while girls deck up to show their femininity. Some go on fine and merrily with this fib nonsense but for some, it becomes more than a joke- it’s a serious slur on the person’s wishes. But society never listens to that. A feminine boy is ridiculed if he does not play sports while a girl is frowned at if she is rough tomboyish type (nowadays the femme man more than the boyish girl).
So, I guess, Chaz is going for this operation to project himself as the person he desires to be in his mind, the role he wants to play in the world, which happens to be male and not matching with the biological sex. There is nothing abnormal in it just because it’s uncommon. If society had allowed Chaz to adopt male role despite being in female body, such a need wouldn’t have arisen at all.

Skinflinter @ 10/09/2009 at 4:25 am

To those who say Chaz is going beyond God’s wishes, I wish to ask just one question- Do all guys enact their macho roles because they want to follow God’s desires? Or does it occur naturally?
Do girls want to be pure,soft,feminine due to God’s desire or it happens naturally to them?
If you feel the latter, then, what if the person does not experience these natural instincts as expected from him/her but naturally gets some opposite traits or desires?
How will he/she feel on being different from others? How will he/she lead a enjoyable life?
Also, if you say that this person is violating God’s will, do you all mean to say you are also subjected to such opposite sex desires, but you repress them due to God’s will? If you really don’t face these anomalies, then how do you claim to even understand the plight of the one who faces this?

@idiots: I feel sorry for her. How unhappy with yourself would you be to go through life hating and ignoring what you really are. God has made each of us unique and amazing. To throw part of that away because of confusion, ignorance, self loathing, or perversion is sad. You cannot change what you are by adding or subtracting a body part. Please look at the deeper issues If I said I was a “Persian architect” trapped in an americans body I would be locked up. I don’t hate her She is probably a nice person. Lets look at the truth and know she is a woman that had an operation. All the particulars I do not know. We are all looking for happiness, to fit in, to live our destiny. You must be whole and happy inside first the only place I have found that is in Christ Jesus.

u are an idiot @ 11/01/2009 at 7:19 pm

@idiots: well you are the idiot my dear. to have a sex change is a sin. so stop trying to judge and compare other health problems with ignorance of sex change. you are not a true Christian!

Chastity Bono looks grotesque. Cher must be mortified. All the so called “gender reassignment” in the world cannot change her DNA. She remains a female with XX sex chromosones. To be a male she would need to have XY sex chromosones, a feat which she will never accomplish. Why is she being referred to as “he” in the print media when she will always be female?

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