Jon Gosselin: The Wedding Ring is Off!

Goals, ideas, and dreams are not the same anymore. Jon’s goal=no kids around me as much as possible, partying every day and night, meet as many chicks as he wants(while it last, not too long), have little or no responsiblities whatsoever for the future, and lastly eat drink and be merry. Kate’s goal=take care of the kids for now and most importantly for their future no matter what. Jon=easy way out. Kate=maybe easy or hard but it’s all for the kids. People, this is the bottom line, even if you like or dislike any of these two people, this is the way I see it.

they must be pissed that MJ died - no attention on the Gosselins for a while..until kate schemes up something new to get ratings

So cute…those kids each carryng a bottle of apple juice!

Don’t want to defend any of them Denise, but the way I have observed through this show and the tabliods NEITHER of them really 100% cared that much fheir children’s welfare, but the way I see it, Kate cares about the kids more than Jon. Jon is for sure immature, selfish, and really couldn’t care less about his kids, but at least Kate has some COMMEN sense on what is best for her children. She’s looking far ahead, and Jon is only thinking about the now and how, what is most important for him.

I have to agree, neither of them has been good parents but it seems to be Kate who is at least leading a stable life and putting her kids first.

Look at Jon. Gets his ears pierced, is shown leaving his girlfriends house in the early hours while he was still married, buys a 2 seater car and a 1 bedroom bachelor pad. Where is the thought to HIS KIDS in any of this? Cleary he DOES NOT think of them when he’s not with them. There is no planning, no forthought to the future with them. He just lives in the moment and for himself.

The reason Jon’s style is different is because he’s FINALLY out from underneath that control witches thumb.

Quite a team of not-a-nannies Kate has.

Man, Jon should live up to his Korean heritage and put Kate into submission. White woman like that needs to be put on a leash!

Hmm, Jon’s been working a new apple juice sponsor with Jared involved. Do you get kick-backs too for mentioning the brand, Jared?

I was pulling for them.. but now after the utah trip with deanna, the 2 seater car, the trump tower apartment, the non-communication or willingness to try and fix things with his marriage… I hope she gets it ALL! The best part is, she will write another book, it will make NYT best seller list AGAIN, the money will come in and he won’t see a dime of it! Then he can go back to his job.. oh wait, that’s right he doesn’t HAVE one! Nor does he have any college education/degree to help him GET one! Maybe he should have embraced the education side of college life instead of the binge drinking and partying side of it!

@ Katerocks -

Jon gets HALF, you idiot!
Just because in one episode she looked out the kitchen window and said, “all this is mine!” it doesn’t make it so.
Half of TLC payment, half of her book tours, and half of every signature on her portrait she charged for.
You are typical of all the other man-haters on this blog, frothing at the mouth for no valid reason.
You and your ilk are pathetic!

The nanny looks like she’d make a much better mom than Kate. Jon should hook up with her.
Oh wait, look at all the chub Jon has put on. The nanny is too cute for him.

besides, until your divorce is final, YOU”RE STILL MARRIED, guy.

With all that has happened in the last 2 days. Who really gives a f**k about this sad excuses for parents and the future messed up kids. Turn off the cameras and let the kids alone!!!!

It’s not that people hate men, it’s that we hate little non-men that pretend to be men. Jon is a loser. Face it. If you’re a man, why would you want to side with someone who makes all men look like jerks? Kate is not evil. She is a strong woman who does what she thinks is right for her FAMILY- earning money. Oh, and people… Jon is the one who needed a babysitter to help watch those kids. She hired the woman for him. So, stop with the same stupid nanny rumors. All the same crap on that hate site are getting old. Kate is a good woman that can be a little harsh. Anyone would be that way if you had to deal with a childish, nonmotivated spouse every single day. I can just hear, “Daddy. Why don’t you work like other daddies? My friends say you’re lazy (deadbeat).” He said he didn’t want to do the show but now he says he’ll continue. No company in their right mind would hire such a loser.

for all your haters out there….KATE ISNT THE PROBLEM !
Woohoo yeah she may be a huge b***** but think about it,
maybe this isnt the first time jons cheated one her but this
is the first time the cheatings been so publicised. So if you
had eight kids with him and got cheated on you’d be acting
the same way she is. && shes the one who cares about the
kids because quiet frankly if jon cared, he wouldnt be looking
in trump towers when he has 8 kids ?!!! so all you haters out
there trying to bring kate down, you’re acting worse than she
does because you don’t give up that shes a strong mother who
will do anything to raise her family right…..and maybe shes so
in love with her HUSBAND that she wants to make things right
so she’ll do all the public stunts to win him off COLLEGE GIRLS!

think about it, if you were her you’d be mad too.

I know they have both probably done wrong in this but its too bad this society always sees divorce as an option. Too bad for their and the kids sake they wouldn’t atleast TRY counseling first. I would like to see them work it out and quit the show for the mental health of all involved. And YES They should both still wear their wedding rings until if at all, it is dissolved. Hope they read these posts!

See Jon , you gotta give a woman the backhand every once in a while, or hit her upside the head with a smoothie( an iron for the ebonicly challenged). It’s what they want, actually beg for, to keep them in line and show ‘em who’s in charge. If you had only popped Kate one in the beginning she and her uneducated fat white trash fans would respect you. Let this be a lesson to all men; you can’t out argue a woman because that is what they live for, you need to end it quick with the backhand.

I DONT GET IT! KATE IS THE ENEMY HERE!

Jon has done nothing wrong! What “mistakes” has he made? Going out with a friend?! If he didn’t cheat, he should have. Kate’s been nagging at him since the beginning! He deserves better than this! He even said he doesn’t like the publicity! It’s all Kate! Leave the guy alone!

He loves his kids and stays home with them instead of going to book signings like Kate.

I love Jon! And I support him 100%

You go Kate!!! a dishonest security guard is a good ketch in my neck of the woods. ….is his name Steve? I…. he left his own wife an kids an hides in plain site wit you don’t he?……….He’s a clever one. What a classy older man he is…but I don’t thing he’ll be bodyguardin’ much in the future for swipin’ , Like my cousin Earl who took his job at KFC and their commercial littrally…..he took the the bucket of chicken….. y’know….. ” Get a Bucket Of Chicken it’s Finger Li…you know the rest….He got fired and can’t get a job. He guarded the chicken from others, just not himself ….. You go gurl, and GOD bless you and your litlle SE Asians

is this train wreck still going
i predict kate is gonna do something stupid she’s gonna regret
she seems like like drinking type when it gets rough, so just w8 for it

I agree with #25 if you are the really Jon Gosselin I have lost all respect for you, you are still married. I never missed an episode and thought Jon was a great dad, but after the bar, pictures of a female at the family home, Utah and rumors of the plastic surgeons daughter I don’t feel he has the best interest of his children only his physical needs. To say all the nasty things about the media, but turn around and accept all the freebie the shows has made possible is just being a two faced person. To the person who slams Kate for filing for divorce, she only did it after Jon told her he had found a lawyer (top notch Phil. lawyer) and she better find one also.

Do we know the brand name of Kate’s plastic boobies?

@Denise:

Kate was the sole caregiver for ALL 8 children until 2 years ago when Jon quit his job to FINALLY start shouldering some of the responsibility.

And as for the dogs, Kate wanted to cage them for ONE hour while she fed her kids at a picnic…on the ground, you know? Maybe you aren’t aware, but dogs will help themselves to the food if it is on the ground.

Jon is going through an early mid-life crisis. He cheated on his wife. Period. If you don’t think he did, you are naive. He wants to be a part-time father, so he can have a good time with no responsibility. He is unable to support his family financially or emotionally. Everyone has been pointing that out and his ‘masculinity’ is in question so he is angry and taking it out on the one person who takes care of his children AND pays all the bills - Kate!

Be another delinquent dad, Jon, Kate is intelligent and capable enough to be Mom and dad and you will continue to humiliate yourself and have no one left to blame.

Taking off the ring isn’t going to get you back on the front page of anything now Jon…haha

I have been carrying the burden of providing for this entire family since the time the twins were born. So if I want to relax in front of my dream house that I earned & paid for then I can!!! I deserve to get a break and have some free help since Jon never does ANYTHING for anyone but himself!! I’m just trying to take care of the kids and give them all the opportunities in life that I never had. If Jon hadn’t screwed everything up we wouldn’t be in this state of turmoilness about what’s going to happen in the future.

@Lori: Lori Jon hasent worked in years him and kate pimp the kids out.

TEAM MADY, CARA, ALEXIS, HANNAH, AADEN, COLIN, LEAH, JOEL!

Jon & Kate - Stop the show.

I honestly think that these two people lost focus on what is trully important in life, which is God is first and everything else is secondary. I hope one of them realize this and get their act together. They are not that young anymore and walk the walk instead of talk the talk for their children. Anyways, that’s what I hope happens.

Kate is quite an accomplished celebrity:

supreme reality realist no doubt, hanging to the truth with tenacity

not put off by appearances

no false guilt, has not faulted herself once for her family’s problems

won the competetion to be better provider, her private kids interest, its not her job to promote Jon, poor Jon didnt even have a book ghost written.
Godforbid this appearance could change to a different situation or opportunity then Kate gasp would get all the crap she dished out.
Had Kate not promoted books what would the better provider judgement be? Who decided she would work outside the house? and he could not?

shows a gipsy spirit

it is her job to find the answers so Jon remains clueless

successfully stalked a man

Successfully put boundries on husband and is foot loose and fancy free

He may want company and not intimacy, or intimacy and not company she decides

to get the precise thing or things that he wants, he has to take a lot of other things that he doesn’t want–that no sane man, in truth, could imaginably want

bargained in which he gets the worse of it

talent for persuasion, intimidation and survival

sold a delusion, and so cut off his retreat

compromised his own honest inclinations and best interests and the kids

Betrayal? (she can’t sue for adultry now can she) She told him to primp and discreetly parade after she decoyed and bamboozled her guard, raising her amorous eyes even higher.

Breaking up a marriage (bodyguard is legally divorced now)

encouraged deception

Putting Jon at the center of helpless pityfull situations hen henpecking him

Assumed the throne as center of attention and overwhelming crocodile tears.

Asks then answers her own questions in interviews.

Changing her modesty and looks and Jon mocked her changing his

distancing herself from her sons (guess they look like dad)

Self proclaimed failure unwilling to compromise or get counseling.

Horrrified the hired help

Glorified mother must even sell the image that she has to mother her husband

Disowned her parents, siblings, and friends, gloats being the black sheeple, nobody lives up to her standards and taste’s

2nd wedding vows in Hawaii oh so sentimental mockery
.
Puts unrealistic limits on Jon, then does as she pleases

Belittles other show guests

Agreement husband cannot work outside the home until TLC contract ends .

ego tripping and make husband sorry when he is around

house write off as home business tax deduction

She spends in proportion to her looks, beauty fashion and mood, files divorce to stop Jon spending money

competes with Conan O’brian hair flip

flash’s to whoever, whenever

explotation of birth control

take off work for up to 6 seasons after each pregnancy during TLC contract if not forever

Went from broke to net worth over 10 million in 5 years

hostess with the mostest

A women of leisure and freedom to improve her mind and writings

courage in the face of novel and disconcerting situations

penetrating and dominating character

resilience in the face of special difficulties

master of intuitive appearances over substance and reality

Both like Columbus found new land in the new world. What started as multiple situations and appearances after 3 seasons turned to forced appearances in a unrealistic situation.

Jon has sentimentality for situations and Kate has unlimited women intuition for keeping up appearances and self- possesions and a mighty meanness resisting any emotional suggestions from Jon.

The End prevails.

Dibbs to be godparent for the next child.

Kate cheated on her mild mannered and loving husband Jon with BG Steve, Mr. Grey. It will come out in divorce proceedings. It was the last straw with Jon who decided to stand up for himself and not waste the rest of his life on this woman. Jon will remain calm and collected as is his nature and in the long run he will triumph with genuine love. His children will grow up with him in their lives and they will be drawn to him.

Save that ring and have it made into a nose ring for Kate the Pig. suuuey

@Katerocks:

THANK U!!!! God i HATE Jon. At first i thought he was the better parent bc he was so calm and laid back, but look at him now! He’s a HORRIBLE dad. People need to understand that Kate is Gr8! ( they sell shirts that say that :) lolz )

I think Jon and Kate Gosselin should have tried harder. ..Watch the older episodes they did love one another you could see it and they still do I believe. I think Jon is going thru a mid life crisis and wants to try and recapture his youth he keeps saying “Im only 32″ and your an adult act like one. Communicate… Spend more time with your wife and less time with women in bars that may not have given you any attention if you were not famous. LIke she didn’t want some of the fame and attention as well as you see her ugly face smiling in the pictures. She should hold he head down in shame being with a married man. She is distgusting. A married man who tends to hang with his single friends tends to act as though he is single.Thinks about it what If John were ordinary or poor with 8 kids and a wife.. Would they still want him with that child support bill? I think he got very cocky with his fancy cars and American Chopper bike. and hair plugs. I think Kate is genuinely hurt and wanted it to work I think she is angry and misses Jon already. I feel that he was more rude and disrespectful to her on the show than she was to him. I think she was just being sarcastic. He seems to resent her. He said ” I don’t hate Kate”, but he acts like it. You went thru all that trouble to have eight beautiful children (if you wanted the other six at the time or not) is not the point they are here a marriage is work and he thinks now its time to just walk away. Like you didn’t know you’d become a celeb. thru this. Kate is trying to bring the best future to her children… Eight kids to put thru college is very expensive and is it really any different than those mom who put there children in beauty pagents or who put their children into acting or modeling at a young age. I see moms all the time spank, yell at, pull the arm of their kids all the time or deny them something it isn’t any different she is a mother and is going to mother! The only difference is she is being followed by cameras and pictures are being taken of her every move. Who are we to judge her. all the negative statements are towards her. I saw an episode where Jon hit Maddy as she was getting rude with her mother and another where he was screaming at the kids like a crazy man, but no one seemed to notice or mention than. Kate is a beautiful woman and Jon’s loss is someone elses gain. I think she wants to be with him too bad they couldn’t work it out. What comes around goes around Jon! Remember that and If it were not for your wife and kids you wouldn’t have the extravogant life you have with all your toys and expensive apartments and trashy women. She bore 8 of your children and you take just as much advantage of the situation as you and others claim Kate does. Man up to it. I had nothing but admiration for you in the begining now I cannot stand you and you don’t care I know but I pay you Mr. by watching you and I just think your rotten now. Twisting things around saying Kates having an affair to take eyes off you your horrid. I was evident On thke chopper episode when Jon kept saying I want a solo seat to have my freedom and ride alone… Then tried to cover it up by saying I wanna have all 8 kids names on it c’mon Yeah I see Jon loves his kids but he Hhurt t hem and Kate and thats wrong. Remember ladies once a cheat …. They usually do it again cause they always seem to think the grass is greener on the other side but it isn’t and you don’t know what you’ve got till its gone. I thought Jon and Kate were very good together… Awe well Be strong Kate I’d watch the show if it were just you and the kids I’d love to watch if it were all of you but I refuse to watch Jon plus 8 all though the kids are great they are so cute, smart and funny. You can clearly tell they are healthy, loved, happy and love Their parents. (together) But together or not they love them you can see. maybe some distance will make Jon’s heart grow fonder of KAte and they can try again I hope anyhow. If you love your kids so much why move to NY why not stay close waht if there were an emergency I would wanna be as close as possible. Parents are supposed to live for their children. Parental pleasures should take second fiddleto the kids apparently Jon doesnt see it that way. What a shame.. So sad. With the death’s of Michael Jackson, Farah Faucett and Ed McMahon. You would think Death would make them realize how prescious every moment together they have is. It was Selfish not to try harder to make it work to make compromises to communicate. Talk to each other, have fun together, spend time together alone and with your kids. Have faith and laugh. Be friends and like one another. It can work. Where there is Love there is hope there is always hope! There was love and hope and now you have eight beautiful children. Jon, Kate, Maddy, Cara, Aiden, Colon, Joel, Alexis, Leah, Hannah… Be kind Love, Talk to, Care for and be there for one another. Fight for what you want and be Strong Kate. God Bless.

Keith Whitley
A Day In The Life Of A Fool
Morning comes and I’m alone …
It’s been a year since you’ve been gone
But it seems like yesterday ,you said goodbye
I’m finding ways to pass the time ,so i wont lose my mind
But my every waking hour I think of you
That’s just a day in the life of a fool
The one who’s holding out for only you
Knowing all along your love for me is THROUGH
It’s just a day in the life of a fool

You would think I’d learn by now , to forget it all some how .
But my favorite memories were made with you
So every moment that I have , I live them in the past
Even though theres no way back to where we were

Thats just a day in the life of a fool
The one who’s holding out for only you
Knowing all along your love for me is true
It’s just a day in the life of a fool
It’s just a day in the life of a fool

It is really disgusting how our society puts these talentless, superficial, greedy idiots up on a pedestal. They managed to destroy their marriage and well-being of their children, all in the name of the almighty dollar. If these two had any real concern for their children and their mental stability they would turn into recluses and go somewhere far far away from the media attention. Why not leave the country for a few weeks and go somewhere private so everyone can cope with this? It is not like they don’t have the wealth…

Somehow I suspect they will continue the show even though they are no longer together so they can keep raking it in. In 15 years their children can release a tell all book to make some money because I am sure Kate will have spent all their earnings by then. What a joke.

Kate is a fraud!!!

I ♥ Jon

Oh, come on.

Flip the picture!! Gee whiz.

@Candice: Jon takes care of the kids all the time. Kate is the one who needs nannies and helpers.

@Payson: The picture is flipped. So stupid.

@not a jond fan: Debbie!! is that you???

m jackson, was pimped out as a kid look what happened to him he was so fd up his whole life because his parents pimped him out. Kate &Jon a lazy they need to get jobs and stop pimping there kids out. Or there going to end up screwed up like the other child movie stars.

i think its pretty low to insult the children.

i hope the show is done with for good… but to all those complaining that Jon does all the work… have you forgotten for the first 3-4 years of the tups lives that Kate was the one that stayed home with them all day and took care of them? i’m not saying that they each don’t have bad qualities, but why was that ok and now because Jon’s been the one staying home everyone is hating on Kate.

it’s just a bit hypocritical.

#35
If any man ever hit me,he better hope he’s a light sleeper,because I’ll cut his b*lls off. For those of you that are overly ebonicly infused that means I’d cut those bad boys off in a second & I’d make him eat them. Im an adult & Im white which seems to be an issue for you. The reason you can’t argue with women is because you’re not equipped with the tools it would take to make a coherent point. If a man hits me,he better pray that he killed me,because karma’s a bi*tch & so am I. He’d never have a peaceful life again. He thinks he was miserable when he was with me,he hasn’t seen anything yet!

Oh the kids seem to smile alot more with “Not-A-Nanny” than Not-A-Mom.

HE LOOKS LIKE A SQUIRREL MONKEY. THE ONLY COMPANY OFFERING JON A JOB IS MCDONALDS AND BURGER KING!!!! YAY JON
WAY TO GO TIGER, YOU AND YOUR PIERCED EARS. LMAO
BWAHAA…BLAH.

#15-
Good grief you blasted knuckle dragger! I bet there’s restraining orders all over the country on you. The only thing a woman will ever need from you,regardless if she’s white,black,purple or green, is a lot of space & a whole lot of distance away from you.

#29
No my dear Kate is evil. I think you’ve got “strong woman” confused with “bi*ch”. Saying that Kate’s “a little harsh” is like saying Jon’s “a smidge asian”. Are you sure you’re watching the same show as everyone else? You’re perception of reality seems a little askewed. You said “I can just hear, “Daddy. Why don’t you work like other daddies?” I can just hear “Mommy why are you such a greedy bi*ch?”

#47- Well if you don’t think Kate’s been spread eagle with bodyguarding Steve then you’re just as naive.

@Helena:

Are you nuts? Are you watching the same show as the rest of us? Kate is in it for herself and no other. The kids are her means to more money, not because she’s being responsible. Get real!

#100- So when Kate was staying at home when they lived in the old house,you were fine with that? “Has he written books, done speaking engagements, done the press interviews?” He has been home with the kids so she is able to do all that,you moron! You’d be happier if while she’s gone the kids were with nannies all the time? Kate needs to leave the bikinis alone,drop the suntan oil,get that dead raccoon off her head & be a mom! That’s a role she plays very little. Where are the police when she’s beating the he*l out of her kids in the driveway? Kate herself said that she does the press stuff because Jon doesn’t like doing speeches or interviews. You said “Enough of the stay at home dad routine”. If the roles were reversed would you say “Kate needs to get a job. Enough of the stay at home mom routine”? No. You’d probably be griping because he’s gone on the road so much. You can deny it all you want, but it seems you’ve got some “man issues” that have nothing to do with Jon Gosselin. Somebody named Maryann has been DUMPED! So sad,yet quite amusing!

Kate is an educated and together lady who has her priorities straight. Jon needs to get out of the bars, out of other women’s beds and lay off the pot. I agree with the other comments, this guy is a LOSER. You go Kate!

@karen: #103- Kates priorities.. #1. Go on as many book tours as possible #2. See kids as little as possible each month #3. Wear “hooker” heels everytime in public. #4. Get pic taken beating 5 year old. #5. Get 100’s of bikinis & wear all the time even though look bad in them #6. Gripe about pap,but make a mad dash out front every morning to get pic took #7. Run all family & friends off #8. Go on book tour,even though not the only author #9- Get on every mag cover & play victim in the story #10. Get bodyguard to “spread eagle” with #11. Kill coon & wear on head like a hairdo. #12. Run soon to be ex,into the mud whenever possible. #13. Get info on how to look like you’re crying,when you’re really not. #14. Transform self into the most revolting human walking the earth. #15. Make self the butt of every joke #16. Act like enjoy being with the kids,when not true #17. Tan body until resemble a piece of chicken from KFC #18. Wear ridiculous floppy hats all the time #19. Laugh like a hyena to appear more likeable. There’s a partial list of Kates priorities

@cal: Actually, I don’t think it’s “man-haters”. It’s more strong woman-haters. Kate had to be the strong one in the relationship. Jon, despite being fun, is an overgrown child. Sure the kids look like they are having more fun with him. Kate’s too busy working, cleaning, shopping and doing laundry to be out in the yard amusing the kids. As a mother, I understand that sometimes being “fun” isn’t necessarily part of the job of having well developed and healthy children.

Why is it that strong women are always described as emasculating witches? If he was any sort of man, her strength would empower him.

Has no one else ever barked orders? With a load of kids and responsibilities, any one could get testy with a man who preferred to spend his time at a bar with bimbos.

As a fan of the show, I always liked Jon, but, now, I think Kate’s better without him. He’s too young to be having a midlife crisis! However, mostly, I just feel sorry for all of them.

@hero: #106- No, 10doll has “Kate’s a self important bit*h & Jon’s a spineless,no balls wimp” issues.

He’s freaking 32. What he is doing with a 23 year old. He need to grow up!!! He needs to keep his family together. He should stop complaining about how his wife belittled him and have some balls! He is acting like a baby. God, I hate middle age men going through middle age crisis.

I am so annoyed how Kate and Jon thinks that this is the best things for the kids. I mean really!? it really helps your kids to get divorced. Also if you watch the episode of where the are getting ready to leave for Hawaii to renew her vows, she tells her kids twice that once they renew there vows they will never leave eachother. That they will be together forever. And now I can never watch that episode because she even said it twice! I mostly feel bad for the kids. Like if the other kids at Maddy and Cara’s school found out about the afairs they could make fun of them and then Cara and Mady would start hating their dad. Also I hate Jon;s attitude to all of this. Like in the season premiere he just had this disgusted look on his face. UH! I just dont likeJon. Also, I do not believe that Kate had a affair with her body guard. She might be a nag but she wouldn’t do that. You even have it on tape she is with her kids all the time. Where would she have it if she is watching her kids even if she got a baby sitter the kids would find her in the house aventually. There is no way she could have time or a place to have the affair. And that is my personal oppinion!